BIOLOGY OF SEX FOR PARENTS AND TEACHERS BY T. W. GALLOWAY, Ph.D. ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR OF EDUCATIONAL ACTIVITIES, AMERICAN SOCIAL HYGIENE ASSOCIATION; FORMERLY PROFESSOR OF ZOOLOGY, JAMES MILLIKIN UNIVERSITY, DECATUR, ILL. AUTHOR OF " TEXT BOOK OF ZOOLOGY "; " SEX AND LIFE "; " SEX FACTOR IN HUMAN LIFE "; " USE OF MOTIVES IN MORAL AND RELIGIOUS EDUCATION"; ETC. REVISED D. C. HEATH & CO., PUBLISHERS BOSTON NEW YORK CHICAGO Copyright, 1913 and 1922, by D. C. HEATH & COMPANY 2E 2 PRINTED IN U.S.A. To MY WIFE AT ONCE MY MOST SYMPATHETIC AND EFFECTIVE CRITIC - THIS BOOK IS DEDICATED THE AUTHOR FOREWORD TO FIRST EDITION When those meet who have given much thought to the question of the need of proper sex instruction for our children, there is little time taken in arguing that such instruction is desirable or necessary at the hands of parents and teachers. The questions which are now being considered by teachers are rather these: - What subjects should be included in this in- struction? In what order should they come? Where should the emphasis be put? At what period in the child's life should each topic be presented for best results? Who should do the teaching, and under what circumstances? In a word, How and in what spirit? In every discussion of the matter, after pointing out what may be done in college and in high school, or even in the grades, by teachers properly equipped with knowledge, earnestness, and insight, the attention is always brought back to the fact that all this comes too late, if nothing has been done before. Before any outside teacher can come to the help of the child, important preparatory work must be done by the parents in the earliest years. If sex instruction is to amount to anything worth while, it must begin, and all its foundations be laid, in the home. Furthermore, at every stage in the life of the youth efficient parents should have a closeness of approach which no one else can gain, and should supplement the work of others at every step. Otherwise they are failing in parenthood. It is the purpose of the writer in the present book, the ma- terial of which was first delivered as a series of talks to meet- ings of mothers and teachers, to bring before parents and teachers some idea of the biological, social, and moral foun- v vi FOREWORD dations which must underlie all this work and something of the spirit which must characterize it. It is not the purpose of the writer to give in detail all the facts for which a parent may find need. There is an increasing literature in which these may be found. The problem at the present moment is one of method and spirit rather than of matter; - "how" rather than "what." How can we take the known facts, which are easy enough for any adult to get, and use them in such a way as to do good rather than harm to the boys and girls at the various stages of their development? Because the writer believes cordially that there is a sane solution to the problem, and that parents and teachers have, in the phenomena of sex as these bear upon character, some most valuable and constructive pedagogical materials, which in the past have been either neglected or used spasmodically, he presents this brief study of the subject. T. W. G. James Millikin University, Decatur, Illinois, June 30, 1913. PREFACE TO THE REVISED EDITION In the years following the first issue of this book the ques- tion of sex education has received much attention. The very obvious weaknesses of the policy of leaving the sex training of young people to the older children, the servants, the de- generates, the literature of lewdness, and to the greed of the unscrupulous among theatrical and moving picture promoters have been largely recognized. Various half-considered efforts have been made to introduce sex education wholesale into the schools, mostly with hurtful effects. More important than these trials, however, have been the numerous quiet experi- ments here and there in the colleges and high schools in con- nection with appropriate regular courses; and the many re- ports from parents, who in their own homes have undertaken to aid their children to reach sound ideas, tastes, attitudes, and habits relative to sex. Then came the war. In meeting the emergency created by the war the government, aided by many voluntary agencies, undertook to diminish the threat of venereal diseases for the fighting men. This called into the social hygiene movement as never before the legal agencies for the diminution of pros- titution, the medical and health agencies for the prevention and cure of the venereal diseases, the general community agencies for the guidance of leisure time, and the educational agencies to furnish knowledge and to create opinion that would check the incidence of these diseases and the causes of them. Most of the emphasis during and immediately after the war has thus been upon the sex diseases and sex hygiene. While this emergency work was necessary, it has had some unfortunate vii viii PREFACE educational results. It has caused many workers in the field to think that prostitution and venereal diseases and other pathological sex phenomena are the normal and important problems of sex for the human race. Worse still it has alien- ated from the whole movement of sex education many who feel that this is not a sound or a helpful view of sex in life. Both because of this backwash of war activities and be- cause the total result has been to increase consciousness of and interest in the whole matter of sex, the author feels that the original emphasis given in this book is needed, and prom- ises even more hopefully now, than when it first appeared. The object in sex education is to improve such normal sex relations as are suggested by the terms boys and girls, men and women, courtship and marriage, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, homes and family life. We cannot afford to allow mastur- bation, illicit sex relations, prostitution, illegitimacy, white slavery, venereal diseases, or divorce to replace these in our thought or in our educational plans. T. W. G. American Social Hygiene Association, New York City, Dec. 15, 1921. CONTENTS CHAPTER PAGE I. The Actual Conditions i i. Introduction, i. 2. Increased Understanding of the Meaning of Sex, 1. 3. Two Kinds of Human Facts, 2. 4. The Normal Up-building Values of Sex, 3. 5. The Destructive and Unwholesome Aspects of Sex, 4. 6. The Redemption of the Sex Idea, 5. 7. The Policy of Silence and its Failures, 6. 8. The Value of Sound Knowledge, 7. 9. The Limitations of Mere Knowledge, 8. 10. Summary, 9. II. An Investigation 11 1. Introduction, n. 2. Questions, n. 3. Results, 12. 4. Discussion of Results, 13. 5. Summary of Conclusions, 16. III. Some Principles Which Must Guide Sex In- struction 17 1. Introduction, 17. 2. The First Necessity is "Mo- tivation" of the Teacher, 18. 3. The Second Necessity is the Preparation of Parents and Teachers, 19. 4. The Third Necessity is the Proper Grading of Sex-In- struction, ig. 5. Sex-Instruction Must Be Different for Boys and Girls, 20. 6. Sex-Instruction Should Follow Curiosity, 21. 7. Sex-Instruction Should Pre- cede the Actual Need of It, 22. 8. Use the Favoring Qualities of Personality, 24. 9. Sex-Instruction Should be Incidental to Other Teaching, 25. 10. The Meth- od Must Be Emotionally Satisfying, 26. n. Know- ledge of the Biology of Sex Not Enough, 28. 12. There Must be a Sane and Wise Division of Labor in Sex-Instruction, 29. IV. Reproduction and Unselfishness 33 1. Biology of Sex for Parents and Teachers, 33. 2. The Construction of the Individual, 34. 3. Rela- ix CONTENTS X CHAPTER PAGE tion of Reproduction to this Process, 34. 4. Illus- trations of Reproduction, 35. 5. Further Sacrifices Growing out of Reproduction, 38. 6. Summary, 39. V. Sex and Selfishness 41 1. Introduction of Fertilization, 41. 2. The Intro- duction of Sex, 42. 3. The Meaning of the Sexes, 44. 4. The Attraction of the Sexes, 46. 5. The Selfishness of Sex, 47. 6. Relation between Repro- duction and Sex, 47. 7. These Principles Applied to Human Life, 48. VI. Sex in Relation to Normal Human Physical and Mental Development 50 1. Introduction, 50. 2. The Differences Between Male and Female in Humans, 51. 3. The Relation of Sex to These Bodily and Mental Developments, 53. 4. The Relation of Sex to the Normal Development of the Human Male, 55. 5. The Relation of Sex to the Normal Development of the Human Female, 56. 6. The Abnormal Aspects of Sex in Human Beings, 57. 7. Special Abuses of Sex in Men, 58. 8. The Abnormal Aspects of Sex in Women, 60. 9. Sum- mary, 67. VII. The Mental, Social, and Moral Bearing of Sex 68 1. The Relation of Sex to Mental Life, 68. 2. Sex and Social Life, 70. 3. Abnormal Influences of Sex in Society, 71. 4. The Moral Bearings of Sex, 75. 5. Human Standards to Protect Social Morals, 76. 6. The Inner Personal Morals, 78. 7. Incentives Leading to Self-Control, 79. 8. Sex and Religion, 83. 9. Summary, 83. VIII. The Central Place of the Home and Family 85 1. The Biological Foundations of the Home, 85. 2. Producing and Rearing Children the First Function of the Home, 85. 3. The Home the Basis of our So- cial Structure, 86. 4. The Central Problem of Hu- CONTENTS XI CHAPTER PAGE man Social Health, 86. 5. The Early Home Drama in Education, 88. 6. The Home is at Stake in this Problem, 90. 7. Substitutes for Marriage and the Monogamous Home, 91. 8. The Weakness of the Substitutes, 93. 9. Where the Solution Lies, 94. IX. Eugenics 95 1. The Problem of Human Improvement, 95. 2. The Essential Contention of the Eugenist, 96. 3. The Penalty of Poor Matings, 98. 4. The Things that Influence Birth, 99. 5. Hereditary Transmis- sion of Taints, 100. 6. Congenital Infections, 102. 7. Social and Economic Incapacity, 102. 8. Rela- tion of these Conditions to Human Marriage, 103. 9. Other Reforms Made Necessary by these Facts, 104. X. Time and Manner of Instruction 106 1. Introductory, 106. 2. The Matter of Instruc- tion, 106. 3. The Spirit and Aim of Sex Education, 107. 4. The Periods of the Child's Life as They Re- late to Sex-Instruction, 108. 5. The Early Stage: from Birth to 4 or 5 Years, 109. 6. The Prepubertal Stage: from 7 to 11 or 12 Years, in. 8. The Pubertal State: from 11 or 12 to 14 or 15 Years, 113. 9. Post- pubertal or Late Adolescent Stage: from 15 to 22 or 24 Years, 115. Summary, 117. XI. Graded Problems and Projects in Sex Edu- cation 119 1. Sex Problems and How to Use Them, 119. 2. "Projects" and Their Grading, 120. 3. A list of Such Problems and Projects, 121. 4. Examples of Project Education in Sex, 124. 5. Summary, 148. LIST OF ILLUSTRATIONS PAGE Figure i. Reproduction by simple cell division (Para- mecium) 36 Figure 2. Reproduction in simple cell by budding (Yeast) yj Figure 3. Reproduction by budding in many-celled organism 37 Figure 4. Many-celled organism reproducing by simi- lar, one-celled offspring (Spores) 38 Figure 5. Many-celled organism reproducing by simi- lar, one-celled offspring which unite (Gametes) 41 Figure 6. Reproduction in which a single parent produces two kinds of offspring, - eggs and sperm 43 Figure 7. Reproduction in which the male parent pro- duces one kind of offspring and the fe- male parent another kind 44 Figure 8. The sex glands and ducts in the male 59 Figure 9. The position of the pelvic organs in the female; side view 65 Figure io. The relation of ovary and uterus; ventral view 66 Figure ii. Flower of lily (Section) 130 Figure 12. Fertilization in the lily 131 xiii BIOLOGY OF SEX CHAPTER I THE ACTUAL CONDITIONS 1. Introduction. - A new book on a subject like this must first justify its existence to the reader. This chapter undertakes to do this. In the meantime the writer wishes to make a few simple statements of fact for the encourage- ment of the serious parent or teacher. (1) The problem of sex, as it bears on human education in character and on conduct and welfare, is one of the most practical and important that we are called on to solve. (2) On the whole it has been the most neglected, ignored, and abused side of our human education. (3) For several years there has been on foot a very defi- nite and promising movement among educators, social workers, and other thoughtful people to take up the prob- lem in a scientific and humane way. This is one of the most hopeful educational movements of the new century, and has in fact made striking progress in America since the century began. 2. Increased Understanding of the Meaning of Sex. - During the last seventy-five years science has been discov- ering the principles that have made it possible for our inven- tors to construct the telegraph, the telephone, the phono- graph, and other devices that mean so much in our material 1 2 BIOLOGY OF SEX progress. In just the same way, science, working with the phenomena of life, has shown us the great part that sex has played in all the life of the earth, including that of man. By means of this knowledge of sex, the plant breeder has produced wonderful new and improved varieties of fruits, grains, daisies, and roses. By means of the same knowl- edge, the animal breeder has produced a marvelous im- provement in all the domesticated animals. Thus, through the biologist, we have learned that there is no more uni- versal and important thing in life than the influence of sex and reproduction; and, thro ugh the practical work of the breeders of plants and animals, we are learning to ask the question whether we can not use this knowledge in such a way as to improve human life and character quite as much as we have improved the qualities of roses and chickens. 3. Two Kinds of Human Facts. - Until recently those educators and reformers who have worked at this problem have been inclined to dwell on the degrading, abnormal, destructive side of sex, as though this were the whole of it. The average man still thinks that we must mean some such thing when we talk of sex and sex-education. The great social vices and diseases that have blighted civiliza- tion throughout human history are indeed important reali- ties. They are fearful to contemplate and form a most serious menace. They are not, however, the real problem which the human student of sex must keep before him, any more than the army hospital and caring for the wounded is the chief consideration of a commanding general in war- fare; or than crime and treatment of criminals is the real problem of progressive civilization. Disease or the removal of disease is not the chief concern of life; sound, THE ACTUAL CONDITIONS 3 wholesome living and growth and progress are the real problems. Any study of this matter of sex, then, which pretends to a sense of proportion and to have any permanent and constructive value, must take care of two aspects of it - primarily, the deep, fundamental, natural, positive, stimu- lating, upbuilding role of sex in human life; and secondarily, the abnormal, destructive, and dangerous perversions that are such a blot on our human history. Deeper still, a student of this subject must find out the biological and social connections between the normal and the abnormal in sex life, and bring the whole of it to bear on the proper education of young people for social living. 4. The Normal, Up-building Values of Sex. - It must be understood, at the very beginning, that sex and all that it implies is a perfectly natural, normal fact of life, with nothing intrinsically unholy or perverse about it. It is true that the sex impulses and desires are very powerful; but to the biologist this is just a sign that they are very important in development and in life and not at all that it is a degrading possession. As will be seen later, sex is responsible for certain great facts of growth and de- velopment in all organisms, from the lowest to the highest. Without stopping at this point to go into details, we know that the differences between men and women, - in body, in mind, in disposition, in temperament, - are not just mysterious, created differences; but grow quite di- rectly out of the sex nature of the individuals and out of the differences in the work done by the sexes. Just to il- lustrate what a wonderful and vital influence sex has in life, one only needs to remember that all that is meant 4 BIOLOGY OF SEX by the following words grows out of sex and its results: - manliness, womanliness, love, courtship, marriage, home, father, mother, family life, parental care and education, sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, filial devotion, brotherhood. These facts, ideas, and relations, - and the human adjustments and virtues that have grown up in connection with them, - could not have existed but for that which we call sex. These are the normal and natural fruits of sex and reproduction. Such fine and beau- tiful fruits cannot spring from something essentially bad and unwholesome. Undertake to remove from our lives and minds the ideas and facts for which these words stand, and nothing worth while would be left in human civili- zation, history, literature, poetry, or happiness. 5. The Destructive and Unwholesome Aspects of Sex. - While it is true that we must come to know that the above-mentioned qualities and relations are the natural and most important facts of sex, and that the abnormal is the exceptional, it is also true that the abuses of sex are great and deep in their evil effects. The abuses, diseases, and immoralities of sex are the most distressing of all that confront the modern helper of humanity. Merely to men- tion the great contagious sex-diseases and the troubles that come from them for generations, the numerous chil- dren born but of wedlock and the personal and social dis- grace and distress occasioned thereby, public prostitution, the white slave traffic and all the loathsome immoralities and heartlessness that cluster about it, and the strained, wrecked lives of many boys and girls, is enough to convince anybody that too much cannot be said, nor too much done to help the race purify these ancient evils. These must be studied by scientists, must be preached against THE ACTUAL CONDITIONS 5 by social preachers, must be fought through legislation by all statesmen who love their kind, must be met and prevented by parents and teachers. But, terrible and prev- alent as these perversions are, they are none the less perversions. All our study and effort will be out of focus if we forget for a moment that the thing perverted is bigger and more important than the perversion; that the normal, rather than the abnormal, is basal; that knowledge of disease and its cure depends on the under- standing of the fundamentally healthy structure and function; and that complete and constructive education of both intellect and emotions is the only social and moral prophylaxis. 6. The Redemption of the Sex Idea. - It is because of the facts noted above that the recent movement to educate all, especially the young, in the problems of sex seems so wise and sane to thoughtful teachers and social workers. This education involves the idea that we ac- complish two things. We must restore the thought of sex to its real biological place, as a wonderful, vital, stimu- lating and holy endowment of human life, to be treasured and invested as we treasure bodily health, mental ability, and attractive disposition; and in doing this we must cease to think of the facts of sex and its desires as vicious and depraved, and as shameful elements in life, to be avoided or ignored or abused. Only when we grasp the whole of the problem, with the constructive as well as its disastrous possibilities, can we use it as an effective part of human education and inspiration. The word sex must come to mean fine and high things rather than bestial and low to us mature people, before we can afford to bring it to the education of our children. In this way alone BIOLOGY OF SEX 6 can we escape the embarrassment so many adults feel in approaching the subject with children. 7. The Policy of Silence and Its Failures. - For many years there has been a prejudice against any real education of young people in the great underlying facts of reproduc- tion and sex that have so much to do with our personal development and social relations. Parents have neglected to treat the matter in a serious and straightforward man- ner with their boys and girls, and have been unwilling to allow the schools to do so. Teachers have felt that it was the duty of parents, if of anybody, to do this work. Text-books and school courses to which the subject naturally belongs have carefully avoided any mention of the matter, or out of respect to these prejudices have touched upon it in the most superficial and apologetic way. Physicians have given no help until too late, when disease or fear of disease and social disgrace has brought the young people to them. The reasons for this silence are largely (i) cowardice, (2) ignorance on the part of parents of the facts and of the best way to present them, and (3) an easy-going creed (arising largely from both cowardice and ignorance) that it is better to keep children in ignorance of such things just as long as possible, that innocence and purity belong to this ignorance, and that knowledge of the facts of sex must bring hurtful results. There are two important fallacies in this line of behavior which make it both futile and criminal. In the first place, ignorance of fundamen- tally important facts in life cannot, in the long run, help to meet those facts in the most satisfactory way. In the second place, parent and teacher have not the choice between ignorance and knowledge of this subject, in the THE ACTUAL CONDITIONS 7 child. The only choice is between the incomplete and distorted information that may be picked up from com- panions, and the sound, accurate knowledge given by those who know; between secret and open knowledge; between suggestive knowledge given in impure and vulgar ways and clean, pure information, graded step by step to the needs of the child as it advances, and connected in the child's mind with the great normal human values in his own family and in life about him. The sex-impulses are too powerful, the facts of sex are too wonderful and too widely known, and human curiosity is too great for the policy of silence to secure its end, even if ignorance were best. The very conditions that make it certain that chil- dren will get some sort of knowledge make it necessary that they should have it in the best possible form, with- out the over-emphasis either of neglect or of stress. They need it and are entitled to it. 8. The Value of Sound Knowledge. - One of the val- ues of sound knowledge is that it displaces half-knowledge and false knowledge, which are the very worst sort of ig- norance. But deeper still is the fundamental confidence and optimism about the order of the universe which says that truth is always better than error, and that knowl- edge of truth is a first essential step toward ordering one's conduct aright. It would need to be a very hap- hazard universe before ignorance could guide as well as knowledge. Knowledge may of course not cause us to do right; but ignorance of facts can never secure conscious rightness of choice. It is conceivable that occasionally ignorance might save a weak or reckless individual; but where one person is saved by ignorance, thousands are lost through ignorance and inaccurate information. Thus 8 BIOLOGY OF SEX it has come about that the modern educator feels that the right knowledge of sex is more likely, in the long run, to help than to harm, and is infinitely better for the sal- vation of youth than the vulgar half-knowledge derived from slightly older companions. There is one other point to be mentioned. It is prob- ably true that even wholesome and unemphasized infor- mation given by parents and teacher may have a stimu- lating effect and make the child want to know more; but for that matter the partial knowledge the child gets from its companions does the same thing more strikingly, and makes the curiosity much more morbid. 9. The Limitation of Mere Knowledge. - No educator, who has observed carefully and has given serious thought to his observations, will claim that it will solve all the problems of sex and sex relations merely to impart to youth in a perfect way all the facts of sex and its place in human development. The teaching of the facts and hygiene of nutrition has not eliminated abuses of diges- tion among us; but who is prepared to say that the teach- ing of the hygiene of eating, the new "domestic science," and the agitation for pure and uninfected foods, do not produce year by year their effect in increasing the proper use of foods? Ideas may not operate at once or to their full value, but they do gradually mold the attitudes and purposes. We know that knowledge - even perfect knowledge - will not successfully meet the case. There must come in addition, through the sanest sort of teaching and inter- pretation, - as in all such realms of human character and behavior, - ideals, standards of purity, of chivalry, of regard for others, of self-restraint, desires, attitudes, habits THE ACTUAL CONDITIONS 9 and all such things, which are better than mere knowledge. But into all of these knowledge must enter; and there is no firmer foundation for these clean motives than a pure and wholesome knowledge of all the basic facts. It is true that mere knowledge does not insure right conduct in any department of life; but there is a correla- tion between knowledge and right conduct. That is to say, a larger percentage of individuals who know the facts in a given situation make right choices than of a selection of uninformed and ignorant persons, made at random. This has been worked out experimentally in respect to a number of human relations, and has been found to be true in practise. 10. Summary. - Three very different streams of human influence have been operating to convince us of the need for real education in regard to reproduction and sex. First among these are the reformers, sensitive to the hideous aspects of the social evil in its various forms and to the moral degeneration that accompanies the perversions of sex. Their point of view, though urgent and compelling, is narrow and partial, since it deals with the abnormal and destructive rather than with the constructive; their work, however, has aroused our consciousness of the problem. In the second place, a certain group of students has approached the question from the purely biological and scientific side. Their interests have centered in the pos- sibility of race improvement through better breeding, - through heredity. These students are called eugenists. They are not moved, primarily, by sensitiveness to social and moral abuses of sex. They think rather in terms of the loss of present and future racial efficiency through the hereditary transmission Qf incompetence and of criminal 10 BIOLOGY OF SEX tendencies. This scientific contention has played a large part in arousing our interest in sex-instruction, and greatly broadens the scope of it. Thirdly, students of education have been coming to realize that reproduction and sex are among the most important human functions; that the impulses connected with them are as natural and clean as any we have; that these impulses are both general and powerful; that their power is a measure of their importance in the life of the race and of the individual; that they underlie personal character and give character to all social conditions; and that such vital qualities cannot fail to be useful in educat- ing normal human beings if we but learn how to use them aright. The reformer would educate in respect to the facts of reproduction and sex, in order that youth may be restrained and clean and may escape exposure to vice and to the personal and social diseases that grow out of it. The eugenist would educate in this field in order that we, as a race and as individuals, may seek and secure better matings and more perfect offspring and thus build up the stock. The educator would seek to use the facts, instincts and impulses of reproduction and sex in their due course, in order to stimulate the right and sound personal and social development of the individual, to the end that he may add to the perfection of the human home which is at once the supreme sex institution and the cornerstone of our civilization. CHAPTER II AN INVESTIGATION 1. Introduction. - Following a series of perfectly frank talks by the writer, first to college men and later to college women of the Christian Associations, an effort was made to get the opinion of the young people with respect to cer- tain points. A brief series of questions was arranged, and the students were requested to answer them. The answers were not signed, were entirely confidential, and were left wholly optional with the students. There were ninety-six answers from the young women, and seventy from the young men. These students represent quite normal col- lege young people, undoubtedly from the rather better classes of homes. The statistics are believed to be fairly representative of conditions in the average homes of the grade represented. Dr. Exner, in studies of nearly 1000 college men made a few years after this investigation, dis- covers quite similar conditions. Doubtless other inquiries, and a larger number of individuals, would show somewhat different percentages in the different groups; though the main conclusions are so pronounced that it is incon- ceivable that more extended testimony would largely change the results. 2. The Questions. - The following were the questions asked: i. At about what age was the subject of sex first brought in a striking way to your consciousness, that is, in such a way as to make a permanent impression? 11 12 BIOLOGY OF SEX 2. Through whom was it thus brought? 3. What, in general, was the effect of the information upon you, as you look back on it now? 4. Indicate, if you are willing, in what way this infor- mation was good or bad for you, as the case may be. 5. Do you think that fuller and more authoritative in- formation, given in the right spirit, would have been of any help to you? 6. If so, in what way? 3. The Results. - The following is a tabulation of the answers: Question 1 TABLE 1. MEN (70) Age (years) 6 7 8 9 IO II 12 13 14 15 Number 4 9 8 8 8 3 II 3 7 2 (remainder uncertain) TABLE 2. WOMEN (96) Age 6 7 8 9 IO II 12 13 14 15 16 17 Number . . 2 6 8 12 IO IO 18 15 9 4 2 I Questions 2 and 3 TABLE 3. MEN Through Whom Number Effects Good Bad, None Boy Companions .... 47 I 32 4 Parents n 9 I [ Quack Doctor . . er j Family Doctor . . en [ School Teacher . . I I 2 2 i (in class) I Y. M. C. A. pamphlet . . i I AN INVESTIGATION 13 Through Whom Number Effects Good Bad None Girl Companions 57 8 26 16 Parents, or Elder Sisters 27I 6] 26 7 Books 3 2 I Patent Medicine Circular . 1 I TABLE 4. WOMEN Question 5 TABLE 5 Yes No Doubtful Men 46 1 6 Women 60 7 3 4. Discussion of Results. - Tables 3 and 4 show very clearly that both the young men and young women think that the information that came to them from their mates did more harm than good; and that the information that came from their maturer friends with wholesome purposes helped them. Table 5 shows very general agreement that more and better information would have helped them to solve their individual problems to better advantage. By comparing tables 1 and 2 it will be seen that 58 per cent of the boys, who gave the age at which they received instruction, learned enough of these matters to make an impression on them before they had completed their tenth year; whereas only 50 per cent of the girls had received it by the close of their eleventh year. Thus the 14 BIOLOGY OF SEX boys are more than a year ahead of the girls in getting at these facts, in spite of the fact that girls mature more rapidly than boys. This is exactly what we should ex- pect from our knowledge of the manner of life among boys. A comparison of the ages at which information was received with the sources from which it came shows that in nearly all the cases (forty-four out of forty-seven) in which boys got their information from their mates, it came at an early age. Parents gave information to their boys as follows: two at eleven years; two at twelve; two at thirteen; four at fourteen. The same conditions are found for the women, but not quite in the same degree; mates among the girls were a little more reticent, and mothers a little more prompt in performing their duties than the fathers. A considerably larger percentage of the women got help from mothers and older sisters, than of the young men from their fathers. Dr. Exner's investigation shows, as this does, that the first memorable sex impressions come very early, - on the average before the children are io years of age; also that the average age at which masturbation or other sex practices began was below 13 years. The average age at which the first sex-instruction came from authoritative sources was 15.5 years. In the case of these college men it is evident that our mature help came too late, by more than 5 years, to guard the child against the first vicious impressions of sex, and about 3 years too late to give him any aid against unwholesome sex experiments and practises. The answers to the fourth question as to ways in which information proved helpful or hurtful are not quite so definite nor so capable of tabulation; but they are very AN INVESTIGATION 15 illuminating. The young women were more disposed to answer the question than the young men. Of those who thought the early information from mates was hurtful, six thought it created a morbid interest in the subject; ten said it caused them to dwell on the subject and take a wrong attitude toward it; eight said it gave them false ideas; others said it "caused shrinking, depression, and unhappiness," "was improperly given," "not pure," "feared to go to mother about such things." Among the answers of those who got their knowledge from better sources and thought that it had helped them, the follow- ing are representative reasons: - "It produced a strength- ening of principles," "recognized need of careful action," "led to preservation of health," "brought content, and freedom from dwelling on it," "better attitude," "made life seem more beautiful and sacred." These answers are so sane and so clearly what an observ- ant educator would expect the facts to be, that one has no difficulty in believing that they really represent the personal convictions of the writers. While there were exceptions, the overwhelming convic- tion of these young people was that better information, from the right people and given in the proper way, would have been of much value to them both in their attitudes and their actions. Of course, it is quite natural for us to think that we might have done better if we had possessed more knowledge; and it is not always true that we should have done so. On the whole, however, these are the sepa- rate judgments of people who are in the best position to know what would have influenced their lives, and how. While the answers are not scientifically conclusive they have a distinct presumptive value. 16 BIOLOGY OF SEX 5. Summary of Conclusions. - An inquiry among a thoughtful group of mature young people, who probably represent homes and parents above the average, reveals definitely the fact that only about 20 per cent of the fathers and about 30 per cent of the mothers had made an effort to reach these young people with sound information about this most important influence on their bodily and moral welfare. The general average for homes of all classes would undoubtedly be much less than this. The chief training which comes to the minds of the young is the inaccurate, morbid, vulgar training of mates, which is in some respects unquestionably worse in its effects than ignorance. It is well known that the first impression is likely to prove the abiding and dominant one in respect at least to the more vivid and appealing interests of life. Either the clean or the vicious presentation, coming first, will tend to determine our consciousness of sex and to hold the field against the others. It is very clear then if parents and teachers are to get to the youthful mind first, and establish an open and pure channel for sex-knowledge, that they must approach children much earlier than they are doing at present and continue their teaching syste- matically at all points where it is needed. CHAPTER III SOME PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE IN SEX-INSTRUCTION 1. Introduction. - In the two preceding chapters an effort has been made to justify, first in theory and then by a concrete example, the view of the modern educator that our children must have help in respect to the impulses of sex, and that the best equipped people in the community should undertake the task of giving them adequate sex- instruction. This instruction should enable them to avoid the pitfalls that beset them at various crises in their fives; and, what is still more important, should inspire them with an idea of the far-reaching influence of sex as one of the most powerful and upbuilding of the impulses and characteristics in human life. In this chapter it is pur- posed to anticipate some things which will be treated at greater length later; here, however, in a brief and some- what dogmatic way, will be put down without argument certain conclusions that seem to be justified from our gen- eral knowledge of education and of the methods that have proved successful therein. The effort to provide systematic sex-education is new, and until more exact experiments have been conducted and the results reported we cannot be entirely sure of the best methods to be followed. We cannot, however, afford to withhold all sex-education, if we are right in contending that it is essential, until the way has been completely surveyed and scientifically charted. 17 18 BIOLOGY OF SEX We must start with the best principles we know, apply them with common sense to concrete situations, and revise them as they are shown by results to be imperfect. 2. The First Necessity is the " Motivation " of the Teacher. - It is a common experience that reforms, or educational movements of any kind, do not progress until the rank and file of those who must do the work become thoroughly convinced as to the necessity and possibility of moving. In the face of our long silence about sex and of our unwholesome mental complexes on the subject there is very definite inertia and opposition to be over- come. Our teachers, whether parents, school-teachers or Sunday-school teachers, physicians, or ministers, will not take up this delicate and difficult work until they have an overpowering conviction of its necessity and value to humanity. Among teachers, the act of arousing in their pupils the purposes and motives that will produce action is called "motivation." This is what teachers themselves need now in respect to sex-education. To bring home to parents and to other teachers this conviction of the duty of giving sex-instruction to the young, and to inspire them with the interest and motives that will induce them to undertake this duty is the first and necessary task of those who are themselves convinced of the importance of the subject. Among students of the question, as has been intimated, the more alert teachers and parents are beginning to feel that something must be done; but for the most part, even the best teachers are generally feeling that the first respon- sibility rests with some one else. The motivation of teach- ers and parents must become complete and personal. It is the purpose of this book to assist in the task. PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE 19 3. The Second Necessity is the Preparation of Parents and Teachers. - Adult people have so long taken the attitude of silence about sex, have so long regarded it as something naturally immodest and vulgar, and have so long depended on mere preachments and arbitrary pro- hibitions in respect to it that few of them are now pre- pared to approach young people wisely or convincingly on the subject. Under these circumstances, we cannot hope to make the best use by education of the child's inborn sex qualities nor help him become rightly adjusted to the sex conditions which surround him without specific prepa- ration for the task. This preparation includes a number of things: (i) an adequate and balanced knowledge of the part sex normally plays in individual and social life: (2) that we ourselves escape entirely from the embar- rassment and false modesty which our training has given us; (3) that we cease to think we can successfully im- pose our adult conclusions about sex upon the child by arbitrary commands and authority; and (4) that we learn how to convince the child, sympathetically and on the basis of his own happiness and interests, of the great and permanent value which the right use of sex has for him. We must prepare to do more than give information about sex; we must help the child to interpret this information, must inspire him in every possible way, including example, to form sound standards, ideals, tastes, attitudes, and habits in reference to sex. 4. A Third Necessity is the Proper Grading of Sex- Instruction. - If it is important to grade our instruction in English and mathematics and adapt these subjects to the capacity of the child, it is doubly necessary to grade instruction in sex. Instruction in English and mathematics BIOLOGY OF SEX 20 seeks information chiefly, while sex-instruction seeks to influence attitudes of life and conduct. It is always a more delicate and difficult task to mold conduct than to impart knowledge. It is for this reason that instruction in sex should be most carefully and accurately graded. Grading sex-instruction includes the following points: (1) It should be different for boys and girls. (2) It should in the main be guided by, and follow, the progress of the natural curiosity of the child, rather than precede it. (3) It should precede, at each step, the actual personal needs of the child and youth in respect to life and conduct. (4) This teaching should be adjusted to, and take ad- vantage of, the fact that the development of children offers certain specially favorable conditions for certain parts of the necessary teaching. (5) There should never be an idea that all necessary instruction can be reserved until the child is thirteen or fourteen and then given all at once. (6) The method must be emotionally satisfying and convincing to the child. 5. Sex-Instruction Must Be Different for Boys and Girls. - There is much that is common in the information that should be given to boys and girls, and each sex should in time know and appreciate the main facts about the development of the other; yet the sex development and the impulses of the two sexes are so different and the special practical problems that confront the boy and girl are consequently so unlike, that the material and the point of view must be properly suited to the peculiar nature and needs of each. This makes it necessary that boys and girls shall be taught separately in these matters, - though this PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE is probably not necessary in the broad, impersonal studies of the question undertaken in the classes in physiology and biology. There are teachers, however, who believe that better results are possible, even in these classes, if only one sex is present. We all know that the sex impulses of males are in general strong and insistent as compared with those of females; hence the problems of the boy are largely problems of self-restraint and sex guidance, while, on the other hand, the problems of the girl are rather those of resisting external temptation to do wrong, and of behaving in such a wise and discreet way that no such temptation may arise. These biological and psychological differences in the nature of the sexes lie at the bottom of all the sex problems of boys and girls and must have a large part in molding the scope of our teaching and the method of it, if we are to get from it such real personal results in character as we seek to achieve. 6. Sex-Instruction Should Follow Curiosity. - Curi- osity, in its broadest sense, is the chief internal impulse that drives us to seek knowledge. The desire to know is at the back of all our investigations. Curiosity begins early in the life of the child, and is responsible for the great progress that is made during the first years of life, - a much more rapid progress than we ever make at any subsequent period. The wise educator of youth tries to take advantage of this natural curiosity, to keep it alive, to enlarge it, to guide it, and to prevent it from becom- ing morbid and narrow. In matters of sex the problem is, not to increase curiosity, but to prevent it from becoming unhealthy and morbid by guiding it into the most valuable channels. The facts of sex are so interesting and the 21 22 BIOLOGY OF SEX child is so full of sex himself and so surrounded by it that his curiosity is almost sure to be aroused ahead of his own sex needs. If not enough information is given, the mind is likely to dwell on it unduly, and to wonder; if too much is given, so that the child is unable to under- stand or assimilate it fully, practically the same results follow. If the parents take an open and frank attitude toward the little child in the home, the active curiosity of the child, as shown by its natural questions and aroused by the natural incidents of its life, indicates at what intervals information should be given and how much should be told. This is especially true of younger children, who are much with their parents. If this curiosity does not express it- self spontaneously, the parent, by a little discreet ques- tioning, can readily find out the state of the child's mind. If, when the child seeks information, it is withheld or is given falsely and evasively (as is so often the case) the child will very naturally lose some of the confidence which the parent should make every effort to hold, and will go elsewhere to get his questions answered. If, on the con- trary, the parent, at the first question, gives the child a mass of facts for which he is not prepared and for which he has felt no need, the child will be confused and unable to profit by the knowledge. Both sets of results are un- wholesome. The best teaching rule is: follow curiosity closely, with carefully graded information, given very little at a time, in many conversations, repeating the same truth with many illustrations so as to guard against the wrong impressions so common in childhood. 7. Sex-Instruction Should Precede the Actual Need of It. - The strong point of the modem plea for sex-educa- PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE 23 tion is that it is badly needed. If this plea be true, it follows that the needed information, to be of value, must be received and assimilated by the child before the critical points in life appear that make the information necessary. This need furnishes the only exception to the preceding rule. In the case of children of a certain disposition, or of those who have been peculiarly sheltered from contact with the facts of life, it may be true that curiosity will not be alert; or it may sometimes happen that the parent will know of some approaching sex crisis that the child has not asked about. It may be in such cases the duty of the teachers, - parents or others, - to arouse curiosity and give the needed help. For example, it is important that the child of either sex should know beforehand the real nature of some of the bodily and mental changes that come at the age of puberty. This is peculiarly necessary for girls because of the prob- lems both of health and of an emotional nature that arise in connection with the onset of menstruation. Similarly, the awkwardness of boys, their change of voice, seminal emissions, and the like, would not produce the embar- rassment and mental distress which they do, if the boys knew that these are perfectly natural steps to manhood. The physical, mental, and moral catastrophes so frequent at this period are largely preventable if the child can be made acquainted in a general and inspiring way, with the nature of the facts and their meaning. Under normal conditions, because of the free conversa- tion among children, curiosity usually outruns the actual biological development. The child is likely to be preco- cious in the matter of sex knowledge. This fact makes it necessary for us to be earlier in presenting some sub- 24 BIOLOGY OF SEX jects than would otherwise be true. It is as important for us to forestall vile information and interpretations of sex, which come from the street, as it is to forestall hurtful sex practises. 8. Use the Favoring Qualities of Personality. - We have learned that all the elements that go to make up our personal character do not begin nor mature at the same time. We have seen above that curiosity comes early in life and stays with us long. On the other hand, there are certain periods in our childhood growth when certain characteristics and states of mind dominate us, only to decline later and give place to others. Some of these states favor one kind or method of sex-instruction, and other states demand some other method. It is necessary to good teaching to know something of the succession of these qualities and impulses of youth and to use them to rein- force our instruction on sex, just as wise teachers are using them in other phases of education. For example, the strong bond that usually exists between the young child - whether boy or girl - and the mother; the growing boy's admiration for his father; and the chivalrous spirit which comes to normal boys in adolescence when they begin to admire the girls, - are all illustrations of what is meant. These all make certain steps in the sound education in facts of sex and sex ideals peculiarly possible and timely. There are many such critical points in individual development when special appeals should be made, appeals which would not have equal weight either before or after. In a sense the steps in sex-education should be looked upon as a series of "projects." This means to plan definitely to use each childish question, each point in development, each special need, each impor- PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE 25 tant sex episode in the home or society, to the fullest degree to produce the most full and wholesome possible impression on the tastes and attitudes of the child. (See Chapter XI.) These suggestions will show how mistaken is the practise of some parents, who keep back all they have to say until some convenient time and then try, with no special relation to anything that they know of in the child's life, to tell all they think should be known. It would be more sane to adopt this wholesale method in teaching mathematics than in giving sex information. 9. Sex-Instruction should be Incidental to Other Teaching. - One of the main errors of parents and teachers, in dealing with this topic, lies in separating it from other teaching so as to make it stand out unduly. In reality the facts of sex are in nature closely related to the other facts of life. Sex teaching that corresponds naturally and incidentally to events that are occurring in the home, the farm, or the community, or is given in connection with other lessons in school, will have a more natural and less disquieting effect, as a rule, than that which is given sepa- rately and independently in the form of a lecture or talk. Even parents should not plunge suddenly or artificially into their talks to their children about sex. They should never be "formal." There are so many home incidents that lead naturally to all that is valuable about sex that we have no lack of opportunities to fit it in without shock. It is much better, for example, to connect the early teaching of the child concretely with the birth of a baby in the home or neighborhood, or with the birth of pets, then it is to deal with it as a general or abstract truth. Furthermore, much of the instruction which will lead to proper ideals and behavior in relation to sex, need not 26 BIOLOGY OF SEX be called sex-instruction at all. Chivalry, respect for women, the meaning of the home in the organization of society, and many other topics which serve to give right views of life can do their work without any conscious attempt to denote them as a part of the sex problem. Yet they are none the less a part of it, and teachers should realize this fact. To enable a boy to appreciate his mother and to arouse in him a taste or standard of courtesy toward her is just as specifically "sex-instruction" as it is to cau- tion against masturbation; and on the whole it has more value to character. 10. The Method Must Be Emotionally Satisfying. - There is nothing more important in the success of sex-edu- cation than the spirit and method of the parent and teacher. We have in respect to sex, even in early life, definite and strong tendencies, impulses, desire to experiment, and curiosity. As teachers of our children we may take the attitude that these interests should be openly fought and repressed as impure, vulgar or immoral. In truth they are none of these. They are merely natural. Never- theless, because we know that they are powerful and, if unwisely handled, lead into unsocial and immoral prac- tises, we naturally feel that we should by our authority use fear of punishment or of disapproval to suppress any sex expression of youth. Now such an autocratic and repressive attitude is too simple to be sound. We cannot by such a show of force successfully blot out of existence such a powerful group of interests and desires as those of sex. Psychologists have shown us that what we really do is to force these things deeper into the life, and, either in conscious rebellion or by unconscious substitutes and modifications, the youth will find sex satisfactions. This PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE 27 is too complex a subject to enter upon here, but we know that we permanently wreck the lives of children and make them mentally abnormal by trying to impose our codes and conventions and opinions upon them in a way to re- press by force their desires and impulses. Does this mean that we should let these impulses go wild and uncontrolled? By no means! It is merely to say that we must find better ways, - ways which in them- selves persuade and convince and satisfy the emotions and longings of the child. There are two ways in which we may help the child hold the sex impulses in check, and yet let the child get such pleasure in the process that there will be no perverse results in his mental sex life: - (1) We may substitute other interests for those of sex in some degree. If the interest, and strength and time of a child are given happily to games and sports, reading, scouting, collecting, or to other such attractive hobbies on the child's level it is clear that there will be less chance for perverse sex feelings or expressions. This is a really important method of meeting these and other dangerous impulses and trends of childhood. But it is quite easy to see that we are not really solving any of the child's sex problems in this way. We are really dodging them; and sex is too powerful an impulse to be met in this fashion. (2) We may refine or sublimate the sex impulses and com- bine them with others in such a way as to modify them permanently. We can, and must, do this furthermore in a manner to please and satisfy the child. For example, it is a refinement of the crude sex facts and of the curiosity about the manner in which the mother brings babies into the world, to give the information so that the purpose and meaning of motherhood stands out in the boy's mind 28 BIOLOGY OF SEX as a fine and happy thing. Motherhood is sex expression at its best. Or we are refining the grosser sex desires when we get a youth to think of the love and chivalrous devotion and high honor that he has for his first sweet- heart as the greatest of his joys. It is quite possible for a young man to get more happiness by controlling his physical sex urge for the sake of his future wife than by gratifying it on a self-indulgent plane. This leaves no such "complexes" and rebellions in his mind as if he were driven by fear to repress his desires. We can further combine the sex impulses with others which automatically absorb them in some degree. For example, a high sense of honor, or a strong ambition or a keen social or religious purpose in life may combine with and guide and perfect the sex motive. In this com- bination control is conceived by the individual as a positive advantage and thus gives pleasure and becomes habitual. 11. Knowledge of the Biology of Sex Not Enough. - There is a tendency on the part of some enthusiastic peo- ple to think that a thorough knowledge of the facts of sex will meet all the needs of the young. There is no doubt that this biological information is the foundation, and that such knowledge may greatly enlarge and purify the child's ideas of reproduction and sex. But this is not enough. We want our children to be healthy animals; but we also require of them behavior quite different from that of the healthy animal. We want them to get a knowledge of sex, but to get with it such a disposition that they will have within themselves something which will control and guide the powerful sex-impulses in the interest of all the fine and holy ideals they have built up. To do this, mere biology is not enough; we must have in addition all the help that we PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE can get from those kindred fields of human inspiration and discovery which we call psychology, sociology, ethics, and religion. The child must know the meaning of sex; he must know what are the best standards of the race about the use of sex; he must be willing to choose to use his own sex in accordance with the most social standards; and he must have the internal power of character which will en- able him to carry out this choice in his conduct. He can- not reasonably be expected to attain this disposition in ignorance and without expert help. Sound sex culture is more a matter of psychology than of biology; and more a problem of emotional psychology than of knowledge. It is a problem of education in all the springs of character. 12. There must be a Sane and Wise Division of Labor in Sex-Instruction. - If we may hold that the principles laid down in the foregoing paragraphs are reasonably true we have a few groups of people whom society must make responsible as classes, for this work of sex-education. Chief among these are parents, school-teachers, Sunday-school teachers, social workers, physicians and health workers, and ministers. In individual cases, there may be persons better fitted than any of these to do the needed work; but generally speaking, the above classes of people, rather than youthful mates or vulgar-minded servants, must assume the task. (i) Parents are, or should be, much the best fitted of all these by their natural position and close relation to the children. This is particularly true of younger chil- dren, of whom the mother is the natural instructor. On the other hand, parents are usually the least fitted by information and training to do this work in the best way. 29 30 BIOLOGY OF SEX Often also they feel an embarrassment in approaching their own children which others would not feel. (2) The physician is possibly best fitted of all in the knowledge of the facts; but usually his knowledge of the proper methods of teaching is poor. Furthermore, the emphasis in his medical schools and in practise is upon anatomy, physiology, disease and hygiene of sex; and in consequence he tends to overemphasize mere knowledge. His work must be supplemented by that of others. (3) The public-school teachers are best prepared of all in the knowledge of methods of teaching, and next to the parents themselves have the children in their direct care. Most of these, however, lack information, just as parents do, as to the exact facts which should be given and the possible results of these facts. Furthermore, they have to teach the children in such numbers that another very difficult feature is introduced. Much of sex instruction should be individual. (4) Ministers and other religious workers lack specific knowledge of the scientific aspects of the problem, and have fewer contacts with the children than parents or school teachers. Nevertheless, they have a point of view which is very necessary in sex-education. They empha- size the very personal and social idealism which is largely lacking in the preparation of the physician. As a result they are more inclined to minimize both scientific facts and pedagogical method, and to depend on mystical and unanalyzable influences for effect on character. Physi- cians and religious workers each need to combine with the other to give a sane and balanced approach. (5) The other classes mentioned have some opportuni- ties; but are for various reasons limited in what they can PRINCIPLES WHICH MUST GUIDE 31 do directly. For example, athletic directors in Christian Associations can render special service to adolescent boys and girls and to young men and women, as can these di- rectors in high schools, colleges, and universities. Similar help can be given by the Scouts, Big Brothers and Big Sisters, and various social clubs among and for boys and girls. There must be a full coordination of these various par- tial points of view into one; and then cooperation by each agency doing its own part in the spirit of the whole. The facts and the scientific attitude must come from the physi- cians and teachers; the method is that of the teacher; the spirit must be that of the parent and the religious and social workers. It is probable that the teachers will be the first of these groups to be aroused to do their proper part. There are those who believe that we cannot rely on parents at all and must depend almost wholly on the schools. This, however, neglects the truth that the time of starting to school is too late for some of the simple facts which chil- dren must know, if they are to come from pure sources. In the opinion of the writer the mothers will be inspired and educated by the various social and religious teachers to give the children the instruction they should have be- fore school age, and to assist the teachers in guiding their development beyond that time. The Parent-Teachers Associations have a most valuable and hopeful place in every part of this movement. Physicians can assist the movement by appropriate lectures to teachers, parents, and nearly mature young men and women, giving the technical facts which bear on their various problems. In a similar way, ministers who 32 BIOLOGY OF SEX are sufficiently informed can present to the community the social and moral bearing of the work. The accompanying scheme will at least suggest a gen- eral division of responsibility suitable to the average community. SCHEME SUGGESTING DIVISION OF LABOR AND LOCATION OF RESPONSIBILITY IN SEX-INSTRUCTION Parents Pre-school Period: - From birth to 6 years of age .Teachers . School Grades:- 7-14 years. Teachers General Instruction Physical Directors Development- High School 14-18 years. Physicians Social Diseases. Colleges: - (Regular Courses for Future Parents). Schools of Education: - (Regular Courses for Future Teachers) Physicians ' Teachers The church, the religious schools and the social agencies should operate throughout the whole period in giving spirit and atmosphere to all the above instrumentalities and persons, in addition to making their own direct con- tribution to the youth. CHAPTER IV REPRODUCTION AND UNSELFISHNESS 1. Biology of Sex for Parents and Teachers. - We have concluded that society rightly places on parents and teachers a large part of the responsibility for educating the rising generation so that sex may be an inspiration and a blessing rather than a blight. The family, as we have seen, is the primary sex-institution, It is also the place in which the child will get its first unconscious sex impres- sions and where he can be given the sex-knowledge he should have with the most normal relation to life at its best. It is also the point at which the ideals of the past can best be put in practise to influence the home ideals of the future. For all these reasons the home is the most natural possible laboratory in which to convey sound sex appreciation and attitudes. If this conclusion is right, it follows that the parents as leaders of youth must be acquainted with the broad biological facts, in order that they may have a background, as well as with the details of human development, in order that they may meet par- ticular cases. In a brief discussion such as this it is im- possible to enter into all the particulars of what shall and what shall not be taught, even if we knew. The purpose of the present book is rather to give to the parent and teacher some information about the fundamental biological principles of sex which we must respect, accompanied with 33 34 BIOLOGY OF SEX outlines of the general kinds of knowledge that the pupil should have. With these in mind the teacher will be able to seek successfully the special facts that may be of most service. 2. The Construction of the Individual. - No matter how simple or how complex is the individual, the building up of its own life is much the same. The one-celled plant or animal, in order to be successful, must take just about the same steps as an oak or a man. It must begin its life; it must be nourished; it must grow and protect what it gets; it must upbuild itself through its own powers, desires, appetites and activities. In one way or another, all these things look toward getting, toward an income for the individual. They may be described in a word as selfish - because they minister solely to self-construction. There is no purpose to suggest that these selfish qualities lack in fineness or dignity, merely because they are selfish. They are at the very foundation of successful individual life, and the later qualities would be quite impossible with- out them. They are inadequate socially, but they are un- worthy only when they lead to nothing higher. The natural, normal first result of these basal things, when allowed to have full sway, is to produce sound, healthy, self-centered individuals. This we may say is the first and most important power of living things, and the higher powers depend on it. 3. Relation of Reproduction to this Process. - Some- where at the climax of this emphasis on the self, even in the very simplest organisms, there normally comes a complete reversal of the behavior of the organism. In some way or other, by a process that may seem quite simple or may be very complex, the old individual, whose whole energy REPRODUCTION AND UNSELFISHNESS 35 hitherto has been given to building itself up, divides. In this way the substance so carefully brought together is distributed to two individuals. (See Fig. i). This process is called reproduction. It is easy to see that reproduction is just the opposite of the self-building processes described before. It divides up and scatters the living matter at the expense of, and often with the complete destruction of, the original individual. This represents outgo where the former process meant income; this means extending the species where the other meant strengthening the individual; this means self-sacrifice where the other meant self-build- ing. Biologically speaking, reproduction is next in im- portance to, and just as universal as, nutrition and growth, and is directly opposite to them in nature and results. This description is a brief picture of the life of all organisms, which consists of a period of selfish growth in which the individual is built up to its maturity, followed by a period of unselfish reproduction of new individuals which must in their turn grow and mature. 4. Illustrations of Reproduction. - While it is impor- tant to remember that all reproduction means sacrifice of the individual, the form and degree of the sacrifice differs in different kinds of organisms. The accompanying diagrams will help the reader to appreciate something of this difference. In Fig. i, we have a simple organism that grows to its full size (i) by the process of nutrition; and after a period it divides (2) into two equal, half-sized offspring just like the parent, except for size. These grow to the size of the parent (3) and (4), and the process is repeated. In this case neither of the resulting offspring can properly be called the parent; the parent is completely sacrificed in the act 36 BIOLOGY OF SEX of reproducing. The mother cell has given its individual life for the two daughter cells. The sacrifice is not usually so complete as this. In Fig. 2 we have a scheme of budding by which the parent can produce one or more smaller members of its kind without being completely destroyed in do- ing so. Repro- duction in this case merely checks tempora- rily the individ- ual, selfish growth processes of the mother. This is also a kind of division, just as in Fig. i; repro- duction is always division. This however, is more economical, and leaves the parent in such form that it may reproduce again. This allows a more lengthened life to the parent, and thus a greater possibility of developing a more permanent and higher individual. Fig. 2 represents reproduction by budding in an organ- ism of one cell. Fig. i. Reproduction by simple division in a single- celled animal (Paramecium): i, an adult organism; 2, the same in process of dividing into two daughter organisms; 3, a later stage of the same; 4, the two daughter animals mature. The sacrifice of the mother cell is complete here. REPRODUCTION AND UNSELFISHNESS Fig. 3 illustraste a many-celled or- ganism which, in a similar way, buds off a smaller daugh- ter organism; but the daughter in this case consists of many cells at the start. Fig. 4 represents reproduction in a still higher organ- ism,- one made up of many cells,-such as a moss or a fern, or some kinds of worms. In this case the difference be- tween the parent (many- celled) and the offspring (one-celled spore) is still greater than we have had before. It will be clear that reproduction in these forms is still division, but is even more economical and less of a sacrifice than it was in the other cases. The parent therefore has a still better chance to go on with its own life history and perfect itself to a degree impossible in Figs, i 37 Fig. 2. Reproduction by budding in a single- celled plant (Yeast): i, an adult cell; 2 and 3, stages in budding in which new outgrowths from the mother cells produce daughters. These grow up and may become independent or remain attached in a chain. The sacrifice of a mother cell in this case is not complete. Fig. 3. Reproduction by budding in a many-celled organism, in which the daughter is also many-celled. M, Mother; D, daughter. The degree of sacrifice is similar to that in Fig. 2. This figure is idealized and might stand for such animals as Hydra and many of the worms, or any of the multicellular plants that produce buds, runners, tubers, and the like. It is a very common method of reproduction. 38 BIOLOGY OF SEX and 2. Usually such organisms, which have come to economize by reproducing through a single cell, are able to produce many off- spring during their life. The paramecium can produce only two. In this way the species, as well as the individual, profits by the economy. However, this econom- ical method has its drawbacks. The off- spring are very much reduced and have a long way to go, in order to become adult. The par- amecium had to grow only 100 per cent. A fern spore must ultimately increase millions of times to reach maturity. 5. Further Sacrifices Growing out of Reproduction. - Reproduction has been shown above to be the first and most fundamental form of sacrifice which we find in nature. It is not the only sacrifice to produce the offspring. This is but a beginning. The care of offspring in order to bring them safely to the point where they can care for themselves is also very common among plants and animals. This is a tax on parents which oftentimes means more sacrifice than reproduction itself. As in the case of repro- duction there are all degrees of sacrifice in the care of off- spring from the condition seen in the lower animals up to birds, mammals, and man. In some (as fishes) it is merely the storing of a large amount of food in the eggs; in some Fig. 4. Reproduction in which a many- celled mother (P) produces many one-celled reproductive bodies or offspring (R and S), which are all alike. This may be taken to illustrate any many-celled, spore-bearing plants, such as ferns, mosses, and the like. It will be seen that reproduction, while still meaning division and sacrifice, is much more economical than it was at the beginning. REPRODUCTION AND UNSELFISHNESS 39 (as insects) it means locating the young in special places where food is abundant; in some (as birds) it means, in addition to food in the egg, the building of nests and in- cubation of the eggs; in some (as mammals) it means carrying the young in the body of the mother; in some, particularly in man, it means the building of homes, special nourishment, protection, training, education, and conscious sympathy and devotion and sacrifice. Reproduction is thus, not merely itself the first, most fundamental form of sacrifice shown in nature, it is the beginning and in- spiration of the richest line of sacrifice and unselfish in- stincts and acts found in men or animals. Around it is built, as we have seen, the most admirable social insti- tution which has been devised, - the home and family. Save for reproduction there would be no offspring to care for; yet the connection is closer than this. The very instincts of reproduction are so closely intertwined with those of love and care for offspring that it is impossible to distinguish them. We often find that the mother's love for her offspring is immediate and unthinking and in- stinctive, - following at once on the fact of reproduction. And we cannot possibly separate the reproductive function of our mothers from the sex qualities that we admire in them. 6. Summary. - Reproduction is a perfectly natural and normal thing in life. It is next in importance to nu- trition. There is nothing in it which should bring shame and aversion. This is not all. While nutrition is individ- ual and selfish, reproduction is unselfish and looks to the future of the race. It is the bridge over which individual selfishness and energy were first transformed into social unselfishness. It is the avenue by which we are led from 40 BIOLOGY OF SEX self-considering attitudes and acts to the most unselfish acts of which we are capable, - as expressed in the devo- tion of the mother to her child. It is thus the foundation of the most altruistic and spiritual qualities we possess. It is nothing less than sacred. Indeed we have never found any better, more convincing way to picture the relation of God to man than by parental love. Can we afford, then, either to ignore or to abuse the sources of it in the educa- tion of our children? Or can we allow ourselves or our children to think of reproduction and the origin of new life in human beings as either trivial or vulgar? CHAPTER V SEX AND SELFISHNESS 1. The Introduction of Fertilization. - In Section 4 of Chapter IV a series of illustrations is given to picture some simple steps in reproduction. In Fig. 1, which is the simplest, an organism of a single cell divides into two equal, one-celled offspring. In the last of the series, Fig. 4, we have a many-celled organism reproducing by dividing off a number of single cells. This makes reproduction more easy; but it can readily be seen that it leaves a larger task for the offspring after repro- duction. The offspring must grow up from its simple state into a com- plex form like its parent. The daughter cells in Fig. 1 have only to in- crease in size to be like the original parent, and they already possess one-half the original parent's material to do it with. The offspring in Fig. 4 must grow many times its own size, and must do more than grow: it must change in other ways from Fig. 5. Reproduction in which a many- celled mother produces numerous, similar, one-celled offspring. These offspring swim about together and finally unite in pairs {con- jugate) to secure the development of the adult. 1, a mother cell producing the re- productive bodies (gametes); 2, offspring (gametes) escaping; 3, gametes conjugating; 4, the new embryo organism resulting from the union of the gametes and capable of development into the mature plant. 41 42 BIOLOGY OF SEX its simple structure to the complex makeup which the adult parent has. This is called differentiation or de- velopment. Quite low down among organisms an interesting device appears, which helps in some way to secure this develop- ment. It often happens, among the exactly similar spore- like offspring of an organism like that in Fig. 4 or 5, that two of the young after swimming around for a while will unite completely into one cell (Fig. 5). After this the large cell formed by the union will grow and develop into an or- ganism like the parent. Just what the gain from this union is we are not sure. Many things have been suggested; and biologists are agreed that it must serve some interest- ing and valuable purpose, because it is found so generally through the plant and animal kingdom alike. This act of uniting two offspring is called conjugation or fertilization. It is easy to see that it is just the opposite of reproduction, - which is always division. Conjugation is always the union of two organisms into one. The offspring which are to unite are called gametes. The result of the union is an embryo with the power of developing into the adult. In many cases the gametes, if they have no opportunity of pairing, may develop without uniting. 2. The Introduction of Sex. - Another advance in this interesting biological series is shown in Fig. 6 where the gametes that are reproduced by the many-celled parent are of two kinds. One class is large and sluggish, and the other is smaller and active. The first are known as eggs (Fig. 6, £); the second, as sperm-cells (Fig. 6, S). Usually an egg and a sperm-cell must unite before any development will take place. Each will die without further growth unless united with the other. This union is called SEX AND SELFISHNESS 43 fertilization, and apparently means the same thing here that it meant in the preceding illustration, where it is called conjugation. The egg is known as a female gamete, and the sperm is known as a male gamete. This difference of the gametes is the mark of sex. This is the first time that the differences of sex have appeared in our series of illustrations. In Fig. 6, however, the parent itself is neither male nor female or, if one prefers, it is both male and female. It may produce both kinds of off- spring. The point is that sex differ- ences first ap- peared, in the evo- lution of sex, in the sex cells and not in the body of the parent. We shall see later that the same is true in the development of each one of us. Fig. 7, which is wholly diagrammatic, introduces us to another step in the development of sex among organisms. Hitherto there has been no difference in the parents. Here there are two different kinds of parents. One kind (F) produces only the large gametes or eggs; the other (Af) produces only the small, active gametes or sperm. In this case we call the parent which produces eggs a female, Fig. 6. Reproduction in which the single parent plant has two kinds of offspring; - that is, the parent is both father and mother at once. E, the egg, produced in the special female organ A; S the sperm, produced in the male organ M. The sperm swims down the channel in the female organ and unites with the egg to produce the embryo of the new generation. Here the gametes and the organs that produce them show the male and female quali- ties, but the parent itself must be regarded as of both sexes. BIOLOGY OF SEX 44 and the parent which produces the sperm, a male. This is the condition in all the higher animals, including man. The reproductive cells show very striking sex differences, and the parents which produce these different kinds of cells are as different as the cells. 3. The Meaning of the Sexes.-Since we find fertilization, or the bringing to- gether of the one- celled offspring, so universal in nature, we conclude that it is for some reason necessary. In pro- portion as it is im- portant a new prob- lem arises: How can these two separate sexual cells be brought together with enough cer- tainty and regularity to insure their union and thus insure the new generation? As long as any one of these offspring could go on and make the adult without union, as in Figs. 1-4, the problem of development was a very easy one. In the first place, in making a success of the new method, by which different kinds of cells from two different par- ents are to be brought together, it is necessary that more of both kinds of cells be produced by the parents than would be necessary if the cells could settle down and grow Fig. 7. An idealized figure which may be taken to illustrate the condition in any of the higher plants and animals. There are two kinds of multi- cellular parents, - F, the female, producing ova, or the female offspring (0) within, and M, the male, producing male offspring or sperm (S). The offspring show sex differences and the parents no less. 1-4 illustrate stages in the union of the gametes, sperm and ova, to produce an embryo. SEX AND SELFISHNESS 45 at once without union; because in the very nature of the case many of them can never find mates. If they can- not develop without mating many will die because of the lack of it. In the second place, some ways must be devised whereby the cells may be brought together, whereby one of them at least may recognize the presence of the other, and may if necessary move so that the two cells may actively unite. Even in the simplest organisms these conditions are ful- filled. The smaller male cell, of which a great many are usually formed, is active and usually able to swim freely in fluids. It is also sensitive to chemical changes produced by substances secreted by the egg, and is caused by the attraction exerted by these to seek out the egg, to enter it, and thus unite with it. The egg is passive except for making this secretion which attracts and guides the sperm in its active pursuit of the egg. This is the meaning of the different qualities of the two sexes in organisms as simple as those figured in Figs. 5 and 6. It provides for attraction in the female and positive response of a seeking nature in the male. The meaning is practically the same for such organisms as that in Fig. 7, and clear up to man, where the parents that produce the mating cells are also different. Clearly if the mutual attraction can be had in the par- ents which produce the cells as well as between the sex cells themselves, the chances of fertilization are much in- creased. The differences between the male and female parents are for the same purpose as the differences be- tween the sex cells: viz., to bring together with the greatest certainty the male and female cells. The special organs and instincts of males and females exist to insure fertiliza- tion. The parents are brought together in order that the 46 BIOLOGY OF SEX cells may be brought together, The bringing together of male and female parents may be known as mating. There are no more striking differences in the whole animal king- dom, including man, than these bodily and mental sex differences which make the sexes able to perform their special functions, and make them attractive to one another. 4. The Attraction of the Sexes. - The simple conditions described above show why, biologically, the sexes must attract each other. It was seen that this attraction is a purely chemical one between the two cells in the simplest cases. This chemical attraction is found also between these cells in the higher forms; but there is much more than this in the higher forms. As we come up the scale of life to those animals in which maleness and femaleness is found in the parents as well as in the reproductive cells, and the parents have complex nervous and sensitive powers, the attractions of sex become more complex and powerful. In the main it is still true, as it is with the egg and sperm, that the female attracts the male, and the latter actively seeks out the female. In the higher animals we know that the attraction of the female may be exerted through odor, sound, color, or form. In addition to these attractions through the senses, there are in both parents, but in the male especially, powerful internal instincts and appetites that make them seek one another. These tremendous desires and attractions between the parents, whether con- scious or unconscious, have the one biological purpose: - they insure the bringing together of the two kinds of cells in order that they may unite and thus make reproduction more sure. These mental attractions between the parent? lead the way for the chemical attraction and union of th' cells which they produce. They secure fertilization and a SEX AND SELFISHNESS 47 improved method of reproduction by making mating attractive and satisfying. 5. The Selfishness of Sex. - It will be clear to the reader that we have in some way come again, in sex, into a realm of selfishness and gratification of appetite. It is quite as much so as that we spoke of in connection with getting food and individual growth. The presence of food arouses the desires of the organism and it responds to it; or the absence of food produces hunger, - an internal desire or appetite of a purely selfish character, - which drives it to seek its food. Just so the presence of the egg or the female may arouse the seeking action of the sperm or male; or internal desires and appetites, looking to- ward self-gratification, may drive the male to seek the female. We have seen that reproduction is a drain on the parent. It is itself unselfish and accompanied by a lavish series of sacrifices. It would seem that we have, in following the process of reproduction, fallen again to a plane of extreme selfishness and individual gratification. There is no gratification so keen nor selfishness so deep as the gratification and selfishness of sex-indulgence. Neither the higher animals nor primitive man recognized that there is any connection between sex-gratification and the reproduction of young. The sex-appetite in these conditions stands out merely as another individual and selfish want. 6. Relation between Reproduction and Sex. - Is there any solution for this seeming paradox? Reproduction is the great biological foundation of unselfishness and sacri- fice of the self for the species; fertilization, although just the opposite of reproduction, is for some reason a strong agency for making reproduction effective by uniting two offspring into one; sex in parents is a very satisfactory 48 BIOLOGY OF SEX means of securing fertilization and of selecting the mat- ings; around sex, and making fertilization still more sure, is the most remarkable series of attractions, desires, appe- tites, passions, and gratifications known in biology. They seem to be as general and practically as powerful as hunger and thirst. We believe this to be an evidence and measure of their importance in life. The connection seems to be something like this: This powerful set of selfish passions has grown up about, and so to speak rewards , the unselfish act of reproduction, and thus helps to insure that the sacrifice shall continue. If it were not for the gratification that attends sex-indulgence, fertilization might fail, and the efficiency of reproduction - even the very sacrifice itself of reproduction - might cease. The sacrifice necessary to preserve the species is insured by coupling with it a selfish impulse and gratification. 7. These Principles Applied to Human Life. - All that has been described above as belonging to sex life in the higher organisms is equally true of human beings. Con- sciousness comes in and makes the appetites stronger and more difficult to control; but the fundamental facts are the same. All of this shows that reproduction is as natural and as universal as the taking of food; that some sort of fertilization is almost as prevalent as reproduction; that sex differences are found in well-nigh all animals and plants; and that attractions and appetites and gratifications always accompany sex. The first and most wholesome deduction which we must make from these facts is this: Methods and conditions so universal in nature must be an important part of the plan of God himself, and cannot be vulgar nor vile in themselves. They are as important and as sacred SEX AND SELFISHNESS 49 as life itself, since on these foundations all higher life has arisen, held its own, and advanced on its way. These broad biological conclusions are presented to parents and teachers not so much with the thought that they will furnish material to present directly to the pu- pils; but rather to give them as teachers a fuller conscious- ness of the greatness of the place of reproduction and sex in life, and thus form a background for the particular in- struction. It will help to lift sex out of the vulgar connec- tions into which it has come through human abuses, if we can realize that it has this wonderful and universal con- structive side. It ought, too, to aid us in banishing the embarrassment and false modesty which have so often prevented us from doing our duty in respect to our children. There is matter in these chapters which should be brought in the teacher's own time and way to the knowledge of the pupils; but the method employed here is that of adults talking to adults, and not to children. CHAPTER VI SEX IN RELATION TO NORMAL HUMAN PHYSICAL AND MENTAL DEVELOPMENT 1. Introduction. - We have seen that in animals the task of producing and caring for eggs is the work of the fe- male, just as producing sperm and bringing them where they can unite with the eggs is the work of the male. The nature, structures, and instincts of the female are deter- mined by the task that is hers. In the same way the pecul- iar organs and passions of the male have arisen in connec- tion with forming sperm cells and with caring for them successfully. In other words, the essential fact of male- ness and femaleness consists in the sexual cells; and the peculiar features of the male and female parents, which we recognize externally, are purely dependent on the kinds of cells they produce, and exist to the end that the sexual cells may be effectively handled. These bodily, sexual features of the parents are secondary. This fact is the explanation of those we shall next under- take to give, and it is important that the reader should recognize the difference between this statement and the ordinary view. We usually think that a female animal produces eggs because she has the normal external char- acteristics which we find in the female of that species. In other words, we think that the quality of maleness or fe- maleness comes to an individual in some mysterious way, and that bv virtue of this principle it develops certain 50 RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 51 foreordained organs, and that because the body is female or male these organs naturally produce eggs or sperm. As a matter of fact the essential sex character resides in the sex cells, and the peculiar sex organs and the special male or female instincts of the parents are the outcome of these. The character of the body of the parent is deter- mined by the kind of offspring (i.e. sex cells) it is develop- ing within it; and the character of the body does not de- termine the kind of sex cells. 2. The Differences between Male and Female in Humans. - In the early embryonic stages, human males and females are so much alike externally that the sex can- not be prophesied. This does not mean that the sex of the new individual is not already determined. Later, even before birth, however, the fundamental internal sex differences begin to stamp themselves on the body and the sexes can be distinguished by certain definite qualities and external organs. Still later in life, during adolescence, the internal sex organs further influence the bodies of both males and females so that they come to differ still more. We are all familiar with the more obvious of these bodily and mental differences between men and women. In man, as in other animals, the fundamental female organ is the ovary (in which the eggs develop); and the fun- damental male organ is the testis (in which the sperm cells develop). In connection with these internal differences, and because of them, there arise such well-known differ- ences between males and females as the following: the distinctive external male or female sexual organs in the pelvic region f, the smaller size and more delicate construc- tion of the female as contrasted with the greater size, mus- cular strength and activity of the male; the softness and 52 BIOLOGY OF SEX smoothness of the skin in females as compared with the rougher skin and greater tendency to develop hair on the face and body in the male; the broader pelvis of the fe- male; the greater development of the mammary glands; and the tendency to deposit fat beneath the skin especially about the breast and hips. One other special organ characterizes the female, and is connected with the fact that the human mother, as is true of other mammals also, cares for the developing embryo within her own body after fertilization. This organ, known as the uterus or womb, is one of the most wonderful devices found in all biology for the care of the young in the early, helpless stages of its growth. By means of it the young in its dependent stages is as safe as the mother herself. It receives here warmth, protection, food and oxygen from the mother. The possession of the uterus and the carrying of the young for so long a period power- fully modifies the activities and habits of the female, and is the biological foundation of a great deal of our human social and economic customs and behavior. See Figs. 9 and 10. Similarly mental and spiritual differences between men and women are recognizable. These also arise not be- cause of some mystical tendency of maleness or femaleness but from the fundamental differences in the task of pro- ducing and caring for the two kinds of sexual cells and from the social education which accompanies these func- tions. We cannot always be sure just how much these mental differences are due to inheritance and how much to education; but we cannot study the mental and emo- tional differences between male and female birds, whose social education plays little part, and doubt that there RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 53 are equally vital natural temperamental differences be- tween men and women. It is not intended here to make a careful analysis of these differences. In the female mind there seems naturally somewhat more of conservatism, more of reserve, more of emotion, less willingness to take chances; and her disposition is more patient and less vigorous. In the male, on the contrary, the impulses of sex, of adventure, of combat are more powerful and rad- ical; his mind is, perhaps, somewhat more judicial. There are numerous exceptions to these statements, and the primary physical and mental capabilities of the sexes are the same; yet we all recognize perfectly definite mental, emotional, esthetic and temperamental, as well as physi- cal, qualities which we describe by the words masculine and feminine, virile and effeminate. It is scarcely necessary to say that to the biologist there is no suggestion of inferiority or superiority in these terms. They merely express the specialization which accompanies sex, - and each type is specialized to do particular nec- essary tasks. This differentiation in bodily and mental qualities is based on the fundamental biological division of labor. Each is superior in its own specialized powers. 3. The Relation of Sex to these Bodily and Mental Developments. - One of the most important things for human beings to realize is the vital and profound influence which reproduction and sex have on the whole of the developing personality. In order to make this clear it will again be best to illustrate from some of the higher animals. As is well known, a male horse, or cat, or chicken, if allowed to develop its testes until maturity, is wild, vigorous, active, fiercely combative of other males, easily aroused by the presence of the female, does not readily BIOLOGY OF SEX 54 take on fat, but is muscular and converts its food supply into action. This development involves its whole bodily and mental nature, its disposition and instincts as well as its structures. For example, in the case of the cock, the spurs, wattles, male plumage, the instinct to crow and to fight and other well-known "secondary" sexual features appear, if the sex glands develop properly. If any such male animals are taken when young, before they show these mental and physical effects of their sex, and the testes are completely removed by a surgical opera- tion, these qualities do not arise in full degree, if at all. The animal is sluggish, develops fat instead of muscle, is temperamentally torpid, takes no special notice of the female. The male of some varieties of fowl, so treated, may not develop the spurs, characteristic male plumage, and other male marks. If, however, a piece of the healthy testis of another fowl is later grafted successfully into the tissues of the castrated bird, the development of these ordinary male characters will occur practically as in a normal bird. Something similar to the above takes place in female animals whose ovaries are removed in early life. There is very little difference physically or temperamentally be- tween males and females when both have lost their essen- tial organs early in life. The developing ovaries and testes, in cooperation with certain other glands of the body, are responsible for the special sexual characteristics of the parent animal, and the removal of these internal organs makes male and female much alike by checking the special growths in which the sexes differ. Still more light is thrown on the problem by grafting healthy ovary or testis tissue into a castrated animal of the opposite sex. In the case RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 55 of certain rodents (as rats and guinea-pigs) it is possible, by grafting ovarian tissues into a male castrated early in life, to cause the mammary glands to enlarge and to make the male show the normal feminine disposition and be- havior toward the young. It has been shown by biologists that certain glandular cells in the sex-organs, - ovaries and testes, - manufacture certain specific substances, which on being poured into the blood-current pass to the muscles, the brain, the skin, and other organs. These substances, by their presence, stimulate the particular growths that we have noticed as belonging to the various sex-organs. In other words, the natural, healthy condition of the internal sex-organs, through their direct action on the blood, modifies most profoundly the body, mind, and nature of the organism to which they belong. The secre- tions from the sex-organs are normally supplemented by secretions from other "ductless glands," in producing these effects. 4. Relation of Sex to the Normal Development of the Human Male. - If the facts of the preceding paragraph were true of the higher animals only, they would still be interesting; but since they are just as true of human be- ings, they become of most far-reaching importance to us. It is well known that the boy changes in important ways as he becomes sexually mature. The body grows greatly; the muscles become firmer; the vocal cords increase in length, and the voice falls from the pitch of a woman to that of a man; beard develops on the face; the sex-organs increase in size; and the temperament, mental qualities, and ambitions gradually become those of the mature man. If, however, the testes are removed by disease or operation, these changes do not fully come, but the man tends to 56 BIOLOGY OF SEX keep the more feminine qualities of boyhood. In this way the voice remains a soprano, the muscles do not be- come vigorous and manly, fat is deposited in greater amount, the mental traits tend to lose in vigor and ad- venturousness; or if they retain their vigor they come to be dominated by subtlety and cunning rather than by openness and strength. The eunuchs of the orient are examples of this. From the human point of view, the practical conclusion of the whole matter is this: - In order to get a strong, normal, manly body and mind, the first essential is the full, sound development of the internal organs, - the testes. Conversely, anything that interferes with this full, sound development of the internal sex-organs will to that extent prevent the boy from developing into his full manhood. The effect of such knowledge as this upon the average boy in restraining him from lines of action that would be likely to interfere with manly development is clear; and the use we should make of these facts in the training of boys is equally apparent. Every boy should know to what extent manliness and vigor, ambition and enterprise, and the possibility of realizing these ideals in his own person de- pends on conserving these internal secretions. 5. The Relation of Sex to Normal Development in the Human Female. - Without going into details, it will serve the present purpose to say that the same general laws hold for the development of women as are pictured above for men. The loss of the ovaries early in life, by disease or operation, prevents the normal development of the female body, and does not allow the mental and tem- peramental qualities to come to their proper maturity. Without these internal secretions the uterus does not de- RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 57 velop normally, nor do the breasts. Child-bearing would be impossible, and the maternal instincts would not come to flower. As is true for other animals, each sex in humans tends to become more like the other, in the absence of the internal organs. Thus in women, the hips may not en- large, and the outlines of the body resemble those of men. The presence of healthy ovaries is necessary to produce the distinctive and attractive feminine characteristics both of body and mind. 6. The Abnormal Aspects of Sex in Human Beings. - It has been our effort to suggest in the preceding paragraphs how profound and beneficial is the effect of healthy, normal sex development on bodily and mental development, both in men and women. The long series of attractive qualities which each sex admires in the other is dependent upon this healthy life and development of the sex and cooperating glands. These normal facts and relations of sex, as we have said, are the important and positive foundation of sex-education, as well as that on which human society is itself erected. These are the most important and valuable facts of sex. Home, family, love, and the numerous ideas to be associated with these words, rest upon it. But there is another side that cannot be ignored. This is the aspect of the abnormal, pathological, diseased, and perverse. This phase of sex is secondary but it is impor- tant, and must be met fairly and squarely by the teachers of boys and girls. It is equally important, however, that they shall not be allowed to think of the abnormal things as meaning more than the normal. It is not possible in these brief chapters to make a complete statement of the dif- ferent forms of abnormal sexual life, and of the perverse results in our general life, for which the parent and teacher 58 BIOLOGY OF SEX must be on the lookout. All that can be hoped is to sug- gest some of the main places where the outcome of ex- perience should be brought to the aid of young people, and so to interpret these in terms of their own happiness and success as to induce them to turn to the better use of sex. 7. Special Abuses of Sex in Men. - We have seen that the removal of the testes makes men abnormal and imper- fectly developed in body and mind; but this is not all. Premature and excessive sexual indulgence interferes with sex development and thus with the whole development. Breeders of stock, who wish their males to come to their best, guard this point and do not allow too early or too frequent intercourse or excitement. From the standpoint of bodily and mental health the following things should be held in mind by teachers and impressed on boys: - (1) Total abstinence from sexual indulgence does not in any way retard or prevent perfect development of the sex qualities either in boys or girls. (2) Early or excessive or abnormal forms of indulgence do interfere with normal sex growth of body, mind, and emotions, and with the strong manly qualities which de- pend on these. (3) Promiscuous indulgence is sure, sooner or later, to bring infection by one or both of the venereal diseases, - gonorrhea and syphilis. These diseases arrest normal de- velopment, and may destroy the whole sex functions. They are not merely communicable from adult to adult, but the germs may penetrate to the ovaries and testes, and the eggs and sperm thus become infected. In this way unspeakable disease and misery are brought to the next generation, as well as to this. The highly complicated character of the sex glands and RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 59 Fig. 8. A diagram of a sectional view of the essential sex organs of the male, seen from the right side. The section is supposed to pass through the middle plane of the body where the organs are single, and throughSone of the organs when they are paired. B, the bladder; P, the urethra passing through the penis; Sc, scrotum containing the testis, T; S.T., sperm tubules where sperm is formed; E, epididymis, a much-coiled tube which receives the sperm through tubes from all parts of the testis and conveys it to V. D. the vas deferens. This tube leads to a reservoir (5.7.) and finally to the outside world through the ejaculatory duct, D, and the ure- thra, P; G, the prostate gland. Each testis contains about 800 of the much coiled sperm-tubules. These delicate tubes average more than two feet each in length. They unite into about 20 tubes, each some 8 inches in length. All these communicate with the epididymis (E) which has a length of 20 feet when unravelled. The vas deferens takes a circuitous route of some two feet before it comes to its vesicle, 5.7., just beneath the bladder. The germ infections may penetrate to the most internal parts of this structure, and hence it is easy to see why complete cure is so difficult and uncertain. 60 BIOLOGY OF SEX the ducts connected with them makes infection of the male, by the germs of gonorrhea particularly, a most insidious and difficult trouble. The accompanying figure (Fig. 8), which is diagrammatic, will give the teacher an idea of this complexity. The whole series of tubes and organs may become diseased. (4) Naturally, the male has more powerful sex-desires than the female. Consequently his interest is always more acute about sex. This is associated with the more active male function of finding and pursuing and fertilizing the female. The selfish appetites and passions are at their highest with him. Because of this acute interest it is especially easy for the minds of boys to become poisoned and diseased by excitement through conversation, pictures, shows, and by early and excessive sexual indulgence of one kind or another. This disease of the mind is just as real a thing as the blood-poison of syphilis to the body, and even more deadly to personality. Because of these more intense passions of boys, and of other facts which bear so directly on their development, the pedagogical problems in rearing boys to clean, healthy maturity are ordinarily much more taxing than for girls. This makes it all the more necessary that boys and young men be given a chance to know the meaning of the right use of sex and the dangers of its abuse or neglect and be given positive incentives for sound choices. 8. The Abnormal Aspects of Sex in Women. - In general sex feelings are less localized and more diffuse in women than in men. Hence the impulses towards sex-grat- ification are less powerful in the female than in the male, and in consequence her abnormalities tend less toward excesses and abuses. There is, however, enough of such RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 61 tendency to make it necessary for mothers of daughters to see that they are not subjected to unnecessary temp- tation. If subjected to temptation they should see that the girls know the real nature of it and why it is not be to yielded to. While the appeal of mere physical sex indul- gence is doubtless less in girls than in boys, girls are prob- ably more sensitive to the emotional, esthetic, and spirit- ual elements in the situation. Their search for these sat- isfactions is quite liable to lead them into attitudes and conduct which result in disaster. Since women arouse sexual appetites in men, it is thus possible for them to increase, quite unconsciously, the dangers in which they stand. They should be taught how their dress or conduct may, without their intention, arouse impulses dangerous to themselves and others. It is prob- ably true that few normal women deliberately seek to produce these effects; but many girls and women do thus contribute to make the problems of both sexes more diffi- cult. Their knowledge therefore should include not merely their own sex psychology but enough of the male sex psy- chology to enable them to adjust the relations wholesomely. Since the female carries the developing embryo and nourishes it, her biological work in reproduction involves more of self-sacrifice than does that of the male, and less of gratification. While the woman is not so subject to the impulses and the consequent temptation to excesses, nevertheless the evils arising from abuses of sex seem to fall most heavily upon her. The communicable diseases are even more disastrous to women than to men. We are all too familiar with the cruel way in which society holds women more responsible for lack of virtue and restraint than it does men. Just how severe is public condemnation 62 BIOLOGY OF SEX and how destructive is over-indulgence and disease to women is shown by the social ostracism and the short life of public prostitutes. In general, then, the chief points of sex danger at which young girls need to be educated and guarded are these: - (1) In relation to forwardness and a lack of poise and reserve. - This is as positively a point of personal danger for girls as the overpowerful sex desires are the critical danger for boys. This does not at all mean that our girls are not to gain the fullest freedom for the expression of their normal intellectual and social energies. It does not mean that they are to be cramped or deprived in their full development. It means that, if women are to gain these things without disaster in a world so fully sexed as ours is, there must be a corresponding increase of poise and self- mastery to match. Restraint and reserve is a feminine trait very characteristic even among animals. It tends to control sex indulgence until suitable periods. It has even a much larger role among men than among animals because of our fuller consciousness. The very fact that physical sexual desires are not so acute in women as in men is doubtless the reason why girls often fail to realize that very small indiscretions on their part may lead to entirely unexpected disastrous consequences. Mere desire for companionship, novelty, entertainment and excite- ment may operate to create dangerous sex situations. (2) In relation to unwholesome, sex-inciting elements in our social surroundings. - Here are included all the sordid influences which operate for gain or for lust to debauch women to immoral uses. For subnormal, uninformed, in- experienced, over-sexed girls; and for those whose home conditions are bad, who are lonely and without normal RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 63 associations with the other sex, who are unable to earn a full living, or who are thrown continuously and intimately into association with men of little sex control, no great con- sideration for women, and no high sex standards, - there is continual and often organized pressure toward prosti- tution in one form or another. Much of our commercialized amusements is definitely pitched to this purpose of prosti- tuting girls. No girl should be forced to meet these dangers without having every safeguard which knowledge and human inspiration can furnish. It would seem that there is no point at which decent men might more heartily unite with the great majority of women to remove the unwhole- some social conditions which produce so much of our sex abuses and degradation. (3) In relation to ill-health. - The normal secretions of such glands as the thyroid, the pituitary, and the adrenals - coupled with the secretions from the ovaries, - tend to produce the natural changes by which the girl passes to womanhood. If these secretions are deficient or ex- cessive the sex development will not be normal. The chief point at which any noticeable ill health may show itself is the uterus or womb itself and in the effects which any abnormal condition of the womb may produce in the general system, particularly the nervous system. There are physicians who hold that it only adds to the pathologi- cal effects of the sexual derangements in women to know about them. The writer does not believe that there is ever such a premium on ignorance. He believes that the facts are always better than ignorance. To be sure it is not necessary to drive women into hysteria by a continual over-emphasis on the possible feminine ailments; but it is quite a different and a desirable thing for women, as BIOLOGY OF SEX 64 well as men, to know enough of their anatomy and physi- ology to enable them to adjust their work and play and rest to their organic needs, and thus avoid some of the more preventable distresses which a sound hygiene would relieve. (a) Menstruation. - Menstruation is not an illness. It is due to a perfectly natural change in the inner wall of the womb produced by internal secretions which take place in the ovaries when eggs are ripened and freed. It is a preparation for attaching the egg to the wall of the uterus and of nourishing it there if it should be fertilized by a sperm cell. Notwithstanding the fact that it is a normal function and produces little change in the feelings of primi- tive women, our artificial civilization has brought about a state of affairs very far from normal. Menses may be painful, excessive, irregular, and accompanied by very marked nervous and emotional changes. If girls'are vigor- ous and are leading a normal life there may be no need to give any special attention to the period, except to avoid imprudences in respect to exposure to cold or to guide bodily exercise within reasonable limits. In people who do not have a comfortable period it may be neces- sary to give special care and protection to oneself for a day or so. Mothers of girls should help their daughters both to face menstruation with a pride that it means complete womanhood and with wholesome care that it may not be an unnecessary drain upon them. All practises of checking the appearance of the menses by cold appli- cations or otherwise in order to be free for social events are harmful as well as unworthy of womanhood. (Z>) Displacement of the uterus. In many cases the uterus tends to add to unhealthy bodily and mental states be- RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 65 cause of its mere weight, which is greatly increased at the time of menstruation, and because of its unstable position. The organ is very liable to fall from its natural position (Fig. 9, U), and may fall in any direction: - back- Fig. g. A diagram of a mid-section through the female pelvic organs, to show the general position of the uterus. It may fall forward, backward, or sidewise. It will easily be seen why the "knee and chest position" is favorable for replace- ment; also how compressing the waist must force the organ downward. A, anal opening; B, bladder; I, intestine; R, rectum; S, spinal column; U, uterus; V, vagina. ward, which is most frequent; forward; or sidewise. In falling backward, for example, it may bend on itself in such a way that it is impossible for it to return unaided to its original position. In this position it may form ad- hesions and thus grow to adjacent organs. The bad results of such fallings are numerous. They include pain, ner- 66 BIOLOGY OF SEX vousness, and constipation because of pressure on the rectum, and inability to bear children. When such a con- dition is suspected because of dragging sensations in that region, painful menses, and the like, a girl should be taken to a reliable physician for examination and advice. Years Fig. io. Section of internal female organs, viewed from the ventral surface. V, section of vagina, which communicates with outside world; U1, muscular wall of uterus; U2, the vascular portion of the wall; Od, the oviduct, of which F is the inner opening; 0, the ovary; L, various ligaments supporting the womb. The eggs are formed in the ovary from which they escape into the body cavity; they are taken up by the fimbriated processes at the opening of the oviduct and pass down the latter to the cavity of the uterus. In the oviduct or uterus they may unite with the sperm which ascends from the vagina after copulation. The fertilized egg attaches itself to the vascular wall of the uterus and is nourished there. At birth the child is forced through the neck of the uterus by the muscles of this organ and passes to the outside world through the vagina. of imperfect physical and mental life may be avoided by care in this particular. This is not a matter to over-stress or to become morbid about. It should be treated in the same sensible, hygienic way that one would use to overcome weak lungs or poor digestion. Figures 9 and 10 will give the reader an idea of the general position and nature of these internal organs. A RELATION TO NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 67 knowledge of their relations and functions is necessary to the teacher in order to make a convincing presentation of the matter to the girl. 9. Summary. - The discriminating teacher or parent will see that the argument in this chapter does not deal directly with the social and moral issues, but only with the biological. On these biological grounds we can go to our children, in the proper way and at the proper times, and say: - "Your development into the manly man or womanly woman that you should become, will depend, in very large degree, on the health and perfection of your sex-nature. This is true both of your mind and body. If your sex- development goes awry, the result will certainly show itself in your general qualities of body and mind. The things that are most likely to produce such a result and keep you from reaching your best are: - too early use of the sex-function, abnormal uses of it, displacement of organs, neglect to care for health at critical times, loss or injury of organs through disease or abuse. Even undue thinking of sex matters, or yielding to the sex impulses, brings a kind of morbid regard for them, and a mental weakness which is not healthy. On the other hand, total abstinence from sexual indulgence, if you can guide yourself in this ab- stinence by large, satisfying human motives, can have no ill effects on the development you are seeking. There- fore total abstinence in immaturity is wise for personal reasons, even if there were no social ones. The purpose of sex-knowledge is to enable you to let yourself develop normally without giving the matter any unnecessary thought or being drawn into behavior which will wreck your own happiness or that of others." CHAPTER VII THE MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING OF SEX 1. The Relation of Sex to Mental Life. - It does not help us at all in our efforts to fight wrong sex attitudes to shut our eyes to the fact that matters of sex rightly have a large place in the feelings and mental life of all animals, including man. Sex fills even a larger place in the life of man than it does in that of the lower animals because, owing to the higher development in his case, of conscious- ness, memory and reflection, he gives more attention than they do to pleasures and pains. This increase which con- sciousness makes in all our appetites, is illustrated by the care and trouble we take to make our food especially tasteful and attractive. We deliberately increase the pleasures connected with eating by dwelling upon them, and thus make the act of food-taking more agreeable, and consequently we render ourselves more liable to overeating and to the abuse of the function. Just the same thing is true of the sex-life in man. Consciousness and memory greatly strengthen the hold of sex on the mental life of mankind, and at the same time increase the tendency to give it an unduly prominent sway over conduct. It is equally true that these feelings and mental states and re- lations, growing out of the contrasts and attractions be- tween the sexes, greatly refine and enrich our whole higher life if properly guided and used. 68 MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 69 The original meaning of the sex instincts is to insure reproduction. Now these sex impulses were strong enough to do all the work needed without this added strength that comes from human consciousness. The result is that we are twer-sexed, as compared with the crude animal condition. It is quite clear, therefore, that our reinforced impulses and instincts do not, as they do among animals, carry their own controls. With us they do not check themselves automatically. It is equally true that our human consciousness enables us to see and to appreciate the higher satisfactions which sex brings to us, - satisfac- tions which we cannot have if we merely follow our gross impulses. In this way our judgment and reason are brought into play in control of our desires and longings. No really human being can safely follow his appetites as an animal can, - in respect to eating or sex or anything else. If he follows his appetites unreasoningly he out-does the animal in grossness. If he controls his desires by way of his in- telligence in the interest of higher social motives and satis- factions he rises in the scale of being. While intelligence and reason are thus seen to be related to the normal development and use of sex among human beings, this does not tell the whole story. Sex influences even more those mental states which we sometimes refer to as emotions and feelings. The sense of the beautiful and standards of beauty in respect to nature or art or human qualities are closely related to the progress of sex and of love in the individual. Furthermore, when it comes to motives for accepting or rejecting gross uses of sex for one's self, our tastes, our likes and dislikes, our esthetic pref- erences or aversions are often more powerful mental factors than intelligence or reason. This does not mean that sex 70 BIOLOGY OF SEX knowledge and sound sex feelings of preference or aversion may not work together. It means that it is not enough to impart knowledge about sex; we must also educate the whole range of emotional attitudes in respect to it. 2. Sex and Social Life. - Since reproduction and sex lie at the foundation of marriage, home, family, and the care and education of children, it is inevitable that they should profoundly color the whole of human society, both as to its ideals and as to its structure. We have seen that sex taken by itself is a very selfish thing, and that none of the human appetites is more merciless and destructive when allowed to run riot; but we have also seen that it is linked with reproduction, which is the very basis of human self-sacrifice and unselfish devotion. From this deep join- ing of self and society, appetite and sacrifice, it is inevitable as soon as the mind of man comes to dwell on the conflict that there must be a struggle to determine which attitudes will be supreme and rule his motives. Sex must be deeply imbedded in all our social affairs. Will it be allowed to dominate and prey upon social health or will it be forced to take a constructive place, stimulating and ministering to social health through being refined and developed on its higher and more emotional, esthetic, and spiritual levels? The foregoing is the theoretical statement of our social alternative in respect to sex; but we all know that it is equally true in practise. We know that the sex bond which brings men and women together as mates, may nor- mally ripen into the richest mental and spiritual compan- ionship and love. We are familiar with the inspiring history of this sound family relationship, extending back in various peoples beyond the very beginnings of recorded history. We know that this ideal bond between a man MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 71 and a woman makes the home the most favorable place for the appearance, the support, and the social and spiritual education of children. Human ingenuity and resource have never found anything that can be successfully sub- stituted for it. It would be a pleasant task to enlarge on these normal bearings of sex on the social life of man- kind; but it is scarcely necessary. It would be possible to show that all social organization and standards are influenced in the most profound way by sex, and by the special way in which mating problems are met. There is no intention of implying that our monogamous human family life is perfect; and yet in spite of our half-hearted loyalty to monogamy and of the personal selfishness which we all bring into the home, there is no human institution which so nearly gives an example of service by the strong for the weak, of chivalry and devotion between the sexes, of brotherhood and the spirit of democracy, as our mo- nogamous family. When we seek out its faults it should be for the purpose of finding ways to improve it. Likely enough we need more intelligent laws and administration of laws of marriage and divorce based upon careful study of the problems. Without doubt we need to encourage suitable and to discourage unsuitable marriages. And we certainly need to educate our young men and women in respect to those aspects of personal character and in the special facts of sex, marriage and parenthood which will make for happy and successful family building. 3. Abnormal Influences of Sex in Society. - It has been insisted throughout these studies that the normal effects of sex on the individual and on society are those with which we are most concerned. We are not merely trying to keep our children out of pitfalls; we want them to enter into the 72 BIOLOGY OF SEX purest and richest life possible to them. It is, however, necessary to guard against the pitfalls. It is not possible in such a brief survey to give any real notion of the horrible perversions of sex that exist, nor of their full destructive and anti-social effects. They are as low and terrible as the purity and fineness of love and home life are high and holy. These things should not be over- emphasized in the education of youth, but it is necessary to make them serve their part in holding youth upright. The social evils growing out of the abuse and wrong use of sex impulses may be enumerated as follows: - (1) The breaking up of homes. Unfaithfulness of mates is one of the common causes of the destruction of what might otherwise be normal homes, contributing to the health of society. There is nothing which so strikes down the home and all it stands for. Full faithfulness to the idea of the monogamous family and to the mate implies abstinence from illicit sex relations by both before mar- riage, entire faithfulness to the mate during marriage, and a temperate, considerate sex relation between mates in marriage. (2) Prostitution. In every town and city the lust of men creates a demand which results in the ruin of thou- sands of women, in the aggregate, and in condemning them to social ostracism, bodily disease, degeneration of mind and morals, and speedy death. These victims are recruited from young girls of every rank in society, who fall usually through ignorance or poverty or love of unworthy men. There is to-day no more terrible blot on our Christian civilization than this sacrifice of women, and the organized machinery by which girls are lured to this certain death. No words are strong enough to condemn the unrestrained MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 73 men who create the demand nor the inhuman creatures, men and women, who draw women and exploit them in the traffic. Prostitution in all its aspects is revolting to nor- mally social minds, and whenever it is portrayed to young people, its cruel and unsocial character should be made so clear that they will never outgrow their first horror of its inhumanity. For this reason, the portrayal should be made to them at that impressionable age when youth is all alive with chivalrous feelings and is expanding into social en- thusiasm. This statement is not intended to deny that women are sometimes the active agents in their own fall; but broadly even such women are exploiting this lust of men for other than strictly sexual motives. They seek support, luxury, escape from unbearable surroundings, - or are subnormal or unbalanced mentally. (3) Venereal diseases. These so-called social diseases are spread through society largely through prostitution. They are extremely communicable and insidious, and men and women who lead irregular lives sexually are certain to be infected with them sooner or later. It is difficult to get statistics that are reliable, but even conservative physi- cians have estimated that fully one-eighth of all the disease which afflicts humanity comes from unclean sexual life. The two most'dangerous of these sex-diseases are gonorrhea and syphilis. These two diseases are the most prevalent and fatal diseases among human beings. Gonorrhea is caused by a germ which attacks the mucous membrane of the reproductive passages and may ascend to the very remotest organs, - the ovaries and testes. It may produce entire sterility. Diseased husbands thus in- fect their wives and may render them invalid and barren. 74 BIOLOGY OF SEX Children born of such mothers are readily infected, and the disease often produces blindness dating from birth. In many institutions for the blind it is known that no less than 50 per cent of the inmates have lost their sight through gonorrhea. It is uncertain whether this disease is ever completely curable, transmission to others often occurring long after patients have believed themselves cured. Less frequently gonorrhea gets into the blood and produces constitutional troubles. Syphilis, also caused by a micro-organism, is less preva- lent than gonorrhea, but is more dangerous in that it may be transmitted in more ways, and is furthermore capable of producing most disastrous consequences in descendents of syphilitic parents. It is not confined to the sex-organs, but becomes a "blood" disease, reaching the whole system. Because of this it may be communicated through any mucous membrane or any abrasion on the body. Aside from its loathsomeness and infectiousness, the children of syphilitic parents who may have recovered from the disease itself are liable to be weak and open to bodily and mental diseases. The parents themselves are peculiarly liable to paralysis and other permanent nervous troubles, if the disease is not arrested in its earlier stages. These diseases are more than individual matters; they are social evils. They break up families, they destroy or make innocent wives invalid or barren, they maim and weaken unborn children and put them as a burden on society, and thus in numerous ways strike at the health of the community. (4) Illegitimacy. Among the distressing social results of unbridled sex-indulgence is the large number of children born out of wedlock. In many instances the mothers of MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 75 these children are mere girls who cannot possibly have known in full the results of their acts. Such mothers and children are not able to become normal members of society. The child has a great handicap and may become the ward of the public, and the mother is rarely given the chance to regain her place in society even if she so desires. Births out of wedlock are greatly on the increase. Illegiti- macy is so common that it is a social threat, and it is time that all who care for the future of the children of the land should use every effort to check it. Many people insist that society should be more humane in its treatment of unmarried mothers and their children. The difficulty is to do this in such a way as not to encourage promiscuous sex relations and illegitimacy. Certainly the fathers in these cases whenever they can be identified, should be held equally responsible with the mother for the care and support of the children. 4. The Moral Bearings of Sex. - If sex influences personal character and social and racial welfare as has been suggested in the preceding paragraphs, it presents an ethical and moral issue of first importance. Indeed it runs the whole gamut of ethical and moral capability in its wonderful range of fineness and grossness. For example, who could doubt for a moment that the ideal, and the undertaking, of establishing a clean home and an honorable and complete marriage, of rearing healthy children as an offering to a sound society, and the devo- tion of the whole family in considerate mental sacrifice for these ends are high moral enterprises? Who will not say that morality in its most attractive and honorable form belongs to the young man who, in spite of all temptations, keeps himself as pure as he wants his wife to be for the 76 BIOLOGY OF SEX sake of this ideal? At the other extreme, we find in sex relations human grossness and exploitation of personality as heartlessly immoral and brutal as life shows at any point. Who will not brand alike the dishonorable and im- moral prosperous man who lures, for his own lust, the poorly paid working girl by the attraction of the comforts he can give her, and the prosperous man who pays the girl so poorly that she falls an easy victim to such lures? We instinctively condemn the unspeakable "cadet" who earns his livelihood by winning the affections and ruining the lives of unprotected girls in order to turn them over to a life of prostitution by the proceeds of which he is supported; but he is only a logical climax of the inhuman- ity which belongs to the unsocial degradation of this most social of all our endowments. There is no realm of social morals in which good and bad, high and low, are so possible and so inextricably mixed as in the sex relations. 5. Human Standards to Protect Social Morals. - It is very clear that young and inexperienced people cannot always find within themselves the necessary strength and knowledge to guide wisely their sex-behavior amidst the complex temptations that society has thrown around them. Not all young people have normal home life. It is for these reasons that protecting standards and conventions, derived from the experience and observation and reasoning of the race, are valuable. The new generation is always disposed to resent such standards and to criticise them as artificial and unsound restraints. They are certainly right that one generation ought not to seek to impose its prejudices and opinions ar- bitrarily upon the next. It is also true that our standards MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 77 and codes of morality are not perfect and final. Never- theless they are the results of actual racial experience. While they are not perfect, they are not mere prejudices. Unless we can devise ways to give the results of past ex- perience to the new generation, no progress is possible beyond what one generation can learn. A great responsibility rests upon all teachers at this point. It is not enough for us to insist upon our moral standards. We must find ways to make them appealing as the results of experience, and satisfying to the new generation, both for their own happiness and the progress of society. In doing this by democratic methods we are more likely to win our young people, and even more we ourselves will be more open minded to the further im- provement of these standards. For example, the monogamous family and its gradual improvement and the social safeguards that have been placed about it, - as compared with polygamy or other sex experiments which the race has tried, -has done more than anything else to build up sure foundations for society and social morals. All efforts to break it down should be resisted to the utmost. This does not mean that it may not change. We should join our children in the effort to improve as well as to protect it. In the same way the standards that respect and insist on faithfulness in the home are of vital importance and should be equally bind- ing on both sexes. The increasingly high standard held up for women has been the salvation of society. Society cannot endure with a double standard of sex morality for men and women. The jealousy of men has insisted on this standard of control for women. Unless we men join our women in this, they with their increasing independence 78 BIOLOGY OF SEX will come down to ours; and they are right. There cannot be two standards. There is no biological or psy- chological necessity for two. The double standard is doomed. The only open question is this: - Shall hu- manity climb up to and improve the standard which the best women hold, or shall we together default to that held by less controlled men? 6. The Inner Personal Morals. - It is quite possible that some parent or teacher may ask: "If it is true that sex is normal and sex-desires are implanted in order that reproduction may occur, how can it be said that sex-in- dulgence can have anything immoral in it, - any more than eating or any other natural act?" This is a natural and legitimate question. If we were not different from the animals, no wrong would attach to sex-indulgence. There can be no purely biological argument against sex gratification in such moderation as is not physically injurious. However, the case for humans is not nearly so simple as this. Sex relations among us is not an individual matter merely. There is always the wel- fare of the other individual. No person has any right, social or personal, to exploit for his own uses any other person. We cannot escape the social element and make it merely a biological matter. Furthermore, society can- not play favorites. In a really social regime there must be no special privilege. If the door is thrown open it must be opened to all. If a young man seeks gratification for himself, he cannot rightly deny similar privileges to other men with the women closest to him, - his mother, sister, wife or daughter. This would mean promiscuous intercourse without restraint. The social effect of this would be to destroy any confidence in virtue and even ideals of MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 79 virtue, to leave no place for the home and the emotions that belong to it, to make impossible the effective care of children, and to destroy completely the conception and sentiments of fatherhood. In a word it would thwart, so far as humans are concerned, all effective mating and care of offspring, and break up the most basal unit of human society, - the family. We have then in human society this dilemma: - Shall we indulge the sensuous gratifications of sex as animals do? Or shall we exercise self-control in the interest of the higher social values? It is always at this point that personal morals appear. As soon as it is clear that the choice lies between individual self-indulgence and self- restraint in the interest of a higher and more general good, the issue becomes a moral one. This is true even if the proposed act itself be otherwise natural and harmless. It did not take the voice of God, saying, "Thou shalt not commit adultery" to make irregular intercourse un- social and immoral. Neither do our laws nor our public opinion and social standards make it immoral. Its im- morality is much deeper than these, and these prohibitions have come out of that deeper thing. That thing is, that all human society and its fineness and inspirations and sacrifices are automatically destroyed by self-indulgence when the individual refuses to restrain this impulse in accordance with the welfare of the social group. Sex-in- dulgence is not merely a blow at the present form of society; it strikes at the foundation of all society based on home and family. 7. Incentives Leading to Self-Control. - With a tre- mendous selfish impulse such as the sex-appetite, self-con- trol means what the psychologist calls an inhibition. An 80 BIOLOGY OF SEX inhibition means back-fires to check the impulse; it means bigger impulses to overwhelm the evil one; it means that the higher and more refined phases of an impulse shall hold the grosser in leash; it means a "will to do without, overcoming the desire to do." Now there are various incentives which may serve as inhibitions to the boy or girl coming up to face this ques- tion of personal sex behavior. Some of these are named below, and each should be used at the time and in the way which will bring the best result in immediate conduct and in permanent character: (1) "Thou shalt not" of human or Divine command. (2) Fear of injury and arrest of development. (3) Fear of disease. (4) Respect for public opinion. (5) Disgust at the grosser phases of sex abuses. (6) Desire and taste for the more refined, more per- manent, and more social satisfactions that may come from the impulses of sex. (7) Respect and consideration for other personality, passing in the case of boys into a chivalrous attitude toward women. (8) An interest in the future racial progress by elimina- tion of poor strains and encouraging sound ones. (9) Positive personal standards of judgment, ideals of conduct, and habits of action, whether animated by experience, love for humanity, philosophy, or religion. These are stated somewhat in the order in which they appeal to youth, beginning with the lowest. The first three are negative appeals, and are to be used sparingly in early life, and at critical points, and held permanently over those whose mental and moral growth does not advance MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 81 them to the point where the higher motives can appeal. Disgust and aversion are somewhat more personal and lofty qualities than fear, and can often be inspired before a child can give all the grounds for its feelings. This feeling arises from the fundamental instincts of right and fairness, which many children possess in a degree much beyond their powers of reasoning: - "For of such is the Kingdom of Heaven"! Respect for public opinion and public conventions is somewhat higher and more complex and is very important. It should be worked into the nature of the child's thoughts of sex until it forms a kind of permanent background to its consciousness, so that the child can do no act without asking himself how this act will affect the feelings of those who love him best. The known demand of a family or community for chastity and purity is a great stimulus to right action in young people. Lax public ideas of modesty and restraint are a prelude to the breaking over of stronger barriers by the young. United demands on the part of young women of a community and their parents for clean lives in the young men will be to them one of the strongest possible inhibitions of loose living. A greater help still to a young man in enabling him to fight his worst impulses, is to have been trained in such real respect for the personality of a woman that he would realize how she would be wronged by his act, and in such consideration for women in general, that it would become a chivalrous desire to protect them from himself as well as from others. In this connection it ought to be recognized that pure love for a young woman is to most young men a clear call to chivalry; and ought to be used to appeal to self-control. It is a remarkable suggestion of Divine 82 BIOLOGY OF SEX wisdom that the same period of development in life that brings lust brings also chivalry, its most effective antidote. Probably the most normal and perfect means of guiding sex control on the physical plane is to make clear to boys and girls from the beginning the greater total personal satisfactions that can come to them from the use of sex only at the proper time and in social and humane ways. This is refining lust into love, chivalry, and devotion to the other sex. To be sure these higher satisfactions are further off; but they are more permanent and more broad and varied, in that they include mental, emotional, esthetic and social satisfactions along with the physical. They carry no regrets, no loss of self respect or respect of others, no degrading exploitation of others, no disease. On the con- trary they include clean companionship; honorable court- ship, love, marriage; exploring with one's mate the great adventure of living in a spirit of service, devotion, chiv- alry, cooperation; and producing, rearing and planning for children to carry on the race. The best chance of humanity is to sublimate the transient lust by way of the optimism of love. A man or woman may have either; but one cannot have both! In practise, any one of these incentives which will effec- tively do the work of checking the impulses to self-in- indulgence is as good as any other for the moment; but in personality it makes a world of difference. Our objective in education is to secure the internal standards and attitudes of right thinking and acting which will most safely inhibit wrong action. Hence the greatest emphasis should be put on those positive motives which lead not merely to control but to the highest personal and social uses. "Only nobler impulses and good ideals can inhibit the lusts of the flesh." MENTAL, SOCIAL, AND MORAL BEARING 83 Therefore, as teachers, we must secure these with our teaching. 8. Sex and Religion. - It is well known to students of childhood that the nature undergoes profound changes during the period in which the sexual powers mature. This is not an accident. It is the result of the developing sex qualities. During this period the child is highly impres- sionable both by good and by bad. Love opens the way for the highest and the lowest. If the animal impulse tempts to abuse and indulgence, there are other instincts equally associated with the maturing sex nature, that lead to purity and to spiritual control. It has been shown by statistics that this is the general period of youth in which religion makes its strongest appeal. In early and again in later adolescence, more than at any other age, young people take their stand for religious life, and can be aroused to enthusi- astic work for individuals and for a regenerated social and economic order, which should always accompany religious profession. It is not an accident that love of God and love for mankind and the maturing of the reproductive impulses come together. They are all part of the fundamental unselfishness of the reproductive process. It is the privilege and duty of teachers to bind them together for the improve- ment of all. 9. Summary. - The teacher who aspires to assist the child in sound sex-development must keep in mind the general path over which the wonderful impuse has come in evolution, and the contributions it has made to person- ality. It literally molds the physical nature; it gives peculiar quality to the mental life and to disposition and temperament; it lays the foundations for social instincts and conduct in mating, home-making, care of children, 84 BIOLOGY OF SEX and the like; it furnishes one of the most remarkable and trying arenas in which every life must fight out moral battles to determine whether self-indulgence or the higher things shall rule the life; it even heightens the sensitive- ness of the early life to the call of beauty, nature, truth and God in the individual soul. The teacher must remember also that at every step this great constructive factor threatens to become destructive, to take control of the nature, and to break down and destroy all that has been so laboriously built up. This is not what is to be taught the children; it is the kind of thing the parent and teacher must feel while they bring to the child the graded facts of his life and relations. And yet the youth should somehow get the sense of these big agencies which he may invoke in helping to make his knowledge practical, in forming ideals, and in establishing habits of action. CHAPTER VIII THE CENTRAL PLACE OF THE HOME AND FAMILY 1. The Biological Foundations of the Home. - It is clear from earlier chapters that the home and family life are not determined at all primarily by comfort, protection from the elements, the storage of food, nor any other eco- nomic or physical fact. Homes are formed essentially because of the differences between men and women, by the impulses and the attractions of sex, and by the re- production and care and protection of offspring. Around these types of attraction, companionship, love, and devo- tion, this supremely vital human institution has originated and developed. Of course there have been added, as experience and intelligence have increased, many incen- tives of comfort, convenience, protection, artistry and culture. These have helped to refine and improve the home; but all these are secondary to sex and reproduction as factor in home and family life. 2. Producing and Rearing Children the First Function of the Home. - While in point of time the sex attraction of mates precedes reproduction, it remains true that pro- ducing offspring and fitting them as effective individuals in society is the supreme object of this whole complex of sex and reproduction and of the instincts and behavior associated with them. If this fails, society fails. The individual satisfaction and happiness of the mates, impor- tant as this is for the well-beiner of mankind, is valuable 85 86 BIOLOGY OF SEX chiefly in motivating parents, and in producing better home conditions for the right rearing of children. In all probability it was the long period of care necessary for the young of the higher animals and man, which has gradu- ally brought about longer and more faithful and devoted sex relations between the father and the mother. There has been no institution in the history of human evolution which has so made for progress in all the elements of personality and spirit as this lengthened family life. 3. The Home the Basis of our Social Structure. - The family, arising by way of sex and reproduction and parental care, is not only the means of continuing and upbuilding the species; it furnishes, in its sacrifices and in the removal of the competitive motive, the only spirit by which a cooperative society can exist at all. This sacrificing impulse first arose about sex and reproduction. Furthermore, the home as a social unit is very largely responsible for the social organization, the economic interests, the laws and conventions and traditions that are developed within society. In the history of mankind the family life, whether monogamous or polygamous, patriarchal or matriarchal, permanent or transient, has largely colored the civilization of which it was a part. In our own civilization, which professes to be monogamous, we are having constant reminders that faithfulness or laxity, difficulty or ease of divorce, and other factors which affect the stability of the home are profoundly changing the texture of our social life and ideals. 4. The Central Problem of Human Social Health. - Since society depends upon the home and its nature and spirit, and since the home is essentially an institution produced and maintained through sex, it comes about that THE HOME AND FAMILY 87 one of the most fundamental problems of social hygiene is to learn to use the sex endowment of mankind in such a way as to conserve and perfect the home and family life, and not to tear these down. Much of the sex emphasis and expression of today is destructive of the home and its in- fluence. We may look upon our progressing human civi- lization as a procession of homes and families, in which the spirit and purposes of a family should find their way into the children and then unfold in a fuller degree in the families which they in their turn form. Suppose each pair of parents tried not merely to live a fine married life with their children, but also could effectively interpret to these children their own best understanding of the mean- ing of these relations of husband and wife, of parents with children, and of brothers and sisters. Suppose they could use the full power and enthusiasm of this home to give the boys and girls a better appreciation of it than they themselves had at the outset. Suppose the children had their need of knowledge and understanding satisfied at every step of their own sex growth so that they could assimilate into their character the most wholesome ideals and attitudes and purposes of sex life. Suppose all this could be done without giving the children either an ex- aggerated or an under-estimate of sex; without complexes either of prudery or of vulgar coarseness. In these con- ditions, would not our sex-social health be conserved and insured more effectively than by any external codes, tradi- tions or laws which we can devise in support of the home? Unless the essential atmosphere of successful family life can be passed along from one home to its successor by way of the children, no other agency can possibly do this vital task. 88 BIOLOGY OF SEX 5. The Early Home Drama in Education. - It is quite well agreed among psychologists that the first 8 or io years are the most fruitful years of life in the quantity of basic information a person gets. These years likewise give the set to the desires, emotions, impulses, prides and prejudices, tastes, attitudes, and habits of life. It is not that changes may not be worked afterward in these elements of character; but that they do have to be changed, if we get any improvement. These emotional states are much harder to change than to form at the outset. Along with other important interests the sex attitudes and ideals are equally fixed by these early home relations. The home drama is a very quiet but persistent sex and character educator. Much of this education is entirely unconscious both to parents and child. By means of it the child gets in these early years many things which profoundly influence his whole sex character and life. In the normal child some of these are: Whether he shall have an attitude and habit of self-indulgence and self-will with regard to all his desires, or become self-controlled, adjustable, and cooperatively-minded in the family; whether his attitude toward his mother shall be one of selfish use and enslavement of her, or of admiration, love, protection and chivalry; whether he and his father shall be understanding partners in making the mother comfortable as well as effective, or whether the boy shall be filled with jealousy and misunderstanding toward the father. During this time he will get an adequate and true or a perverted conception of the meaning of the relation of husband and wife, father and son, mother and son, brothers and sisters, boys and girls, men and women; of the worth of the home as a place for real happiness; of democracy and mutual THE HOME AND FAMILY 89 service, or of autocracy and dominance by the strong, as the normal spirit of homes. It will be determined whether his inevitable curiosity about the sex phenomena, which he sees and about which he hears something, shall he wisely satisfied and guided, or shall be over-emphasized either by reticence and denial or by crude and exciting information. We have it in our power to make him either prudish or vulgar-minded or sane and normal, by our handling of these early years. We can thus early form his tastes and prejudices in favor of cleanness, fineness, consideration toward girls, chivalry toward women, and all like matters; or in favor of coarseness, discourtesy, smut, vulgar imagination and talk, and exploiting girls and women for his own gratification. Parents do not realize how their own poor adjustments of these intimate problems of married life mar the whole sex and emotional life of their children. For example, an unreasonable father who hectors and dominates a more passive mother may work either of several unwholesome sex results in the life of his boy. If the boy is fond of the mother and has a vigorous personality he will become the champion of the mother. Through fear of the father the child may be forced to repress the expression of these feelings. The result will be an extreme devotion to the mother, which may take abnormal and emotionally dis- astrous forms; and equally a growing sense of antagonism toward the father. In boys of self-assertive character this may result in running away from home or in actual attempts to do violence to the father. In boys of less cour- age it may produce a definite sense of subordination and inferiority which may seek to compensate itself in various ways, most of which are unwholesome. For example, he 90 BIOLOGY OF SEX may reassert himself by domineering over those weaker than himself, and thus repeat his father's mistakes when he has a home of his own. Or he may assume a more passive solution and himself become effeminate. Of course the special outcome of such a condition in any particular case will be very dependent both on the inherited elements of character in the child and on the relation between the child and his mother. But it will always produce an unwholesome result in the sex reactions and attitudes of the child as well as in other ways, and will be passed on in hurtful ways to his own family. When we stop to consider the various shades of the sex relation in a complete home, and the ways in which these react to mold the future sex standards and attitudes in the larger life, we begin to sense how inevitable is this unconscious influence of the home in the period of infancy and early childhood. These sex relations in the home are those of father and mother, of mother to son, of mother to daughter, of father to son, of father to daughter, of brother to sister, of brother to brother, of sister to sister! Each of these is as really a "sex-relation" as any other, each is different from the others, and each is highly educative for good or ill to the permanent sex-social life of the indi- vidual. 6. The Home is at Stake in this Problem. - If the home is important in imparting a wholesome sex attitude and spirit to its members, it is no less true that the future of the home is dependent upon the sex standards and prac- tises acquired by these young people who in the next genera- tion make the new homes. The situation is a cycle; and the problem is whether it shall be a vicious or a benevolent one. Sex has made the home. Sound and restrained use THE HOME AND FAMILY 91 of sex has made for the gradual improvement of homes. Only the misuse of sex can permanently degrade and wreck the home. Of course, when we speak of "sex" in any such connection, the reader must realize that we are not talking merely of the physical aspects of sex. It is quite clear that it is the emotional, the intellectual, the esthetic, the social, the ethical elements in sex which make the difference between the gross and the fine, between the home and the brothel. If we would redeem the sex life of humanity we must improve the home. If we would perfect the home we must clarify and use most construc- tively the whole sex nature and attitudes of the young while they are young. 7. Substitutes for Marriage and the Monogamous Home. - The writer does not believe or pretend that the monogamous home is now, or has ever been, perfect or a complete solution of the sex problems arising in the com- plex conditions of our organized life. However, the fact that groups and races have more and more adopted the monogamous idea, as they have advanced in their civi- lization, is very significant. While monogamous marriage is crudely conceived by many; while few are specifically prepared by their education to make the most of it; while many enter it with an actual history of license and of unfaithfulness to the idea and with reservations of un- faithfulness for the contract, - it remains true that no sex-relation which man has yet experimented with allows so much of happiness and development to the mates or so much and so effective care for offspring. Its weakness can be removed in large degree though education; its advantages cannot be duplicated by any other arrange- ment which human beings have yet conceived, 92 BIOLOGY OF SEX Perhaps the weakest points about permanent monoga- mous marriage arise out of the following facts: (i) There are always difficulties in the personal adjustments of two people who are thrown so intimately and continuously together as marriage demands, and many people refuse to make these adjustments; (2) There is still a strain, in males particularly, of unfaithfulness arising out of fickleness, out of desire for novelty and excitement, and out of love of conquest, which, coupled with the powerful sex impulses of man, makes for poly-erotic or polygamic tendencies; (3) our economic and social conditions make for late marriages and even discourage marriage altogether; (4) our general selfishness and unwillingness to adopt a social attitude results in many men and women refusing to accept the responsibilities of marriage and child rearing; (5) there has always been a large number of men who have liked to believe that there is a "sex necessity" resting upon men which is not true of women, and thus have claimed for themselves special privileges in respect to sex indul- gence; (6) the more advanced women of recent years are rightly denying that there is any sound ground for such a double standard of sex morality, and are claiming for themselves any privileges which may be claimed by their brothers. Out of these cross-currents of opinion and tradition have arisen many criticisms of marriage and suggested solutions of the sex problem outside of marriage. These suggestions include prostitution and promiscuity of all grades parallel with marriage, concubinage, "trial" marriages which may or may not lead to more permanent relations, greater ease in breaking marriages, "free love" with no contractual elements, privilege of mother- hood without prejudice for unmarried women, and the THE HOME AND FAMILY 93 like. It is rather significant that most of these sugges- tions recognize the permanent monogamous home as the ideal, and look upon the laxer relations as means of giving sex expression to those who by lack of character or for any reason do not find such permanent marriage acceptable or possible to them. 8. The Weakness of the Substitutes. - The basic weak- ness of all these substitutes is that they put the emphasis and premium upon the secondary phenomenon of selfish sex satisfaction of adults rather than where it primarily belongs, - upon the production and maximum care of children for the good of society. All of them look in the direction of more promiscuous mating and reduced responsi- bility for the permanent welfare both of mates and children. We have evidence that a considerable percentage of human- ity, even with the inadequate past education they have had in the matter, have reached the place where they can restrain their wandering sex desires and erect a faithful home life, if backed by the opinion and demand of society itself. On the other hand we have no evidence that we have reached the plane where the average person would do this if there were at the same time held up before him an equally ap- proved alternative of reaping the indulgences of sex without assuming any social responsibilities for his conduct. There- fore if we are to preserve the monogamous home we cannot afford to put every selfish interest against it. We must give the home a chance. While the sex problems of those who cannot have the normal married life are admittedly difficult, the problems cannot be solved by regarding such life as the normal state and by putting the premiums of social approval upon relations which would diminish the success of responsible home and family life. BIOLOGY OF SEX 94 9. Where the Solution Lies. - The only constructive solution of these problems lies in the research, education and social adjustments which will tend to make family life more fine, more successful, more universal for all fit and normal people. Some of the outstanding elements in this solution seem to be: - (a) More consistent preparation of young people to un- derstand the meaning of sex and reproduction before marriage, to get the attitude of successful adjustment to marriage, and to make sanely the transition from the romantic love of courtship and early marriage to the mutual, democratic, cooperating companionship and sac- rifice of the home life; (fi) A more thoughtful selection of mates both from the point of view of eugenics and of ability of adjustment; (c) Social guidance and control of the conditions and laws of marriage, divorce, and the like on sound scientific grounds of knowledge and reason and not on the basis of our prejudices, taboos, and traditions merely; (d) The reorganization of our social and economic con- ditions so that early and permanent and general marriages shall be encouraged rather than discouraged as at present. CHAPTER IX EUGENICS 1. The Problem of Human Improvement. - When we analyze the task of improving human beings we find that there are only three ways to go about it, just as in the case of the farm animals. (1) We may train and educate the individual in respect to any natural qualities or powers he may possess, bodily, intellectual, emotional, esthetic, ethical, social. While we do not know any fixed limit to what can thus be done for human individuals, we have no evidence that any part of such training can go over into the next generation. It is purely an individual matter, and hence must be done anew for each generation. (2) We may change the environment for individuals, for better or worse, so that this environment may encourage the desirable traits in the individual and discourage those traits and expressions we do not approve. Among human beings this includes of course the control of elements in the physical environment, as heat and cold, food and moisture, the germs which produce diseases, etc. Equally it includes our organized society and our civilization, with its laws, its government, its institutions, its machinery of education, and its conventions and codes, its public opinion and attitudes. This is a kind of social inheritance, and accumulates and presumably improves with time. 95 96 BIOLOGY OF SEX (3). We may consciously control the mating and breeding of individuals on the basis of their inherited traits and then may select from the offspring of these, for mating in the next generation, such individuals as have the quali- ties to be perpetuated and strengthened. The application of the third method depends wholly upon inheritance. And such improvement of the human race through selective mating and better offspring is known as Eugenics. Making the most of the life of the individual after it is born, as is implied in the first and second methods above, is sometimes spoken of as Euthenics. Eugenics has to do with " blood ''rather than culture, with nature rather than with nurture. 2. The Essential Contention of the Eugenist. - In approaching the problem of race improvement the eugenist argues somewhat as follows: "Biologically there is no reason why the human race may not be improved. We mean by this that we can, by proper methods of selective breeding increase or weaken any group of qualities which human beings possess. For ages we have believed that we could improve the race by train- ing the individual and that by mating this individual with another similarly trained, some of the result of this culture would be passed on by inheritance to the next generation. It is not nearly so easy as this would suggest. "We quite agree that children should be well educated, but we insist also that society should take steps to see that those who bring children into the world are naturally fit to do so. So far as eugenics is concerned, this 'fitness' is not a matter of training. It is a matter of stock, of blood, of inheritance. "Our human sentiments and our moral standards will EUGENICS 97 not allow us, when children have once been brought into the world, to subject the unfit to the rigors of competition which in the lower animals eliminate the weaklings and thus, by checking their mating and breeding, keep up the average of the stock. Without doubt the average quality of the human stock could be improved in this way. In- stead, in theory at least, we take even these defectives and apply our resources to give them as nearly a normal indi- vidual life as is possible. By allowing these to propagate, we subject the race to the handicap of continuing and supporting an unnatural number of defective strains. By artificial protection of the weak, we are actually increasing and pouring back into the stream of human life the unsound elements which nature eliminates in other species. As a species we lose ground by doing this sort of thing, but we know that the moral and altruistic qualities we cultivate in saving the weak more than compensate for the other losses. " This, however, is the mistake we make: when we admit this individual right to life (and consequently our obliga- tion to enrich this life), it should not carry with it the right to reproduce. Reproduction is not an individual right. It is primarily a social phenomenon and for the sake of the species. Human society, in the interest of its own advancement and soundness, has the right to deny the privilege of propagation to those who are for any reason unfit to reproduce. Only by doing this can we safely encourage our social tenderness without vicious results in evolution. "In addition to preventing the propagation of the grossly unfit, there are certain positive principles of selective mating which should be respected, in order to get the 98 BIOLOGY OF SEX best qualities in offspring. Individuals, who under proper conditions might marry and produce sound offspring with one mate, may not do so with another. We now know enough of heredity to be able to say that some individuals should not be allowed to reproduce at all. We are grad- ually gaining the kind of information that will enable us to say that certain particular matings should not take place, and that certain other matings are highly suitable. As our knowledge increases we shall be able to give more intelligent guidance to mating in the interest of better children and a better society." 3. The Penalty of Poor Matings. - It is estimated that about one per cent of the total population of the United States is cared for by society in institutions for the insane, feeble-minded, epileptic, blind, deaf, paupers and criminals, etc., and probably twice as many should receive this care; that about ten per cent of the population is socially in- adequate in the sense that they are not equal to meet effectively their part of the tasks of social life. This means that they are a partial or complete charge on the com- munity or on their families or that they menace in some way present society or promise to produce such a percent- age of socially deficient offspring as to menace future society. In a merely material way the care and inef- ficiency of these people runs into the hundreds of millions each year. Certainly not all of these failures are due to poor inheritance. The inefficiency, injustices, and in- humanity of our present social order are responsible for a considerable proportion of the wreckage. On the other hand we know that some of the physical, mental, and emotional conditions back of insanity, feeble-mindedness, epilepsy, and even of laziness, poverty, and criminality EUGENICS 99 are transmissible by heredity. Rarely under good condi- tions do these qualities crop up from good stock. It is clearly a human obligation both to stop the bad blood and to furnish conditions in which all socially adequate strains shall realize the best that is in them. 4. The Things that Influence Birth. - Fifteen years ago the above contention was somewhat new to our ears; but it is now a plea very familiar to all those who have kept in touch with discoveries about inheritance in recent years. We are learning as never before the facts about the inheritance of human traits. What are the chief elements that help to determine how a child may be "well born," - or whether prospective parents are fit to propagate their kind? Broadly speak- ing there are three elements or aspects of parental fitness or unfitness to add to the population: (i) such physical and mental and moral defects as make personal and social success impossible and are certainly transmissible to children through heredity; (2) qualities, such as infec- tion by the venereal and other diseases, which while not strictly heritable are yet capable of being trans- mitted to offspring at or even before birth; and (3) in- ability, personal or economic, to give children a chance to enter into the world's activities with a reasonable hope of normal success. Class (1) falls properly in the realm of eugenics. Class (3) is primarily a matter of social con- ditions and thus belongs to euthenics, but in all probability it will be found that some of this inability is a matter of hereditary structure belonging to (1) and not purely the results of the surroundings. Class (2) is more a question of pre-natal surroundings than of strict heredity and eugenics. Nevertheless it affects profoundly the efficiency 100 BIOLOGY OF SEX of offspring, and may operate for several generations. 5. Hereditary Transmission of Taints. - There is much about heredity of which we are still ignorant. Our experi- mental knowledge of just what may or may not be inherited, and of the chances for the actual inheritance of any human quality is mostly the result of the work of the present generation of scientists. Our knowledge of the inheritance of the higher human qualities is particularly incomplete; but we do know that inheritance extends to mental, temperamental, and character qualities just as certainly as to physical. We know that epilepsy, feeble-mindedness, idiocy, insanity, shiftlessness, criminal tendencies - in- cluding those toward sexual indulgence - selfishness, laziness, and other similar weaknesses of mind and morals contain factors which are in the blood and can be inherited. Similarly we know by careful study of human statistics that poor resistance to tuberculosis, weak heart, poor quali- ties of blood and of the internal secretions, and many other weaknesses which serve as the foundation of diseases, are clearly transmissible. The children of inebriates are very liable to nervous weaknesses and instability, epilepsy, imbecility, etc. On the other hand it is fully demon- strated that traits of strength as well as taints are secured through heredity. General bodily strength, resistance to diseases, mechanical ability, memory, cheerfulness, musical and artistic and literary ability, and strong moral qualities, such as unselfishness, conscientiousness, etc., depend on factors which can be handed on from generation to generation. Students of eugenics are now able to foretell with con- siderable exactness the probability of the inheritance of certain both of the strong and the weak qualities, if the EUGENICS 101 condition of the parents in respect to these qualities is known for several preceding generations. The principles underly- ing these conclusions are too complex to be stated here, but an illustration may be used. The following statements relate to imbecility, but they apply broadly to any of the traits that are subject to inheritance, both good and bad. (1) If both parents are normal and come from normal parents, all the offspring will be normal, so far as inherit- ance is concerned. (2) If both parents are mentally lacking in any quality and come from stocks or strains of the same kind, all the offspring will be without that quality. (3) Between these two extremes will be all sorts of pos- sibilities too complex to discuss at length here. For example, two parents having an undesirable quality may have 50 per cent or all abnormal children, depending on the grand- parents; two normal parents, if they belong to strains having the same defects, may have approximately 25 per cent abnormal children with these defects; if one of the parents be normal and of strong ancestry and the other defective, all the children may be normal, though some of these may have defective children if the mate also has come from a strain in which the defect occurs; or a normal person, with a defect in his ancestry and with a feeble-minded mate, may have 50 per cent of his children actually defective, and the remainder carrying the defect in a latent form. It will be seen that both the individuals concerned and their families must be considered in any question of mating; for no individual shows in his own body all the qualities which his germ cells may possess. Only a study of several generations will determine the latter. In a sense we marry the whole family of the person we select. 102 BIOLOGY OF SEX 6. Congenital Infections. - It is known that syphilis and gonorrhea, if not inherited, at least affect at or before birth a very large percentage of the children of infected par- ents. In this way thousands of children are born blind, diseased, or so arrested or disordered in nervous develop- ment that they may grow up epileptic, imbecile, or insane. In a manner that is similar, but not to be considered hereditary, parents with tuberculosis and some other diseases of skin and mucous membranes, may infect their children at or after birth. This may give them little or no chance in life and render them a burden to society, as well as centers of infection for later generations. This is in addition to the known inheritance of weak organs that may predispose to these diseases. 7. Social or Economic Incapacity. - This is a very complex thing and we do not yet know what elements enter into it in any case. Undoubtedly there are often ele- ments of physical, mental, or moral weakness not yet identified, which are inheritable. But apart from these transmissible weaknesses, a large per cent of humanity perfectly well able to produce healthy, normal children find themselves beset by such economic conditions that they could not properly care for them. Clearly society should not be deprived of these good strains. Still, many things besides hereditary qualities are necessary before such children can become helpful members of society. It would seem, therefore, that society has a duty here in furnishing such conditions that sound children shall always have a fair chance to come to efficient maturity. It is perfectly obvious, no matter how good the strain, that the size of the families should never be so large as to jeopardize the best development of those who are born. This is a point where EUGENICS 103 eugenics and euthenics must meet in the effort to determine what is the optimum, - the personal and social best. It cannot be safely left to cross currents of chance created by uncontrolled sex indulgence in marriage and of social and economic ignorance and despair. 8. Relation of these Considerations to Human Mar- riage. - Growing out of these discoveries concerning heredity during the last twenty years are several conclusions for the improvement of the human race: - (1) Human reproduction is primarily a social and not an individual matter; hence human marriage should be guided, in large part at least, by scientific facts and in the interests of society. (2) Unfit individuals, who have themselves inherited taints such as those mentioned in Section 4 of this chapter should not be allowed to marry unless it can be shown by scientific investigation that their marriage is not likely to result in tainted offspring. If there is a probability that it will, these defectives should either be segregated during the reproductive period or be made sterile by operation. (3) Society should require all applicants for marriage licenses to produce a certificate of complete freedom from all venereal diseases, signed by a competent and reputable physician. In the meantime, parents should demand this freedom from disease on the part of the young men who would marry their daughters. (4) Young people should be trained in a thoughtful attitude toward the qualities of their mates and of the families to which they belong. They should be allowed the widest possible acquaintance with different kinds of suitable people in order that the range of their selection may be as wide and sane as possible. There is no desire to 104 BIOLOGY OF SEX replace love and congeniality with stern, emotionless scientific selection, even if we could know absolutely the results of unions; but there is no question that some knowl- edge of eugenics on the part of young people would tend to diminish the haphazard marriages of the present day, and give to the selection of mates at least a flavor of intel- ligence. (5) The size of families should be adjusted to produce the best results. Many parents well fitted both in heredi- tary qualities and in favoring conditions produce families harmfully small. Many families are larger than either the hereditary endowments or the means of support will warrant. Science, information, public opinion, and an increased regard for the welfare both of individuals and the race should adjust parenthood and birth to the best interests of society. 9. Other Reforms made Necessary by these Facts. - It is not enough to prevent marriage and reproduction on the part of defective and habitually criminal individuals. It is incumbent on society, and our young people should be educated so as to understand that it is their duty to handle in a sane and scientific way the physical and moral plagues that cluster about sexual immorality and enter into our social environment to mar the best in our blood and in our training. The venereal diseases, which are strongly communicable, are much more harmful and dangerous to the human race than small-pox or scarlet fever. Strict measures should be adopted requiring physi- cians to report such cases to the health officers, who should isolate them, whether these prostitutes are men or women, just as in other infectious and communicable diseases. All this is demanded purely on hygienic grounds and has no EUGENICS 105 direct reference to moral necessities, although these latter may properly reinforce the former. This is very largely to be the work of our physicians and health officials. But they can go no faster than enlightened public knowledge and conscience support. Prostitution, whether amateur or professional, the white slave traffic, and their horrible accompaniments of im- morality and perversion, must be dealt with just as vigor- ously and scientifically; so must, for that matter, the social and economic conditions that minister to these things by making it difficult for girls to support themselves honestly in our cities. These reforms are in the hands of the students of social affairs, the makers and enforcers of our laws, and the prophets of a better social order. Thus the ideals of the advanced scientist and the dreams of the reformer point in the same direction: - to the elimi- nation of the individual transmission of hereditary taints wherever possible, to the elimination of the great centers and avenues of dissemination of the communicable and transmissible diseases; and to the elimination of economic conditions of life that make cleanness unnecessarily difficult. All this is for the double purpose of removing from the human stock physical and mental degeneracy due to birth, and of checking the moral disintegration of our young men and women through unnecessary and unnatural temptation. While the scientists are working out the facts on which eugenic progress depends, we as teachers and parents should be educating a generation of men and women who will appreciate them and will do their part in applying them to human betterment. CHAPTER X TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 1. Introductory. - Up to the present we have been making a statement of the problems confronting con- scientious parents and teachers, and have tried to give the subject the bigness and dignity to which it is entitled because of its biological importance and its pedagogical and moral possibilities. An effort has been made to furnish the point of view the teachers should have in their approach to the actual work of mastering the problem and of instruct- ing and inspiring youth, rather than to suggest just the in- formation which the pupil must have at the various stages of his development. This book thus far is an effort to supply the first of the pedagogical needs mentioned in Chapter III, Section 2, - the "Motivation of the Teacher." 2. The Matter of Instruction. - It is undoubtedly true that the educational world is now awakening to the duty that rests upon it, and that the indifference and hostility of parents toward this more thorough instruction are grad- ually passing away. Our next need is to know what is to be taught, and when, and by whom. The remainder of the book seeks to give some suggestions about these things. These are more difficult pedagogical problems, and it is not pretended that they are completely or even reasonably worked out in what follows. What is put down here is merely tentative and suggestive. It is believed, however, that the general principles followed in the analysis are 106 TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 107 sound, and experience has shown some of the special suggestions are essentially correct. It is fully expected that we shall, with fuller facts derived from experience, be able to modify the program helpfully at many points. What is said as to age is made broad and elastic, purposely. There will be many individual exceptions to the most per- fect time schedule that can be arranged. Indeed the chief objection to proposing a scheme like this is that parents or teachers may take it as final, suspend the use of their own insight and common sense, and in consequence make a failure of the whole effort in cases with which they may be working. Education, in a complex realm like this, is as varied and uncertain a task as that in any emotional and moral matter that strikes down to the very center of personality. The program is not capable of being put in any simple formula which will meet all the cases; but must be made the subject of continuous study and readjust- ment by the parent or teacher who wishes to secure high character in children. 3. The Spirit and Aim of Sex Education. - At the risk of repeating cautions that appear in earlier chapters, it seems wise to insist that we are not seeking to impart information, primarily. There are certain anatomical, physiological, pathological and social facts about sex and sex relations which a person might know and yet have nothing of that which we seek to gain in our education. The purpose of sex education is to give the individual the desires, emotions, pride, likes and dislikes, esthetic sense, ideals, attitudes and purposes that will enable him to use sex in the finest and most humane and social way possible. In a word we are trying to educate the character and person- ality of the child by way of his own sex nature and by 108 BIOLOGY OF SEX way of the wonderful sex facts and relations he finds about him at every step. He finds these most nearly normal in his own home; and in those impulses which make him want to build a new home some day. It must be clear that all this is much more a matter of mind and spirit than of body merely; more a matter of psychology than of biology or physiology. It is also more a matter of emotional psychology than of intellectual psychology; more of taste and aspirations and devotion, of honor and ideals and beauty than it is of facts; more a matter of interpretation of facts and of inspiration to ideals than of instruction alone. This does not mean that we can do what we seek with- out knowing and using the facts. It means merely that we are trying to get certain definite results in character by way of the facts we have rather than being content with revealing to the child step by step facts he has a right to know. If this is true the spirit in which the help is given be- comes very different. We become at once concerned with securing a certain altitude in the child about the subject. We become persuasive instead of dogmatic; we call out enthusiasm instead of demanding acceptance; we put in our personality, influence, and devotion instead of our superior age, rank, and knowledge. 4. The Periods of the Child's Life as They Relate to Sex Instruction. - The division of the life of the child for the purpose of grading properly the instruction in sex depends on several things: first, and chiefly, on the progress of his own development intellectually and sexually; second, on his sophistication; third, on the transitions in his social life - from home to school, to high school, and TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 109 the like; fourth, on the age, sex, and character of his companions; fifth, on his reading; and on other similar considerations. For the purposes of this chapter the following general divisions will be used: - A. The Early Stage. (1) From birth to 4 or 5 years (Infantile, Home Period). (2) From 4 to 6 or 7 years (Kindergarten Period). B. The Early Adolescent Stage. (1) Prepubertal Stage: from 7 to 11 or 12 (Period of the Early Grades). (2) Pubertal Stage: from 11 or 12 to 14 or 15 (Period of the Junior High School). C. Late Adolescent or Post-pubertal Stage: from 15 to 22 or 24 {Period of High School, and after). It is not intended to make the time limits of the terms used above accord exactly with their meaning in standard works on adolescence. The terms are applied to describe the most dominant facts of the periods; and the periods themselves are somewhat adjusted to the school divisions because the school must always be one of the chief agencies of sex education in the broad sense in which we have defined it. 5. The Early Stage: from birth to 4 or 5 years. - (a) The teacher: Without any doubt this will be the mother chiefly; but every member of the family will take a conscious or an unconscious part. (Z>) Spirit and purpose for the period: The great thing to be done is anticipatory, protective, and formative of good habits, attitudes and emotional complexes. (c) Contents and matter: Cleanliness and care of genitals; regular and prompt attending to the bodily functions; 110 BIOLOGY OF SEX habits of keeping hands and attention off the organs; no over emphasis or under emphasis or differentiation of sex matters from other matters; use of proper scientific names and not vulgar nicknames for the pelvic organs and processes; frank expression by the child of his emotional states so that the parents may know and understand. These expressions need not be objectionable in order to be free. (d) Remarks: Any unnecessary sense of shame or embarrassment or fear about such matters should be avoided. This does not mean that the child is to be en- couraged to talk freely of these things to strangers. They are family matters to be treated with great freedom among the family but not mentioned to strangers, because they are private affairs. The child should preferably sleep alone, should rise promptly on awaking, should not be dressed too warmly nor with tight-fitting garments nor in such a way as to favor putting the hands in the region of the organs, and should have plenty of active play and interests. For sound sex character as for all other aspects of character, it is important that there should be no forcible repression of the early impulses. The control should be gained from within as early as possible. 6. The Early Stage: from 4 to 6 or 7 years. - (a) The teacher: The mother and father, and other members of the immediate family, supplemented by kinder- garten or primary teacher. (&) The spirit and purpose: A frank meeting of the natural questions of the curious child in such a way as to avoid a sense of shame or levity or a cessation of confidence in his teachers; to arouse a sense of reverent wonder for the mysteries of life, and a feeling of the sacredness of the TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 111 body; and to secure the finest, most mutual and social attitudes toward other members of the family. (c) Contents and matter'. Continuation of everything begun in the former period; also the general facts of repro- duction in the animals best known to the child, - as chickens, mammal pets, man; where the baby animals and baby human beings come from; the mother's part in family life. (d) Remarks as to manner, etc.'. The questions of the child should be answered frankly, meeting the intellectual needs of the child just so far as they are felt; the informa- tion about reproduction should not be merely abstract generalizations, but should be related to the child - as his chickens, his kittens, babies of his own acquaintance. Broad general statements of principles are not usually necessary. If this period is properly dealt with, much of the vicious information which comes from the street may be anticipated and rendered less harmful. A sense of partnership with his parents in this knowledge is valuable. The average child learns more during these years than at any other period of equal length in his life. More is done also to give him his permanent emotional set and disposition than at any other period. Much will be gained if the sex facts can take their place normally and without shock in this growing knowledge, and without feelings of repression which do so much to build up harmful complexes. 7. The Prepubertal Stage: from 7 to 11 or 12. (u) The teachers: Parents, and all the teachers. The parent is still in the best position to do the work, if possessed of the necessary knowledge; but all possible agencies need to be used during this and the next period, - often unob- trusively. 112 BIOLOGY OF SEX (&) Spirit and purpose: To secure good habits, as in preceding periods; watchfulness, on the part of all, that the child be kept well nourished and be well supplied with physical exercise in which he is interested, - be kept busy and the surplus physical energy be used up and the interests guided and greatly enlarged. Keep vacant time full of good books, good play and good companions. Ideals of strong, healthy bodies should be formed. (c) Contents and matter: Somewhat as in former period, but may be extended. The direct sex teaching is at its minimum in this stage. Most of the teaching should be indirect and connected with health of body, with nature study, plant breeding, and other similar topics that come up in school. In the case of especially precocious children some of the precautionary teaching of the next stage may be given. It is a time for the setting up of a desire for manliness or womanliness. These ideas should continue to grow all through youth, and thus gain increasing content. (d) Remarks as to manner, etc.: Children of this age, who have been taught properly in the earlier period, will have had their curiosity satisfied with respect to the first mysteries that have raised questions in their minds. If this has been done properly and not evasively, it will tend to keep their minds off matters of sex. They are not yet stirred up by their own sex-development, and normally at this age they are little concerned with its questions. Boys are interested chiefly in playing with other boys. They want to be big men. They are not usually much attracted to the girls. The manner of approaching them should be through these physical ambitions. Boys of this age should be taught of the fine bodily and mental traits of strong men; and girls of the normal and vitally constructive TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 113 traits of womanhood. All of this should be quite indirect and incidental, letting them discover, and imitate such things under the spur of their own ambitions and admira- tions. Yet there should be present continually an ele- ment of fine interpretation of the meaning of these things to life and happiness. A series of measurements of a boy's chest, and thigh, and biceps during these years, with suggestions that he is above normal here or not up to standard there, and how to remedy such matters, will lay the foundations of pride in his own bodily future that may keep him from various dissipations later. The relation of normal sex-development to normal manly strength and vigor may be suggested. Though the boy does not yet know what is coming to him in development, the teacher does; and every incidental opportunity in any subject of study or conversation should be used quietly to appeal to the manly, self-respecting and other-respecting qualities which will serve as wholesome inhibitions later. 8. The Pubertal Stage: from 11 or 12 to 14 or 15.- (a) Teachers: For the girls: the mother, or some close woman teacher (school or Sunday-school). For the boys: the father or mature personal friend, teacher, athletic director, etc. Teachers at this age need to be very intimate and close personally, and capable of giving exact and reliable infor- mation and the necessary interpretation without arousing embarrassment or antagonism, and without over-emphasis. (Z>) Purpose and spirit: To secure mental preparation for the sexual changes that come to the body, intellect, tastes and emotions; to guard against the temptations to dwell on licentious mental pictures and ideas, or to indulge in experiments with the organs and in masturbation; to 114 BIOLOGY OF SEX refine and spiritualize the tremendous impulses of sex, and to transform them into sound ideals and habits of self- controlled sex-conduct; to combine the constructive ideas and emotions of sex with the other interests and impulses that are appearing, - as friendship, companionship, honor, chivalry, pride of family, and many others. For the boy who has coupled the sense of fair dealing and the sex ideas all through youth, there would be a strong inhibition work- ing against exploiting a girl. (c) Content and matter: The elementary facts of repro- duction and sex in organisms, and the changes that come in human beings at puberty; the internal secretions which produce these changes; the facts concerning seminal emissions, menstruation, etc., - their naturalness, their meaning, and the methods of self-care that are necessary to prevent unnaturalness and harm from them; the bodily value of sex health in later life; the mental and passional characteristics of this period quite as much as those of the body; the meaning of the changes in temperament and of the sex longings and appetites; definite warnings, with sound reasons (but not overstressed) against masturbation; the physiological connection of all these conditions and changes with genuine, fine manhood and womanhood; examples of chivalrous attitude of men toward women and the meaning of it (preparatory to the next stage where this sense of chivalry must function to strengthen self-restraint in young men); formation of ideals and standards of the gentleman in relation to girls, and impressing the reasons why these standards are sound for human beings; nature- study, biology, physiology, and religion as these bear upon sex and character. Among girls ideals of modesty in behavior, need of avoidance of loudness and forwardness, TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 115 and the beauty of clean attractive womanliness should be made as appealing as possible. (</) Remarks as to manner, etc.: A division of labor is called for in this period. Some of the above instruction can best come from the parent or close friend. Other parts of it can be given better in the schoolroom, in the Sunday- school class, in the gymnasium talk, or elsewhere. Some- times very direct teaching is called for, sometimes it ought to be incidental to the general teaching. A little examina- tion of the above list of topics, in the light of this suggestion, will readily reveal the general division of the work that will usually meet the needs best. The school courses in nature- study, physiology, biology and the social studies ought to furnish the big foundation in information and the general background. These teachings are authoritative, and in large degree impersonal. For this reason they strengthen greatly the more individual work of the parents and per- sonal advisers. The work should not stop here however. The more intimate teachers of character should help to interpret these facts which the schools give and to apply them to life. This is a tremendously important age, and the sex yearnings are not to be ignored or suppressed, but are to be organized and directed so that their energy may be used to drive the child into sound attitudes and courses of activity. One or two talks by physicians to boys and girls, separately, may be valuable, especially if they do not exaggerate the perverse and morbid aspects of sex. 9. Post-pubertal or Late Adolescent Stage: from 15 to 22 or 24. (a) Teachers: High school and college teachers, parents and ministers if well informed, physicians, athletic directors, the older friend, the fraternity brother, and books. 116 BIOLOGY OF SEX (Z>) Attitude and purpose: To fill the life with high purposes, ideals, and ambitions which will absorb the thoughts, strength and efforts; to give the beginning, at least, of personal vision as to how these ambitions are to be carried out and a conception of the personal qualities which alone will bring full success; to develop further the finer sense of respect for self and for others which will tend to inhibit low actions; to enlarge the sense of chivalry in boys, and their admiration for chastity in girls; to stimulate interest in life, its possibilities, its work, its opportunities; to make very clear the effects on all con- cerned of improper sex-relations both upon individual character and happiness and on social welfare; to convince of the futility of the weakling in the struggle for any sort of success that counts; to utilize the love motive, which is large in most youths of this age, in order to inhibit im- proper sex-conduct; to form and to appeal to religious ideals and motives for the same purpose, but always in a persuasive and developing rather than in a repressive way. (c) Content and matter: Meaning of love, marriage, and the home, and the progress made in human history in the perfection of these; the racial value of this as compared with general indulgence; the facts of prostitution and of the venereal diseases as they bear on health and personality; the value of control and self-respect as a personal asset to the individual; the obligation of faithfulness and cleanness assumed by young men and young women alike in marriage; the iniquity of the " double standard," and the role which young women may play in insisting that men shall have the same standard of sex-conduct which women practise; eugenics, and its biological foundations. (d) Remarks as to manner, etc.: This is the first period TIME AND MANNER OF INSTRUCTION 117 in which, in anything like normal conditions, there is much danger of young men indulging in illicit sexual intercourse. A wholesome fear to propose such a thing will ordinarily deter them from soliciting this in the earlier years. To inspire this fear is one of the functions of public opinion. The danger, however, lies chiefly in an ignorant forwardness on the part of otherwise normal girls which will destroy this natural fear on the part of companions of their own age, and may also subject them to the advances of older men. The manner of imparting the information and ideals suggested above should be such as to leave no possible ground for a girl exposing herself to danger by breaking the bounds of ladylike conduct; and should make it exceedingly difficult for a young man to take advantage of such a lapse. After all is said, assuming that information respecting sex and sex-relations is wholesome and accurate, the writer believes that high standards of modesty and womanly virtue in girls, and chivalrous respect for such in women on the part of young men, will do more to bring self-control to men than fear of disease or of any of the abnormal outgrowths of sex-indulgence. My own observation is that a chivalrous wish to protect women and to keep them wholesome together with the feeling of obligation to be just as clean and controlled as he wishes his sister or his wife to be, will do more than any other thing to tide a young man safely over this period of life. If this can be coupled with, and intensified by, strong personal moral and religious convictions, it is the crown- ing of a very strong line of teaching. 10. Summary. - A little attention to the foregoing suggestions will reveal the fact that the course of instruc- 118 BIOLOGY OF SEX tion is progressive toward higher and higher types of knowl- edge, and the motives to which appeal is made are of a more and more lofty sort. It should be remembered by teachers that it is often possible to use in small degree qualities and motives before the period in which they function most fully. For example, the religious motive seems to reach its climax in late adolescence, but it may be used in some degree before this time. It is important, however, that we should not prematurely stress these higher motives in our treatment of the child. This is often disastrous, both to the quality of the religion (or other influence) and to its effects in furnishing sex control. The point to be kept in mind at every step is that the instruction should be graded as completely as possible to the child's mental capabilities, to his emotional development, and to his sex need, - both individual and social. At all stages the mo- tives, and the returns flowing from right conduct, should be convincing and satisfying to the child. They should not involve fear and repressions, but happiness in right adjust- ment. CHAPTER XI GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS IN SEX EDUCATION 1. Sex Problems and How to Use Them. - For too long a time we, as parents and teachers, have been para- lyzed by the sex problems that arise in the life of the youth. These arise because of the natural inner sex development and its effects on the body and emotional life of the child, because of the many sex phenomena which he naturally observes in the family and elsewhere, because of the reti- cence and insincerity of older people, because of the par- tial information and vulgar attitude of young companions, because both of the natural curiosity which so pervasive an impulse begets and the morbid curiosity which our foolish handling of it fosters. All this has made it seem unnaturally difficult to meet these problems as they arise. As a matter of fact, as soon as we adults can strip ourselves of the morbid complexes into which we have come about sex, we shall see that every stage in the normal sex devel- opment of the child, every question which he needs to raise, every new sex phenomenon in the family or the community which comes to his attention, every sex need or difficulty of his life becomes an educational asset, and an opportunity for us to build up his character, his atti- tudes, and his right adjustment by way of his sex interests and imoulses. It is our orivilese to use these incidents so 119 120 BIOLOGY OF SEX that they will build up his life rather than tear it down. When so used these outstanding opportunities and steps seem all too few, rather than distressingly numerous. In reality there are not a great many of these critical problems. Furthermore they are much more easy to meet than they seem on the surface. The young child is open- minded and quite innocently desirous to know; he has none of the embarrassment which older people have allowed themselves to acquire; we only need therefore to be quite natural and sympathetic in order to get a sympathetic hearing from the young child. The parent should meet each situation that arises in such a way that the child will feel that he may go to the parent freely when he desires to know anything about this or related subjects. This result is perhaps one of the clearest ways by which we can measure our success. 2. "Projects" and their Grading. - These sex prob- lems and occasions should be met as definite projects in character education. We should try beforehand to de- cide about what we want to get in the way of knowledge, taste, desires, ideals, habits, or attitudes, by means of each of these incidents or stages, and then use the situation with the best spirit and intelligence we have to produce these particular results. In this way we shall soon leave behind the idea that we merely want to give the child a certain piece of information. We shall cease to think of unloading something from our conscience upon the child, and come to have a definite and positive objective in the finer life of our child. This is highly important. If we adopt this attitude it becomes increasingly clear that we must grade the projects very closely to the child's development, needs, and character. This may mean that GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 121 we will take a year or a decade, instead of an afternoon, on some one of these projects. It is as important to avoid going too fast as it is to avoid going too slow. (See also Chapter III). 3. A List of Such Problems and Projects. - While proper grading of such efforts to educate must be done, it cannot be done fully by any one except the parent or teacher who can study and know the particular child. The following list of problems is not complete; and while an effort has been made to suggest an order in which they may come forward, this cannot be regarded as more than a suggestion. Many of them, located at a certain period of life, run through the whole of youth. A. Projects for the Early Stage (i to 7 or 8 years) (1) To get and keep a normal, unembarrassed atti- tude about sex on the part of the child. (2) To prevent undue or morbid curiosity on the subject. (3) To secure a suitable vocabulary for the organs and functions of the body, including all those of the pelvic region. (4) To use most effectively the sex differences be- tween males and females; - concretely, the dif- ferences between the father and mother, the brothers and sisters. (5) To use the simple, general facts of the beginnings of life and reproduction in plants and animals. (6) To use the particular facts about his own origin and birth. The mother's part in reproduction. (7) To get in the child a democratic, mutually-minded attitude in the home and elsewhere, as the only basis for right sex interpretation of the home. BIOLOGY OF SEX 122 (8) To use the father's part in his origin, and in the home and family life. (9) To develop and crystallize his appreciation of, and loyalty to, the home and family. (10) To develop the play impulses in such a way as to refine the sex-social qualities, as well as furnish outlets for action. B. Projects for the Prepubertal Stage (6 to 12 years) (n) To establish standards and habits of health and fitness, including something of sex health. (12) Further to utilize the play and recreational in- terests educatively for personal development and social adjustment. (13) To develop soundly and to guide the attitude of curiosity, experimentation, and "trial and error" in all relations, including sex. (14) To establish on sound lines the early ideas, ideals, and desire for manliness or womanliness. (15) To make a girl glad she is a girl. (16) To use positively but sanely the aspirations and purposes for life as these appear; no matter how partial or transient they may be. (It will readily be seen that many of these projects are somewhat indirectly related to sex. But there is not one of them which is not rather powerfully related to it.) C. Projects for the Stage of Puberty (the Junior High School Period, 12 to 14 or 15 years). (17) To use the differences between them and the larger boys or girls. (18) To use the facts of present individual sex de- velopment:- internal secretions, erections, semi- GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 123 nal emissions, menstruation; the emotional and social changes. (19) The perverse uses of sex: day-dreaming, mas- turbation, etc. (20) To use the fickleness and changeableness of the interest in youth in order to get breadth of interest and power of discrimination of values. (21) To use the "gang" (homo-sexual) as transi- tional from an individual, to a full social, attitude. (22) To use the "gang" as a basis for wholesome sex-social attitudes. (23) To use physical exercise, growth and measure- ments educatively. (24) To use the girl's wish to be attractive. (25) To use the boy's wish to be manly. (26) To build up a taste and preference for cleanness, as against vulgarity, in respect to sex phenomena. D. Projects for the Period of Adolescence (14 years, onward). (27) To use for permanent character the first love of a boy or girl. (28) To use the facts about the development of the other sex in an inspiring way. (29) To prevent sex becoming "funny," or a vulgar joke. (30) To build up and use effectively the attitudes of chivalry, honor, the square deal, democracy. (31) To build standards and ideals of self-control and guidance, tastes and likings for the finer aspects of sex companionship, and attitudes of abstinence before marriage for the sake of his future wife and family. 124 BIOLOGY OF SEX (32) To develop a pride in self-respect, in his family - past and future, in his adjustment to the most humane sex and other conclusions and aspira- tions which human experience, observation and reason have reached. 4. Examples of Project-Education in Sex. - It is quite impossible in this book to treat in detail all these projects. For the sake of illustration, however, some of these will be selected to give a better idea of what is meant. Most of these will be taken from the earlier period of childhood, because parents are already partially aroused about them, and because, if these problems are not met at the right time and in the best way, all the later instruction is made both different and more difficult. On the other hand, if the best training is given in these early home years the re- mainder is much more hopeful. I. The Problems of Early Childhood. Project 1. To use effectively the Differences between Boys and Girls. - Probably the first question which parents have practical trouble in answering to their own satisfaction relates to the differences, and the reasons for the differences, between the father and mother and brothers and sisters of the family. When the question is first raised it will not be necessary to go to the founda- tions of these differences, but gradually the matter must be cleared up to the child's satisfaction. At this stage the problem is not that of imparting to the child the whole mass of information in an exact way, but rather of making him feel that it is a well-known matter about which he may talk freely to his mother, and that she will tell him all that he wants to know as fast as he can understand it. Now, how can these differences be given and interpreted GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 125 so as most satisfactorily to build up the character of the child? In addition to satisfying curiosity wisely, we want the child to begin to understand motherhood and fatherhood, the part both play in making home life good and happy, and to appreciate his own place in the home circle. This process of early education will be easier and less attended by abnormal curiosity and embarrassment if there is a good deal of openness and freedom in dressing, bathing and romping together by all the members of the family, in the early years when children of both sexes in a family are of nearly the same age. In this way the more conspicuous differences will be obvious enough and come to be taken for granted. Artificial secrecy and too early separation of the children in the nursery and bath makes the problem of satisfying curiosity much more difficult, than if free natural companionship were allowed. Further- more, the particular form of modesty that secrecy strives for is often apparent rather than real. In actual instruction we have two avenues open to us. In the first place we can help keep any feeling of "queer- ness" out of the human facts by explaining some of the conditions among the animals. By means of pictures, by actual study of any animals he knows, and by de- scribing them, the parents can show that there are two kinds among all the higher animals, - as dogs, cats, horses, cows, deer, sheep, robins, peafowl, chickens. Fur- ther he will see that these differences are often very great, - including size, form, color, courage, habits, disposition, voice, and the like, as well as in external sex organs. The human differences will thus be absorbed along with these of animals, and will not seem so special and emphatic. 126 BIOLOGY OF SEX In the second place, instead of having the mere physical sex differences between the mother and father stand out in his consciousness, we want his imagination to linger rather about the fine human differences between fathers and mothers. We can do this by calling attention to the fact that one is called "mother," "woman," "she," and the other is named "father," "man," "he," and that all men and boys differ from all women and girls. They dress differ- ently, they wear their hair differently, their voices differ, they differ in temperament, they differ in their work and in the care they give the children and in the keeping up of the home. Here is the place to exalt the work of both and to begin to build up a conscious loyalty to both. There is thus a gain in bringing all the common differences into view at once. This includes and swamps, so to speak, the special physical differences without obscuring or ignoring them; but best of all it makes a constructive and worthy use of what might otherwise be a difficult situation. Project 2. The Origin of the new Baby. - One of the earliest questions to come into the child mind is of the origin of the new baby in the home. The feverish haste with which impossible explanations are devised is at once a proof of the persistence of the question and of our per- verted ingenuity in evading it. Possibly something of the same wonder has arisen in the child's mind in its efforts to account for its own origin; but this curiosity is sure to become acute in the child of from 4 to 6 years of age, if a baby is born in the circle of its acquaintance. As has been said before, when the parent is satisfied that the question is clearly present in the child's mind it should be met even if the child should hesitate to ask the question GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 127 without encouragement. Some children are more diffident than others about asking questions. Two special things should be aimed at in answering this question: first, to give the information in such a way as to prevent a morbid dwelling on the subject; and, second, by means of this information to give the child a fuller conception of motherhood and the beginnings of a fine and reverent outlook on life and on the nature of the home. This revelation should take the form of the most intimate and informal confidences. If it were merely information, the child would sooner or later stumble upon it in some way. We are seeking to use information to develop wholesome attitudes and respect for life. Both the mother and the father should take active part in this project. If the child lives in the country, and knows something of chickens and birds and the eggs that they produce, and perhaps also, something of young mammals, such as pigs and calves and colts, it is quite possible to lead him to understand the steps in reproduction by showing him first the eggs in the body of a hen dressed for table, and then eggs after they are laid, such as he has been in the habit of seeing and from which, as he knows, young chickens are hatched. He may be told that all animals come from such eggs; and all eggs are formed in the body of the mother. From this he may be led to understand that, in the case of hogs and cows and dogs, the eggs remain in the body of the mother and grow and "hatch" there, instead of hatching in a nest outside, as in birds. It can be shown that the little mammal is much safer within the body of its mother and is both nourished and kept warm there, and that it finally comes to the outside world in 128 BIOLOGY OF SEX somewhat the same way as the large eggs of the birds, - but through a separate opening, - the vagina. The position of this organ can be shown the child in these animals without any occasion for embarrassment whatever, at this early stage. See Figs. 9 and 10. It can then be ex- plained that the human mother produces just such eggs and carries the little child in her body in just the same way until it is strong enough to live outside and breathe and take its nourishment as the other mammals do. The very fact that this is true of so many other animals will help to make the knowledge seem less personal. The best possible staging for this information is when the mother is going to have another baby. Early in the pregnancy she should begin her revelation. In addition to the above facts she should explain how the mother feels about it all, in simple and not too sentimental terms. After this information is given to the child by the mother, the father should take up the story. He should repeat the main facts of motherhood from the husband's point of view. He should, without too much emphasis, tell of the difficult and dangerous task which the mother per- forms in carrying and supporting the baby; should indi- cate the discomfort and weariness and even sickness it often involves; should refer to the pains that accompany birth; and should show how all this prepares her to love and care for her baby; and most of all he should let the child see how a true husband and father feels about the mother. Then the father should raise the question of what the two of them could do during these months, to make matters a bit easier and more comfortable for mother. The father and child, whether boy or girl, can on the strength of this private understanding enter upon a con- GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 129 spiracy of thoughtfulness for the mother which may mean the most beautiful things in the character of the child and with no trace of morbidness or grossness. Of course the project mustn't be made burdensome to the child; and the pleasure of both father and mother in whatever he does must continually reward the child. We have no right to demand the impossible. Such a treatment can make for fine permanent ideals and attitudes and habits in any normal child. Project 3. To Use the Father's Part in Reproduction. - A third question, the dread of which often makes parents hesitate to answer the earlier ones, relates to the part the father plays in the reproductive process. Ordinarily, this question will occur to the child some years later than the first two mentioned. There is danger, however, that older children may seek to impart the information prematurely, and if this is done, the knowledge often comes with an exaggerated emphasis, and in such a way as to stimulate a morbid interest and to encourage secrecy rather than the frankness we are seeking. By withholding instruction on this point, parents thus lose the opportunity to keep wholesome the idea of the father's part by connecting it with the finer facts of family structure and life, and lose, also, the confidence of the child and the chance to bind the child to them in the bonds of this common family knowledge. We have here again a much bigger task than the giving of information. It is, indeed, that of using a delicate piece of information further to cement the family bonds, and of making the facts of sex and reproduction contribute to the child's admiration and respect for human life and its intimate relations and thus spiritualizing them, rather than to allow the whole phenomenon to become 130 BIOLOGY OF SEX a mere by-word and subject for suggestive and vulgar reference. In starting this project it is well for the parents to review the steps taken and the illustrations used in projects i and 2. In prac- tice it is again much easier to give this information to the country child, in an incidental way, than to the child unac- quainted with ani- mal life. It is quite possible however, anywhere, to show the child, by a series of gradual steps, the parts played by the male and female in reproduction, and to do this in such a way that the mind will come to the main facts in human life without shock.1 For example, any flower of which the child is fond may be taken. The lily is a good illustration, because it is a large flower and its parts are conspicuous. Fig. ii. The flower of the lily. E is the egg, which is developed in a cavity inside the pistil (P); 5 is the stamen which produces the powdery pollen. This falls on the pisti (P) and produces a male cell that fertilizes E. (See next figure.) 1 There are now available to parents numerous booklets dealing with this phase of the subject and couched in simple terms. Plant and Animal Children by Ellen Torelle, published by D. C. Heath & Co.; and Repro- duction by T. W. Galloway, published by John G. Coulter, Bloomington, Ill. GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 131 Or we may use the oak or chestnut in which the male and female elements are in different flowers. While what we actually see in the lily is not, in a strict scientific sense, exactly parallel to fertilization in ani- mals, it is sufficiently so for our present purpose. Deep with- in the tissues of the flower occurs a proc- ess exactly similar to that which we seek to explain. The accompany- ing diagrams (Figs. ii and 12) will help the reader to follow the process. The pistil (/>) in which the seeds, or young plants, develop con- tains the mother or- gans. The pollen, or powdery material produced by the stamens (5), sup- plies the father-ele- ments. It can be shown that the seeds will not be developed if the male, or father-element, is not added. This is known as fertiliza- Fig. 12. Fertilization in the lily (much enlarged) E, the egg cell, to be fertilized, lying in the embryo- sac (S); P, the pollen, which has fallen on the top of the pistil, sending down a tube (T). This tube penetrates the tissues and finally grows into contact with the egg or female cell. In the tube occur one or more male (sperm) nuclei (N) one of which enters the egg and fertilizes it. In this way a new embryo starts, made up of a male and a female reproductive body (gamete). This is essentially what takes place in all the higher animals and plants, including man. 132 BIOLOGY OF SEX tion. This process of fertilization is necessary also in all the animals the child knows. The character of the process may be followed in Fig. 12. See also Fig. 7. Next show how this is done in animals and show how the two kinds of animals both have an important part. The mother-fish swims along and lays numerous small eggs in little hollows in the sand, or in similar places. The father-fish then swims over the eggs, and pours out from his body other bodies much smaller than the eggs, and similar to those produced by the pollen in the lily. These must unite with the eggs in order to make them develop into "baby" fish. In chickens, these cells of the father must be placed in the mother because they must unite with the young egg before the hard shell is formed about it. Because of this shell, chickens cannot behave like fish in fertilizing the egg- For still another reason, the same is true of mammals, - as horses and cats and hogs and "humans." The young in these animals, as we have seen, are kept in the mother's body, and therefore the eggs must be fertilized within just as in the birds, although they do not have a thick shell such as birds have. In the country the child is quite sure at an early age to see copulation among animals. This is the act whereby the sperm or male cells are brought into the region of the egg-cells so that fertilization may take place. It is in connection with this act that all the wonderful and power- ful instincts and impulses of sex are developed. This act of copulating is sure to interest and excite the curiosity of the child whenever he sees it. It should not make the act any more objectionable or dangerous to the mind of GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 133 the child if he is made to understand that this is the process whereby all new lives are begun. Indeed it is much more wholesome so than that he should come to see in it a vulgar incident to be thought of as a secret, suggestive, and indelicate jest. Personally, the writer feels that it is not at all necessary to begin back with flowers or fish. He feels that it is probably both easier and better to begin with birds or mammals. In this case do not start the story with the act of fertilization. Rather begin with the work of the father robin, say, in helping build the nest, in singing to and feeding the mother while nesting, in helping with the feeding of the young. Emphasize the courage and power and devotion to the mother and the young on the part of some of the fathers among the larger mammals. Review the work and spirit of the fine type of human father in this connection. Then go back to the flowers and lower animals and bring the child up to the mammals and man in fertilization. In this way this function will not stand forth in a hurtful degree, but will be surrounded by the various social aspects of fatherhood. Possibly it is well to emphasize, in summary, three things in connection with all this: (i) The scientific and not the vulgar names should be given to all these processes and to the organs involved; (2) The family, and private, nature of the information should be stressed in such a way as to make the child feel that these matters are just as pure and open as any other, within the family, but are not any more suitable for public discussion than are other family affairs; (3) Some little suggestion of the wrongness and tragedy of fatherhood or motherhood among humans without marriage may very properly crown this teaching, 134 BIOLOGY OF SEX in such a way as to exalt marriage and responsible father- hood. II. Special Problems of Adolescent Boys. Project 4. To Get Early and Growing Ideas, Ideals, Desires, and Attitudes of Manliness. - No service we can render a boy in respect to sex character is more significant than to inspire in him a desire, a taste, a standard, and a habit of manliness. Of course this must come gradually and in accordance with nature. Our task is to keep the boy from being a prig by way of precocious standards or a rowdy because of delayed standards of manliness. We want to make very attractive to him at every stage just that part of the ideal which is most tonic and appropriate to his development then, with an ambition to keep right up to date in being a man. There are at least three steps in this project that we should keep in mind: -First, we must create and continually keep alive a desire for manliness. This is to be done by contact with and admiration for men. Father, older brothers, uncles, and other male heroes stimu- late this desire in the heart of the average boy without any trouble; Second, a taste and standard of manliness, appropriate to his development. This is more difficult; but here again it is the task of the men the boy admires to exalt to him the kinds of manly traits and powers and expressions that he can strive for at his age. This enter- prise begins in having health and strength, in activity and bodily skill, and in courage and energy and initiative. It passes on into sane guidance and mastery and use of these powers; and then into generous cooperation and team work. Gradually this standard of manliness takes into itself considerateness, fairness, honor, justice, square dealing, dependableness, unwillingness to take advantage GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 135 especially of those whom one ought for any reason to help or protect. It crowns itself finally with democracy, chiv- alry, devotion to ideals, service and love; Third, a habit of manliness. This can come only by practice of manliness, fully rewarded by the approval of the men and women he admires most. Our real task for the young boy is to multiply these occasions of manliness, give him the very best and most constructive incentives to meet these occa- sions in the manly way, and then to find such means of approving his behavior as will perpetually fortify his determination to continue his growth toward these standards. Project 5. How to Use Most Effectively the Facts of the Normal Internal Sex Development. - In this matter of growing up to be men and women there are some under- lying facts which may be made very valuable to both boys and girls as puberty approaches. In very recent years we have been learning that certain internal organs, - ductless glands, so called, - very largely control health, development, and life itself. These glands pour their secretions into the blood and thus may influence all the tissues to which the blood goes. The internal sex organs, testes and ovaries, aside from their normal work of pro- ducing the sex cells, produce secretions of the kind men- tioned. These secretions from the sex "glands" have the most profound influence on the development of body, mind, and temperament. For example, it is because of these secretions that a human baby before birth develops the external organs by which we can tell that it is a boy or a girl when it is born. All through the early life of boys and girls these organs continue to influence their growth and to make them more and more different until they become 136 BIOLOGY OF SEX mature men and women. It is not the sperm cells or the ova or even the use of the sex functions which develop the normal male and female perfection of bodily qualities. It is rather these internal secretions. The rooster or cat whose testes have been removed in early life will not grow up a normal male. Instead of being strong and male-spirited he will become soft and fat and lazy and cowardly. Much the same thing happens if a boy loses his testes through disease or injury or operation. Eunuchs, made so early in life, are not strong, open, virile men such as the normal boy wants to become, with a man's appearance and voice and manners; but are instead fat, soft, cunning, often lazy, beardless, effeminate beings whose voices have not changed to the man's range. This is not just an unfortunate accident. It is merely the direct result of destroying the testes, and thus interfering with the work these internal secretions naturally do for boys if the sex processes are not in any way abused. It is worth something to the boy to know that he can count on this great contribution to his manly life if he will just let nature take its course. He doesn't have to use his sex organs to get this full development. The best service he can render himself is just to know the facts, keep his organs clean and free from irritation, practise the proper rules for health, protect the genitals from acci- dent and injury, refuse to indulge in lewd imaginings or in unnecessary stimulation of the organs, and let them make a man of him. If he will only develop the fine tastes and attitudes that match such a body, he will come to the best sex and manly development of which he is capable. Project 6. - How to Use the Tendency to Masturbation, for Development of Character. - For the first time we are GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 137 dealing in this project with a phase of sex interest and expression which is fairly to be thought of as unnatural and even perverse. The interest and curiosity of childhood about the sex phenomena is in no sense perverse or im- modest. It is only our unwise treatment of it which can make it so. We are now learning that our treatment of masturbation has been no wiser. If parents and teachers are ever to use this common tendency and practice of boys for positive educational purposes, the first thing we must do is to try to understand it. We have used the extreme case of the chronic masturbator to frighten the average boy, who probably does not masturbate enough to work any permanent injury either of body or mind. We have condemned the practice as vile and sinful, have pictured sure physical weakness and disintegration, have threatened mental deterioration and loss of self-respect, if not actual collapse and insanity. Most physicians and teachers of boys have seen cases in which many of these things are suffered; but many of the most careful students of the subject, from the mental and nervous point of view, are now saying that these ill effects do not come at all from the act itself but from the fear and dread and worry that arise from the youth's exaggeration of its evil effects. There doubtless is much of truth in what these scientists say. But, put this boldly, their case seems to the writer scarcely no more conclusive or helpful than that of those who have tried to repress masturbation by heaping condemnation upon it. The truth is, as usual, probably somewhere between the two extreme views. We may very well admit that the amount of masturbation practised by the average healthy, active boy (and nearly all boys do practice it more or less) does him no harm, 138 BIOLOGY OF SEX except through some shame and worry and loss of confidence in hjmself, due to what he has been told is the general estimate of the matter. The following, in the opinion of the writer, must be considered as pretty close to the facts: - the practice, while common, is neither a natural one nor physiologically necessary to the normal boy; it comes about not merely from actual sexual desire but from early, even infantile, habits of getting pleasure from playing with the genitals, from irritations, from experimenting, from accident, and from coaching by others; owing to the solitary character of the indulgence and the ease with which it can be grati- fied the tendency of weak or erotic, self-indulgent, imagina- tive, inactive, highly nervous individuals is toward excess; excessive indulgence is certainly in some degree a physio- logical waste and a drain on the nervous energy of a grow- ing boy; it tends to increase the irritability of the sex organs and of the nervous mechanism controlling it, which makes the habit more certain and difficult to control; no one can quite escape the feeling that the practice is in itself a nasty one, and most boys of fair instincts would have at least a momentary revulsion of feeling at the close of the act, even without exaggerated cautions; this and other facts tend to make an excessive masturbator self-conscious and suffer serious loss of self-confidence and of self-respect. Furthermore there are several vicious circles in masturbation and its causes and results. In the first place, any unusual sensitiveness and irritation of the genitals (as in the case of the urethra, for example) is increased by masturbation, and in turn the irritation incites to further masturbation. In the second place, even when there is no abnormal irritation, the whole GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 139 genital area is highly sensitive and the reflexes which produce erections and consciousness are easily set off. All this incites and rewards handling and experimenta- tion. In turn the manipulation makes the nervous reac- tions more sure and habitual. In a word, sensitiveness leads to the practice and practice tends to increase sensi- tiveness. Again, as we have seen, there is apparently a normal emotional reaction after the act away from the enthusiasm which precedes the act. This ranges all the way from the weak disgust of satiety to active remorse, depending on a number of things, including education. This operation of "conscience" in the mental conflict which goes on, if it does not check the habit (as it usually fails to do), leaves a residue of dissatisfaction and worry, and even of despair and neurasthenia in sensitive boys. It makes them more secretive, more solitary and thus more exposed to the temptation. That is to say, aside from the desire for the pleasure involved in the act, the very state of mind generated by the various reactions makes control more difficult. Of course this result is even more sure when the youth has been scared by the awful pictures of the degrading effects of masturbation. Ex- cessive masturbation generates worry and conflict, and these in turn ultimately act to reinforce the practice by diminishing self-respect and self-control. So far as cure of habitual masturbation is concerned, it can come only through breaking up these vicious circles,- by medical treatment that will remove the local irritation, or by removing the secrecy and worry and inner mental conflicts which have grown out of morbid fears. This is a task for experts. For educative purposes it is pretty clear that arousing BIOLOGY OF SEX 140 fears, issuing commands against the practice, and preach- ing self-control do not reach the mark. The best education must come of course before the habit is fixed; it must be prophylactic. The child should be given the chance to approach the subject without fear or morbidness; should understand that the normal boy by living an active life full of personal and social interests can keep the practice within narrow limits; should accept therefore active and wholesome ideals for his own sex life; should be encouraged to go in for sports, for study, for hobbies, for personal physical perfection, for social worth and adjustment, for service and usefulness; should have brought to his attention the wonderful natural work which the secretions from his testes are doing for his manly development of body, mind and ambitions, if he will only give them a full chance; should realize that everything he does to disturb or mar the work of these secretions, even if it may not vitally injure him, may prevent his highest realization of growth, confidence, and happiness. In a word the most effective way to educate against masturbation is to give the facts intelligently and without over-emphasis, to inspire full and constructive attitudes toward the use of the sex endowment as well as all other endowments, and to keep the boy's life so full of interesting and vigorous opportunities for acquisition and for expression, that the curbing of masturbation will be quite incidental to the general progress of development in his manly ambitions. For the boy who has fallen into the practice without hav- ing become a chronic or uncontrolled masturbator, an understanding teacher can put these fundamental facts in a sane way and remove the fear and worry that may exist, and can often secure a gradual reduction, if not a GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 141 complete elimination, of the habit. Here a trusted friend, somewhat older than himself, can greatly strengthen his purpose and furnish backing and confidence, always with- out encouraging depressing fears as to the outcome. He needs the positive look ahead to serve as an incentive. Project 7. To Use the Phenomenon of Seminal Emissions Wholesomely. - The escape of the products of the testes and of the various glands which produce the seminal fluids is inevitable, since whatever absorption takes place in these organs is less than is normally produced. This escape may be quiet and gradual, or with a violent orgasm and in con- siderable quantities. The latter condition accompanies normal intercourse or the complete act of masturbation. It may also occur as the result of merely nervous or men- tal excitement, - as in voluptuous thoughts or in dreams. The term "seminal emission" is usually limited to these latter instances. Probably all normally robust and healthy youths and men occasionally, and somewhat periodically, experience these emissions in sleep. The constructive use to be made of this fact is chiefly to explain to the adolescent boy that this proves he is developing normally toward conplete physical manhood; that he has the capacities and powers, as well as the impulses of the husband and father; that his mature responsibilities of making the most of his manhood are upon him; that the whole situation there- fore is quite normal and is ground for satisfaction and not for uneasiness. Incidentally this positive information has a precautionary value. In the past, more than now, quacks have seized upon the fact of such seminal emissions as a means of frightening young men who are ignorant of the facts, and have convinced many that they are in danger of losing their manly endowment by way of such emissions. 142 BIOLOGY OF SEX There is absolutely no scientific evidence that occasional emissions mark anything more than vitality or that they injure health or development in the least, except through these baseless fears. However, while such occasional emissions are a natural means of relief under healthy conditions, it remains true that in certain cases the emissions become so frequent as to be ground for concern and action. There are a num- ber of conditions which may increase the tendency, and the family physician should be consulted if there is reason to believe that they occur too frequently, or if there is any disposition to worry. Since seminal emissions during sleep are the outcome of internal stimulation rather than external, anything which incites the nervous centers, as voluptuous thoughts, imaginings and day dreams; or which directly excites the genitals, as irritating secretions or the habit of handling them whether in sleep or awake; or which pro- duces a chronically irritated urethra, native or arising from masturbation, or a particularly sensitive set of nervous reflexes, - may contribute to its increase. Even the worry about its frequency may act in the same way. The most effective cure for this state is just the regimen which will make him into the most effective man. If he is interested in vigorous manliness of body and mind, seminal emissions will be kept in normal limits by the active exercise, limited diet, not too warm or luxurious bed, cool and well venti- lated sleeping apartments, wholesome mental interests, and general self-control by which the man comes to himself. Project 8. To Use First Love Effectively for Character. - Most boys early in life fall in love with a girl or an older woman. Usually any sign that a boy is becoming inter- ested in a girl is made the occasion for teasing, ridicule, GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 143 and ironical remarks by parents and the older brothers and sisters. Such a course inevitably does two unwholesome things: - it makes the boy think that his parents hold this highest of the sex emotions as funny; and it at once and automatically raises a barrier between the older people and the boy at a time when they could be of most help to him. These are fatal blunders from any educational point of view. On the other hand here is great work for both the father and mother of the boy passing into puberty and early adolescence. The father ought now to be a boy again! If he can confess to his son something of his first love, how he felt about the girl, how fiercely he would have protected her from wrong approaches from any boy including him- self, how there was nothing gross or coarse in his attitude toward her; if the father can find some fine things to say about the girl, can make the boy see that he is now his best and real self, can explain how the feelings the father has for the boy's mother are just this same thing ripened by life and experience; if the father can thus gradually call out in the boy all the courtesy and gentleness and chiv- alry of the gentleman toward the girl and toward his mother and toward women, and stamp these with his ap- proval and admiration, he will make this experience do a service to the boy which few incidents in his life can give. He can thus hold the boy's confidence in his father and can get a permanent attitude toward love and marriage in the spirit of the boy which is just the purpose of sex education. Of course the father may need to suggest that first loves do not always last; but he needn't insist that such a thing is impossible. The point is that the boy should come to every sweetheart in this fine spirit. 144 BIOLOGY OF SEX At such a time the mother, too, can add another to the great steps of sex understanding in her boy. Probably the boy will never have any other chance, until he is mar- ried, to have these vital things interpreted to him by a true woman; and his spirit will never be so fit at any other time. The mother should let the boy know how she feels about the devotion of a clean man, and should let him see what is taking place in the mind and heart of the real girl who is keeping herself for this man of her choice. She should show him how and why every genuine man prizes this faithfulness and devotion in his sweetheart or wife, and how all home happiness depends on such char- acter and confidence in both. Incidentally the mother should explain to him what is taking place in the develop- ment of the body of the girl of his age, parallel to his own development, and how this bears on love and life. There is no need of preaching'. We need only to reveal and interpret the occasion, instead of ridicule it. III. Special Problems of Adolescent Girls. There is no reason why these problems should present any great difficulty to the intelligent mother. The kind of mutual confidence which will make it easy for the mother to instruct her daughter effectively certainly ought to be the normal outcome of well-conducted home life. It is, however, very apparent that a large percentage of mothers do not render this necessary service to their daughters. The special problems which confront a mother at this time are chiefly: matters of the special developments at puberty and early adolescence; questions of health of body and of mental attitudes; and social attitudes, especially toward men. Project 9. To Use the Critical Pubertal Developments GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 145 Educatively. - Before the changes of puberty come, the mother ought to make clear to the daughter the nature of these changes so as to avoid any shock of fear or em- barrassment which might ensue if they found her un- prepared. They ought to be shown to be perfectly natural, and as her fine badge of womanhood. These include the onset of menstruation and the well-known changes in body and in emotional and social attitudes which precede and accompany it. In a rough way we may think of menstrua- tion, in the case of the girl, as being somewhat parallel in its indication of development with seminal emissions in the boy. The internal secretions from the ovaries are doing for the girl just the same sort of service to body, emotions, temperament and ambitions as the secretions from the testes are doing for her brother. See Project 5. For exactly similar reasons, and in the same spirit as is indicated in Project 7, the mother should explain to her daughter the naturalness of menstruation and what it means in her progress toward womanhood. It presents the opportunity not merely to give the physiological facts of development of the ovaries, the production of eggs, the preparation of the uterus to receive the egg if it is fertilized, and the nature of fertilization and preg- nancy in humans; but also to put the very most womanly and social interpretation to these steps. It is an oppor- tunity to develop the attitudes of the sweetheart, the wife, and the mother, - which are as far from prudery and false modesty as from unwomanly boldness. Some reference has already been made to the physical sex health of girls in Chapter VI. It is necessary here only to emphasize that menstruation in the artificial con- ditions of civilized society may be abnormal in many ways. 146 BIOLOGY OF SEX It may be irregular, unnecessarily painful, delayed, profuse and consequently an unnecessary drain on vitality. Any of these departures may have hurtful effects upon general health and upon the nervous states. Carelessness in diet, in respect to constipation, in exposure to chill, in over- exercise when the uterus is congested and heavy, may easily aggravate abnormalities in menstruation. The mother can probably, by her method of using the occasion, determine in large part whether the daughter will take a careless and reckless attitude toward the period; or a hysterical and over fearful attitude; or will approach it with careful common sense and appreciation. It is as much a counsel of imbecility to neglect to give a girl a right understanding of these things as to frighten and coddle her. Project 10. To Utilize the GirVs Interest in being Attrac- tive. - One of the results of our human handling of the whole sex-social situation is that girls generally have a definite desire to appear, and to be, attractive. Doubt- less this is partly a matter of natural sex impulse and partly of social training. At any rate the desire furnishes parents and teachers both a problem and an educational oppor- tunity. The interest in this particular thing is often so strong in the early adolescent girl that one can scarcely arouse an abiding interest in anything else. Why not make this stage of sex emotional development the means of definite education in the ground-work of human attrac- tiveness and thus make a contribution to character by way of the interest? An effective and tactful mother or teacher could begin with the hair and finger-nails and clothes, of which the girl is thinking so much. After ex- hausting these as means of attractiveness and helping the GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 147 girl in their care, she could go on to skin, teeth, complexion, cleanliness, which are somewhat more vital; then to health in relation to attractiveness, and the means of health that are within our control. Sooner or later these questions quite naturally rise: To and for whom do we seek to become attractive? Why do we wish to seem attractive to other girls? To boys? Is there any difference between seeming attractive and being attractive? What part has expression of face, and the state of the muscles about the face to do with attractiveness? How are voice and conversation re- lated to it? What determines smiles or giggles or frowns? What determines pleasant and disagreeable tones and speeches? What part do intelligence and kindliness and good-will have to do with the matter? If we once attract people, can we necessarily hold them? Does it make any difference to us what sort of people we attract? Is it equally important and wonderful to attract a young man for a lark, or as a momentary lover, or as a sweetheart, or as a life long friend and associate, or as a husband? In some such way and starting from these points a mother and daughter might explore together, without any preaching, the various avenues of pleasure and friend- liness and association based on sex, to their most intimate and permanent meanings, and the mother can get over in the most democratic way her best interpretation of life for the permanent benefit of her daugher. Project 11. The Task of Getting Right Emotional Atti- tudes about Sex. - This is a pretty general statement of an important purpose in all sex education from the cradle to maturity. It is not the purpose to discuss it at length here. In fact all that has gone before is merely a part of this. There is a very special sense, however, in which 148 BIOLOGY OF SEX parents may, with the very best motives, give to their daughters not merely a false idea of the whole sex situation, but actually a perverse and emotionally diseased attitude. It has been a part of our social policy, I think rightly, to give to our women an attitude of high appreciation for self- respect, of regard for womanly purity, of poise and even reserve and modesty, of admiration for the role of the faithful wife and mother, and of continence. But we have not always been intelligent in securing these emotional attitudes. There has not been in our method enough of fine, free, reasoned conviction on the part of the girls and women of the great and positive personal and social gifts of sex. There has been rather an effort to repress their natural sex understanding, development and expression and to taboo the whole subject as unclean and perverse. Too often the result of our effort has been not a sane appre- ciation and use of sex for the finest development; but rather a shuddering fear and distaste for the very idea. In large degree the sex impulses of women have been hurt- fully repressed in order to get their physical restraint and their spiritual emphasis. The modern psychologists are showing us that this method of repression has pro- duced unnecessary complexes, hysteria, psychoses, in- sanities, and maladjustments and unhappiness both in single and married life. If these students are right, it means that we must find constructive, instead of repres- sive, ways to develop the womanliness of women. Such education does not seek looseness of life as the solution. It seeks greater naturalness and freedom and democracy in the education for poise, modesty, faithfulness, and continence. 5. Summary. - In all that has been said in this and GRADED PROBLEMS AND PROJECTS 149 preceding chapters, the meaning of the writer is this: - If parents and teachers can arrive at the point at which they can use sympathetically all the best, which they as teachers know, to cooperate with nature in the upbuilding of their children, they may greatly increase the number of those who maybe regarded as successful in converting sound knowledge into right sex-conduct without building up in them complexes which injure and limit character. Nature's task is the making of sound, complete men and women able to reproduce their kind. She has an ordered and effective way of accomplishing this from infancy to maturity. Each of her steps adds something vital and worth while to the product. It is to the interest of all that we should understand each of these natural steps and its contribution. We need to know this, both that we may allow it to make its positive contribution, and at the same time not permit it to linger on in abnormal strength, inhibiting the next step. In order to do this effectively we elders must be in a position both to give and persuasively to interpret the facts in terms both of the happiness and usefulness of the individual and of the welfare of human society. The proper development of the sex-function, impulses, and the relations which grow out of them is the first biological necessity; to develop through them the mental, social, and moral control of them is to-day one of the prime human necessities. Plant and Animal Children HOW THEY GROW By Ellen Torelle Cloth, 12 mo. vi+230 pages $1.00 HIS book presents in clear and simple lan- Up guage the essential facts in the life history of plants and animals. It makes clear the ideas of evolution, heredity, variation, effect of environment, and the evolution of sex, without once mentioning these names. 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HEATH & COMPANY, Publishers BOSTON NEW YORK CHICAGO ATLANTA LONDON SAN FRANCISCO HYGIENE FOR GIRLS By FLORENCE HARVEY RICHARDS, M.D. book is founded on a series of lectures O delivered by Dr. Richards to the girls of the William Penn High School, Philadelphia, and therefore is particularly suited to the needs of pupils in the High School and higher Grammar grades. Part I is devoted to Individual Hygiene, Part II to Community Hygiene. This wise division permits a parallel consideration of the hygiene and the phys- iology of each system of the human body, before taking up the more general facts of sanitation. Part II includes discussion of such vital community matters as Vaccination and Anti-toxins; Alcohol; Tuberculosis; Disease and Germs; Public Institu- tions. 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