l£S # -liVifi* PI ItriUUf I'li •' i '■"V- U .Ii.: .1 Iriiljf'i .•f,',!»-»i'!;;! Engraved ly H W Smith MEMOIR BUTLER WILMARTH, M. D One of the Victims of the late terrible Railroad Catastrophe at Norwalk Bridge, Ct.: EXTRACTS PROM HIS CORRESPONDENCE AND MANUSCRIPTS. \tf\ ill'01* Hr'/ir BY WM. H. FISH. 1 BOSTON: CROSBY, NICHOLS AND COMPANY. NEW YORK: FOWLERS AND WELLS. 1854. ■* MVZ I oo PREFACE. Here is an unpretending Memoir of an unpre- tending, but most excellent Man, Christian, and Physician. Dr. Wilmarth was not widely known, out of the sphere of his professional practice, but within that sphere, which was somewhat extended, he was greatly respected, honored, and loved ; and when the intelligence of his death at the fatal and memorable " Norwalk Bridge," was circulated among those who knew him, I doubt if any other victim of that terrible and melancholy tragedy was more sincerely and deeply lamented than he. Oth- ers were, indeed, whelmed in that destruction who were more eminent and better known to fame—some who stood deservedly high in public estimation, not only for their ability and acquirements, but for their virtues and their useful lives ; yet, probably no one of these was the object of more ardent affections or implicit confidence. How heavily the calamitous A* IT PREFACE. blow fell upon his stH-viviflg wife arid children, words, of course, cannot describe; but every one instinc- tively knows that it must have been almost over- whelming. Painful would it be to attempt to lift the vail which concealed their grief and desolation! from the public view; and I will not here undertake the task. Let the unaided reflection of the reader, added to such experience of similar suffering as he may have, supply the deficiency. And let it suffice for me to say of the numerous personal friends of the good Dr., outside of his family circle, and more especially of the members of The Hopedale Com' munity, of which he was a beloved associate, that theirs was a no surface and transient grief, but that they are still sadly conscious that they have sustain- ed a great.and irreparable loss, by his departure from their midst. Now that he is gone, they feel that they are deprived of the presence of one whose place can hardly be filled by any other living man— especially as a Physician. Having been thus highly esteemed by his friends, and from the necessities of the case, having also been hastily buried, without a convenient opportunity for the preparation of a suitable Discourse for his funeral, or for the summoning of those interested in PREFACE. V him thereto, it was suggested and advised that a Memoir of his life should be prepared, and that I should accomplish the work. It was thought that he was worthy of such a record; and that though dead, 6r rather departed, he would thus still speak to many for their good. And, without going through the formality of apologizing for my unfitness for the task, I will siiaply say, that in executing it, I have ■done the best I could under the circumstances. The materials with which I had to commence, were the most scanty possible—almost none, excepting what I had gathered from my own ten years' acquaintance with him, and such facts as I could get from time to time, and piece-meal, from his wife, who was re- siding twelve miles distant from me, and whom I could not often see. During a portion of his life, the Dr. kept a daily Journal, and wrote out many occurrences of his early years, which might have been of great service to me, could I have obtained them ; but, unfortunately, his too great modesty in- duced him, a few years since, to consign the whole to the flames. He did not think his life marked and important enough to be published to the world. I ought here to say, however, what my readers wilt observe, that I have been considerably indebted. vi PREFACE. to Mr. Phineas Field, and Dr. David Rice, both of Leverett, for much information concerning Dr. "VYil- marth; and I would here gratefully acknowledge my obligations to them, as I also do to all others.who have forwarded me letters, some of which I have found it convenient to publish. Let me also say, that I have been so situated, during my writing of the work, that I have been unable to command many consecutive days to devote to it; and have often hastily written at fragments of time that could not be well spared from pressing men- tal and manual employments. Having labored under these disadvantages, the Memoir must, of necessity, be a very imperfectly prepared one, and I am quite conscious that it is so. Hence, it makes no preten- sion to literary merit of any kind, and is not, there- fore, sent forth to critics, either for their praise or censure, as a composition, but principally to appre- ciating friends and acquaintances, as a memorial of one whom they loved. It is only a plain statement of a plain man, both unexpectant and unambitious of any other distinction than that which well-meant en- deavors to add to the sum of human virtue and human happiness can justly claim. My aim has not been to paint, or to give a fancy sketch of an ideal PREFACE. vn character, decorated with choice flowers of rhetoric ; but merely to present such a portrait of Dr. Wil- marth, as his friends would recognize as strictly accurate, and cheerfully accept and cherish, for the original's sake. To what extent I have succeeded in doing this, I must leave those best acquainted with him to judge ; trusting that they will not think I have wholly failed in my endeavor. But such as the Volume is, it is offered to the friends of the departed, as a tribute of respect and affection, which I can but hope they will be able to receive as not altogether unworthy of him ; and to the general public as the record of an upright and useful life, a knowledge of which cannot fail to exert a strong influence in favor of truth and goodness. I will only add, that, aside from the interest which this Volume will have for the Dr.'s personal and religious friends—for whom it is specially prepared—it will be found, I think, to be of much value, particularly to the friends of Hygiene and Medical Reform, on account of the Letters and Lectures on these general sub- jects, which are herein published. To these, there- fore, I would call particular attention; confident that, coming from such a man—a man with so much medical knowledge, experience and skill, and such vm PREFACE. rare conscientiousness—they are of great value and well worth seriously pondering. THE LIKENESS Which embellishes this Memoir, is from a steel engraving by H. W. Smith, of Boston, and will be recognized, I think, by the Dr.'s friends, in general, as a very accurate one. It is, at any rate, quite as accurate as the daguerreotype from which it was cop- ied, and superior to what was expected, under the circumstances—Mr. Smith never having seen the original in his life time. It is, therefore, satisfactory to the Dr.'s friends, and reflects credit upon the artist. And here I take pleasure in saying to those who are especially interested in the matter, that we are indebted for this valuable memento, to the generosi- ty of the President and Directors of the New York and New Haven Railroad Company, who very cor- dially furnished me with the means to defray the expense of it. I use the word "generosity" in reference to their donation, because they had before done for the Dr's family what they considered justice demanded in the case, and what was satisfactory to all interested. They had paid over to them the PREFACE. IX sum of $5000, besides $200 in addition, to defray the incidental expenses of getting it. I was, there- fore, somewhat doubtful, in the premises, about ask- ing for anything more ; but was so exceedingly anx- ious for an engraving, and not knowing how to pro- cure one, conveniently, otherwise, I decided to make an appeal to the generosity of the Company, through its honored President, Robert Schuyler, Esq., of New York, saying to him that the cost of an en- graving would be sixty dollars, and if the Company would authorize him to pay fifty dollars towards it, the bereaved friends of the deceased would feel them- selves under obligations which they would ever gratefully remember. Few, if any, who knew of my making the request, thought it would be granted ; but I wrote in faith, and soon received the following gentlemanly and kind reply, which I gladly record to the honor of " Corporation," which is generally said to be "soulless:" " Office of the New York and New Haven ) Railroad Co., 2 Hanover Street. ) « New Fork, October 15, 1853. " Deae Sir :— " I regret that it has not been in my power to acknowledge the receipt of your esteemed favor of the 12th hist, at an earlier date; but very pressing engagements have compel- X PREFACE. led me to postpone the pleasure of assuring you that your wishes shall be gladly complied with, to the full amount of the cost of the engraving, say sixty dollars. " Our Directors are, most of them, at this moment, out of town, and I do not wish you to consider this letter any further in, reply to yours, than may be necessary to enable you to rely upon the receipt of the money. " I am, very respectfully yours, " Rouert Schuyler. « Wm, II. Fish." After the completion of the engraving, I forward- ed an imprint from it to Mr. Schuyler, and received the following letter in answer :— " Xeu> York, December 15, 1853. " Deak Sir :— " I am in the receipt of your kind favor of the 13th hist., accompanying the engraving of your esteemed friend, Dr. Wilmarth. I shall submit your letter and the like- ness of Dr. Wilmarth to our Directors at their next meet- ing, and feel that I need not assure you of their interest in the Memoir you have in hand, and their continued sym- pathy for the family and friends of the unfortunate suf- ferer. " Enclosed, you will please find the amount we were glad to promise you. " I am, very respectfully, yours, " Robert Schuyler, " Pres't N. Y. & N. II. R. R. Co. " W. H. Fish." Hopedale, April 29, 1854. CONTENTS. CHAPTER I. His birth and adoption—His removal to Rowe and thence to Montague—His home influences and educational ad- vantages—His feeble health and visit to Narragansett Bay—Recovers his health—Studies his profession and commences its practice—Marries—His practice becomes extensive—Moves to Leverett—His practice and standing there, and his arduous and conscientious labors. 1.5 CHAPTER II. Some of his general qualities of head and heart—His per. sonal appearance and plain dress—His intellectual abili- ty—His humor and mirthfulness—His benevolence— His reform spirit—His compassion for evil doers—His honesty—His artlessness and frankness—His kindness to children—His indifference to what people might say of him. 31 CHAPTER III. Religious influence of his early life—Becomes personally religious—his interest in the Baptists and rejection by them—His theology—Connects himself with the Meth- odists, but is finally cut off from them—A controver- sialist, but charitable and liberal—is generally recognized xu CONTENTS. as a Christian where he resides, on account of the ex- cellency of his spirit and character—decline of his faith in the churches. 58 CHAPTER IV. His religion, a practical one—His abolitionism, religious— His interest in tlie " Practical Christian" movement of Adin Ballou and his associates—Visits Millville at the Ordination of Win. II. Fish—His impressions of the meeting—His lamentation over the " Restorationist" cause—Non-Resistance—11 is connection with "Fraternal Community"—Letters. 7c CHAPTER V. His purpose iu kaving Leverctt—Enters into partnership with Dr. David Rice—Moves to Ilopedale—Reluctantly resumes his profession—Trial of his Allopathic faith and practice—Begins to think favorably of Hydropathy —Goes to New Lebanon Watcr-Cure Establishment, where he remained for a time incrjr/.— Writes home fa- vorable reports of his experience and observation—Re- turns to Ilopedale with improved health—His little faith in medicine and great faith in nature, particularly manifest in an interesting Letter to his Son. 109 CHAPTER VI. Commences the practice of Hydropathy at Ilopedale— Goes to Lowell for a brief season—Returns and opens a Water-Cure Establishment at Ilopedale—Small suc- cess—Moves to New Graefenberg. N. Y.—Lectures on Hydropathy in various places—Moves to New Lebanon —Enters into partnership with Dr. J. II. Hero, and in union they make a purchase at Westboro'—Leaves New CONTENTS. XU1 Lebanon and visits Hopedale—Moves to Westboro'— A short sickness—Flattering prospects—Visits Hope- dale—Goes to New York—Is brought home a corpse- Is conveyed to Hopedale—His funeral services and hie burial. 135 CHAPTERJII, Additional remarks on his character, particularly as a Christian Physician. 15» CHAPTER VIII. Letters expressive of respeet and affection for the deceas- ed, and of condolence lor his bereaved family. lb4 CHAPTER IX, Letters from Dr. Wilmarth. 209 APPENDIX. Dr. Wilmarth's Remarks, at Hope Chapel, 225 Medical Delusions, 232 Extracts from a Lecture, 242 Another Extract, 251 MEMOIR. CHAPTER I. His birth and adoption—His removal to Rowe and thence to Montague—His home influences and educational ad- vantages—His feeble health and visit to Narragansett Bay—Recovers his health—Studies his profession and commences its practice—Marries—His practice becomes extensive—Moves to Leverett—His practice and standing there, and his arduous and conscientious labors. Butler Wilmarth was born of humble and some- what obscure parentage, in the town of Norton, Mass., December 18th, 1798; and at the age of two years he was adopted by Mr. Amos Wilmarth, of Attleboro', Mass., as his son, from whom he re- ceived his name. Amos Wilmarth was a respectable and worthy farmer, and in comfortable, or moderate- ly prosperous, circumstances in life. About the year 1810 or '11, he, with his family, left Attleboro' and took up his residence in Rowe—-one of the North Western towns of Massachusetts. Here, however, they resided only some three or four years, when they moved to Montague, a town about forty miles dis- 16 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. tant from Rowe. The lamented subject of this Me- moir remained in this family until he was of age ; and he seems to have received very much the same treatment that an own son would have received— especially from his adoptive father. But his situation in this home of his childhood and youth, was far from being favorable to the development and proper culture of his intellectual and spiritual nature, and he often, in after life, expressed much regret that some of the circumstancef- and influences by which he was then surrounded. were so unfortunate and deleterious. He was not, indeed, more than ordinarily exposed to the grosser vices ; but suffered for the want of an affectionate T judicious, and wise mothers's care, counsel and aid, as well as for the want of intelligent and elevated so ciety, and enlightened and liberal methods of educa- tion. Still, he ever cherished feelings of affectionate gratitude for the parental kindness and care which provided for him in childhood, and helped him up to- maturity; and he never failed to manifest those feelings as long as Mr. and Mrs. Wilmarth lived, which was to extreme old age. His faithfulness to them never failed, as all who knew him well, know also that it could not fail—know that even as a simple MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 17 matter of conscience, or from a mere sense of duty, he could leave no moral or religious obligation unful- filled. Whom he owed, he endeavored to pay ; and whether the debt were pecuniary or moral in its na- ture. About the time that he became of age, he was very much out of health ; and, with only two dollars in his pocket, he went to the shore of Narragansett Bay, in Barrington, R. I., with the hope of improve- ment. His father Wilmarth, then considerably reduced in property, kindly carried him in his wagon a part of the way, leaving him to continue his jour- ney alone, as best he could. How he reached the place of his destination, is not known; but he reach-. ed it in great feebleness of health and somewhat depressed in spirits. He, however, found some kind friends amongst the strangers in whose midst he stopped, and they furnished him such employment, on their farms and in other occupations, as he could pursue with any advantage, and otherwise rendered him assistance, so that he was enabled to meet his'1 expenses, and partially, at least, to secure the great, object of which he was in pursuit. He, therefore^ returned to the region of .Montague > in the course of a few months, and looked about him for some life-, B 18 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. occupation. He had before, it is thought, had an eye to the medical profession, and desired to prepare himself to enter upon it. Indeed, he seems to have had an instinctive tendency in this direction even from early childhood. When quite young, he would often go into the fields for the purpose of collecting various kinds of medicinal plants, and was accus- tomed to feel the pulse of his school-fellows and playmates. In consequence of this peculiarity, they dubbed him with the title of " Doctor." But as he had not the means to educate himself for the calling thus indicated to him by nature, he must, therefore, wait till he could procure them. What should he do ? Hard work at manual labor he had not the strength for; and he had enjoyed no other educa- tional advantages than those afforded by the common schools around him, which were, at that time, and particularly in that region, quite inferior; so that he was hardly qualified for any mere mental employ- ment. He had, indeed, used his poor opportunities and advantages for the accumulation of knowledge, wisely and well; and had thought and read, much beyond most young men of his class and circum- stances. He, however, had only just begun the wtfrk of mental culture and acquisition, and learned MEMOIR OF DB. WILMARTH. 19 enough to know and to feel his own deficiencies—an important point, it is true, to be reached in educa- tional progress, yet not one greatly encouraging to public effort in new and responsible positions of in- tellectual life. But he, nevertheless, ventured to make trial of that very common stepping-stone to the "Professions"—the situation of a country school teacher ;—too common a stepping-stone, by the way, for the prosperity and success of the cause of Education. For he who only takes upon himself this important office, simply as a temporary expedi- ent, and as a mere aid, pecuniary or otherwise, to the prosecution of studies preparatory to his prospec- tive calling, will seldom do full justice to himself or his pupils. But Butler Wilmarth was not a man, even thus early in life, greatly to neglect the per- formance of either a promised or an implied duty ; and I learn that, according to the ideal of the time and places in which he taught, he was a respected, faithful, and successful teacher. The most of his teaching was in Montague, though he taught one term or more in Fitzwilliam, N. H. At about the age of 23 years, Mr. Wilmarth com- menced the study of medicine with Wm. F. Sellen, M. D., of Amherst, Mass. Dr. SeUen, as. I gather B* 20 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTn. from reliable sources, was an able, well-educated, and skillful Physician; .and he had an extensive practice, and was deservedly popular in his profess- ion. Whilst with him, Mr. Wilmarth paid his way, by working on the Dr.'s land, and at such other out- door employments as could be furnished him. As, however, there "was much of this manual labor to be done, about his Preceptor's premises, he found that he had but little time to study, and was not making much progress in his preparations for his chosen pro- fession. This he finally complained of to Dr. Sellen, whose reply was, that he must then learn to say " No," when called upon to work more than he thought duty required ; and henceforth confine him- self to the Office, and with greater resoluteness and persistency. This advice he followed, and was ever after more just and generous to himself than he had been. He applied himself diligently to his readings and other preparations, and was able to make satis- factory improvement. Having remained with Dr. Sellen two years, he left him ; but soon re-commenc- ed his studies under the instruction and guidance of Dr.-----Brigham, then of Greenfield. At this time he boarded at his father Wilmarth's, and walked two miles to his recitations. Dr. Brig- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 21 ham, however, soon had an invitation, which he accepted, to take charge of an Asylum, or Hospital, in Hartford, Ct. ; and thus he gave up his new stu- dent, to look elsewhere for assistance to continue the educational course upon which he had entered. Being cut off, therefore, from this resource, and no other one easily accessible opening before him, Mr. Wil- marth threw himself upon his own acquisitions and self-reliance, and commenced the practice of medicine . himself, on his own responsibility, and without Di- ploma or License. This new and responsible position he entered into in Montague ; and as he was well known there, and esteemed as an able and excellent man, who would naturally succeed and rise in his profession; and was likewise recommended and sustained by Dr. Sellen, who had great confidence and hope in him, he imme- diately secured patronage, and his practice gradually increased, till, in the course of a few years, it became extensive. Dr. Sellen frequently visited him, and called upon him to consult with him in difficult cases. That he had great confidence in the skill of his pu- pil, the new Dr., will be readily inferred from the fact that he employed him as his own physician for many years. He also ever cherished for Pr, Wil- '>2 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. marth the most ardent friendship—almost the love of a brother—and this continued till his death, which took place somewhere about the year 1840. Several eminent physicians attended him in his last sickness, but Dr. Wilmarth was his principal and constant one. This fact seems to reflect much credit upon a man who prepared for, and entered upon the medical profession, under so many disadvantages as surround- ed Dr. Wilmarth; and who had almost wholly to make himself and his reputation, as a Physician. It is for this reason that it is mentioned here. Some three or four years after Dr. Wilmarth en- tered upon his profession—about the year 1830— he was called, as a Physician, to Mr. Joseph Osgood, a highly respectable and influential farmer of Wen- dell, a town adjoining Montague ; and his visits were continued through several months. During this time, he became intimately acquainted with Phila, the daughter of Mr. Osgood, to whom he was some- what more than ordinarily attracted, and whom he thought a congenial and fit companion for him. As she seems to have been in unity with him in this opinion—or, at least, not averse to his entertaining it for himself, and inclined to reciprocate his esteem and affections—the intimacy was persevered in, MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 23 and resulted in their marriage, in the year 1831. Dr. Wilmarth's choice of a companion was a most- wise and fortunate one, and he always deemed it so. Mrs. Wilmarth is now one of the most estimable of women ; and as a wife and a mother she has ever been among the most devoted, affectionate and faith- ful. Unassuming, modest, retiring, amiable and gentle, and uniformly under the guidance of the Christian spirit and Christian principles, she has fill- ed her position in life, with unsurpassed grace and fidelity. She has been just such a wife as Dr. Wil- marth needed—needed for both sides of his nature and character ; the downward and the upward. HeT excellent judgment and almost unlimited forbearance and patience, were perfectly adapted to restrain and subdue the one; and her sympathy and interest in all that he loved and practiced that was good, strengthened and encouraged the other, and did much to hallow and to bless his earthly life. And he fully appreciated her in return; deeming her a model wife and mother. Being thus, in her mature life, the elements, at least, of her superior qualities must have existed in her whilst young; justifying the re- mark that Dr. Wilmarth's choice was a wise and fortunate one. 2-1 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. Soon after Dr. Wilmarth was married to Miss Os- good, they went to house-keeping in a small story and a half house, which he had built in an obscure part of Montague, (the extreme easterly part,) and where they found few enough neighbors, one would naturally think, to suit even a hermit. Here they dwelt for three or four years, in a very simple and economical manner, yet contentedly and happily, but hoping for more prosperous times and better sur- roundings in the future. The Dr. 's practice had by this time begun to ex- tend somewhat largely into several adjoining towns j and in Montague, Leverett, Amherst, Northfield and Wendell, particularly, he was popular, and his pop- ularity was fast increasing. The reason of his leav- ing his original and humble settlement, was an invitation to make his residence in Leverett, where he would be more central to his patients, and where he was in much demand. This invitation was ex- tended to him, probably in the year 1834, by Capt. Alpheus Field, (under the sanction of others,) who was one of the most wealthy, worthy and influential men in the town; and who remained a warm and faithful supporter and friend of the Dr. as long aa he lived. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 25 As an inducement for Dr. Wilmarth to move to Leverett, his friends there, through Capt. Field, offered to be at the expense of transporting him, of furnishing him a house to live in a year, gratis, and of moving him back again, just as freely, if he should not succeed, and should wish to return. This liberal and confiding offer he accepted, and was soon con- vinced that he had made a wise decision. He found himself pleasantly situated, and cordially welcomed to his new field of labor by the community in general. He at once had as much business as he could attend to, and he was often sent for to visit many of the towns lying in that general region—-Pelham, Shutes- bury, New Salem, Greenfield, Shelburne, Sunder- land and Gill, being prominent ones among them. He became particularly distinguished for his skill in chronic diseases ; and though he had not yet receiv- ed his doctorate, caring little or nothing about the matter, most of the regular Physicians highly es- teemed him, and " were always glad to meet him in consultation." I have been informed of but one exception. Dr. Gridley, "the first surgeon of Hampshire Co., and a thoroughly educated man," was both his professional and personal friend. Had Dr. Wilmarth been more "a man of the 26 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. world"—more ambitious for a name, for the accu- mulation of property, for display, he might easily have stood high on the scroll of medical fame. To have secured this end, he was only deficient in intel- lectual culture, and the learning of the schools ; and could he have sacrificed his desire to be immedi- ately and widely useful to his fellow beings, these advantages were quite within his reach, and he would have readily secured them. He had a more than common thirst for knowledge—for all knowledge, especially, that could be made subservient to human welfare—and a marked aptness for acquiring it; as well as superior memory to retain it, after acquired; and the simple ambition would have accumulated it. Nor would it have taken him so long as it does most students to have become distinguished for his attain- ments. This fact is proved by what he actually made himself, with such meager opportunities as he enjoyed. But he could not. spare any time from the more practical and urgent duties that crowded upon him. He cared no more for learning merely to display, than for costly clothing and equipage; always turned pedantry into ridicule, and valued original common sense far more highly than traditionary book lore ; MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 27 and as he could not conveniently educate himself so thoroughly as he wished to be educated, he thought he should- be more serviceable to the world by giving himself to it as he actually was, and might become, through observation, practice and experience, than by withdrawing from it and devoting himself excln sively to study. It was not the love of money; not the love of celebrity; not the love of any mere earthly object, that attracted him to his profession and influenced him to choose it; but it was a desire and a purpose to live to benefit and to bless mankind, and to min- ister to their necessities and happiness—as a goo* Physician might. He wished, therefore, to be up and doing whatever his hands found to do in this work, with earnestness and zeal. And in season and out of season, night and day, winter and sum- mer, and in all kinds of weather, and under almost all circumstances, he was devotedly and hurriedly engaged in it. He might have placed too low an estimate upon art, science, philosophy, literature— literature particularly—and he probably sometimes did ; but it is a question whether he did not do more real service to mankind without them, than he would have done with them, had he been obliged to retire 28 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. to private life for their acquisition. He did a great deal ojf work in his profession, and seems to have done it well—judging that work by the old standard of " Materia Medica." He probably did as much good as most of the first class Physicians, who grad- uated from College and School with high honors ;— as little evil, perhaps some will think it ought rather to be said. At any rate, it clearly appears that he compared favorably with other Physicians, and was not an unsuccessful competitor with them for prac- tice. He rode enough during his thirty most healthy, vigorous and active years to have accumulated a ^handsome fortune ; and would have done so, had he been less of a Christian than he was, and only as selfish as ordinary men. Others of the profession, with far less labor, have lived in luxury and died rich. But however it may be, las to the amount of use- fulness which Dr. Wilmarth accomplished, compared with the more learned of his professional brethren, or as to the amount he could have accomplished himself, with a liberal education, compared with what he did accomplish, he certainly secured a "rep- utation" in his calling, that one might well be proud of, with the most manly and Christian pride. If the MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 29 "world" did not know him, because he was not of it; by his devoted services to mankind, rendered in the spirit of humanity, he built himself up a monument in some hundreds of hearts, at least, which is of far more worth and far more durable, than any monu- ment of stone ever reared by human hands to per- petuate the fame of man. His life in LevereP was a laborious and arduous one, and allowed him but little time for recreation, relaxation or rest; and was all the while gradually undermining his constitution and bringing on premature infirmity, if not prema- ture death; but it was nevertheless a life which he could look back upon with much satisfaction and joy, confident in himself that it had not been spent in vain, but to the good of many, and therefore to the glory of the Father of- Spirits. He had restored the diseased to health; he had mitigated pain ; he had pointed out the way to a long life ; thus much for the body : and for the mind—he had enlightened its ignorance, he had consoled its grief, he had saved it from despondency, and strengthened, and encourag- ed and confirmed it, in its higher aspirations, pur- poses and endeavors. He had been a Physician to the body and the soul equally. It was a great reward to him that he had been ; and his heart en- 30 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTn. larged with emotions of thankfulness to the Source of all good, that he had been strengthened and ena- bled thus to expand and use the powers and energies of his nature. Having spent many years of usefulness in Lever- ett, in the midst of a large number of the most af- fectiolfte and confiding friends and patients, whom he also greatly esteemed and valued, he cherished, even to the close of his life, not a few pleasant re- miniscences of them of which I have often heard him speak with much satisfaction and pleasure. So reciprocal were the attachment and good will of the parties that he would probably have never left them but from a sense of duty to what seemed to him a higher call. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 31 CHAPTER II. Some of his general qualities of head and heart—His per- sonal appearance and plain dress—His intellectual abili- ty—His humor and mirthfulness—His benevolence— His reform spirit—His compassion for evil doers—His honesty—His artlessness and frankness—His kindness to children—His indifference to what people might say of him. In the previous chapter I gave a hasty and very general review of Dr. Wilmarth, from his childhood to the time that he was an established and widely known and popular Physician, in the town of Lev- erett, Mass. It might have been gratifying, par- ticularly to his large circle of personal friends, could I have given a more detailed account of his earlier years ; but the materials essential thereto were not accessible, and this must suffice as an apology for the deficiency. And it may, too, be reasonably doubted, whether the minute particulars of one's childhood and youth are of sufficient interest to be recorded, unless in some strikingly exceptional cases. Many Memoirs that we meet with seem overburdened 32 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. with such matters ; which can be of no special value excepting, perhaps, to a very few kindred or intimate friends. But, however this may be, in the estima- tion of my readers, as I could collect but little in- formation respecting our departed friend's juvenile career, I have been able to impart .but little. My main purpose, therefore, in the present Me- moir, is to represent Dr. Wilmarth as I have per- sonally known him, and as I have known of him, through those who were his most intimate acquain- tances and friends—as he was also known to the public, both as a Physician and as a Man—peculiarly Christian in both characters. My first acquaintance with him, was as a "Res- torationist"—a hearty sympathizer and zealous co- laborer with the small religious denomination that once bore that name, and of which I was also a member. Thiswas about the year 1840, and I shall therefore hereafter speak of him, as he has lived and labored since that date. Before, however, going into the details of his character and works, it may be well here to give some ideas of him as to his general intellectual and moral qualities. Dr. Wilmarth, then, as a Man, was above ordina- ry—a man of large, acute, and strong mind. His MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 33 first appearance, to a stranger, did not, indeed, indi- cate this, save as his broad, high, and noble forehead attracted attention, as it naturally did. But all who observed that, knew that he must be a man of mark. Well do I recollect this sign of the man ivithin, as about the only peculiarity of his person that impressed me, the first time I saw him, sufficiently to remain in my memory, after our separation, which lasted for two or three years. His outside appearance, which the tailor had fashioned, did not commend him to the atten- tion, profound respect and high regard of exquisites, or of gentlemen and ladies with whom the latest styles of dress are among the great interests of life ; and some such probably thought but little of him, because he was so ordinarily attired. Sometimes they neg- lected him, when they would have honored him, out- wardly, at least, had he been a richly clad and stiffly starched rum-seller, slaveholder, or dewurer of widows' houses. So much influence has the apparel in which one appears in public. If one has not any thing else to commend him, costly and fashionable dress often will; and he who has not this, but only mind and heart, as his chief recommendation, must be content to wait for respect till he himself becomes as well known as his coat. Position, however, often c 34 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. does something for a man, as well as cloth, and when it sometimes became known, in certain circles, that the stranger was " Dr." Wilmarth, he, of course, received his share of notice and consideration.—How much greater is a garment and an office than a man—how evident is it, too, that he was made for them and not they for him !—judging, that is, from numerous manifestations in fashionable society. But Dr. Wilmarth was not, after all, I ought to say,- strikingly peculiar in his dress—far from one of your slovenly literary men, whose chief pride seems to be to appear as much out of fashion (and out at the elbows) as possible, thereby to attract attention to their genius and merits. His garments were only not always made to harmonize with the prevailing fashion, and might be a little coarse and a little " countryfied," never in tatters—he had too good and particular a wife for that—and never dirty. And this matter I mention, because it will frequently be seen, in the course of this Memoir, to illustrate one of the great Christian excellences of his character. He was conscientious, and conscientiously economi- cal, in it, for Christ's sake and the world's. And being so plain a man, and altogether unostentatious, was one of the reasons that rendered it necessary for MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 35 strangers to become thoroughly acquainted with him, in order fully to understand and appreciate him. He was as unconcerned about his manners, as about his dress. There was no pretense to him, no palav- er, no artifice. He was simply natural, and wished to stand only in natural relations with his fellow men. These qualities, however, are proofs of his moral, rather than intellectual, elevation, and will be more appropriately dwelt upon at length, in another place. But they indicate also, to some extent, largeness of mind—as mere pride of dress, of show, of position, come from littleness of mind. That Dr. Wilmarth was mentally more than an ordinary man, is evinced by the simple fact of his gradually rising from the humble position in life which he occupied in his youth, to the really elevated one to which he attained before his death. The Schools, inferior or superior, did little for him, and his surrounding circumstances were by no means of a character to quicken him into mental activity, or to inspire him with a thirst for knowledge, or an ambi- tion for public distinction and usefulness. Almost all the outfit that he had to start with, in the pursuit of the qualifications for a professional vocation, were c* 36 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. » his own internal forces, and the aids to which he had helped himself. Men who thus begin their progressive develop- ment and acquisitions, and at last secure, among intelligent judges who know them best, a substantial reputation in their calling, must have something su- perior in them. They could not rise against so many hindrances if they had not. Some, if not all, their mental powers must be large and strong. And no intelligent person could be with Dr. Wilmarth long, without seeing and feeling that he possessed this su- periority—especially if any of his favorite topics came up for conversation. He did not exhibit the evidences of large culture and extensive learning, for he had not been favored with these ; and he nev- er laid claim to one whit more than he possessed. He had no ambition to seem—as little as any man whom I ever knew—only an ambition to be ; content with whatever he was, without any apparent anxiety to be thought more. In his earlier years, as has already been said, he enjoyed few advantages of edu- cation, and acquired only the elements of it; and after he entered upon manhood, he was so much en- grossed with practical matters and duties, that he found but a small remnant of leisure to devote to MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 37 studies—to any other studies than those connected with his profession. He had too much heart—too much interest in human suffering and needs—to be as much head as it is desirable to be, when circum- stances admit of it. He loved learning, particularly the sciences which aid iu the understanding and practice of the medical profession; and there was such an absence of display to him ; he was so averse to anything of the kind, that few knew the extent of his acquaintance with those sciences. In conversation, and in public lectures, he would sometimes open to a vein of knowledge, that his most intimate friends did not know existed in so rich a mine within him. And he had an intellect, sharp and quick to discern, easy to comprehend, and apt to appropriate, whatever subject, old or new, was presented to him. He was also one of the most observing of men; always re- marking upon whatever of novelty or interest pre- sented itself before him. His critical powers were likewise prominent and active. " He was, as I have often told him," says his excellent widow, in a letter to me, " born to be be a critic ; for it seemed to him as natural as his breath to be criticising some one's views or conduct —but all with good intention." And he was a close, 38 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTn. persistent questioner of public speakers, where the practice of questioning them was allowed—particu* larly if anything new was brought forward. At our Chapel in Hopedale, public meetings of all kinds are always free ; and in the course of each year wo have had, from the commencement of our Community. not only some new, but some strange, occasionally some startling, views presented to us—sometimes by members of the Community, sometimes by persons from abroad. Now and then we have been visited by some very eccentric persons ; and they, enjoying the largest liberty, have not unfrequently opened to us a budget of curious matters—wise and witty, good and true, or otherwise, as the ease might be. We have had addresses delivered to us, inculcating almost all the varieties of thought and opinion, from Robert Owen, the Pantheist, (not so now, I believe,) to some of the latest Mediums for " Spirits." And whenever our Br. Wilmarth was present on such occasions, he almost always added to the interest of the meetings, by his close questionings and various apt remarks—sometimes serious and sage, frequently humorous and witty, ever honest and conscientious. He often aided us in eliciting light and truth from the conflicting elements; and whenever he himself MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 39 lectured before us, as he occasionally did, we were instructed, gratified and profited. Greatly do we all miss his valued presence from such scenes, and our hearts are possessed with grief and sorrow, when we reflect that we shall see him in them no more ! But we slwdl see him again., amidst higher seenes and purer joys. This is the great hope, we mutually cherished when he was in the flesh ; and it will not fail. The simple existence of an infinite and perfect God is the pledge of it; though He is also the per- petual Inspirer of the hope. Dr. Wilmarth was also a man of great humor— great gmd humor. A fund of mirthfulness he had, that appeared inexhaustible. As I now stand writing at my desk, some few rods from his former pleasant, happy home, I seem almost to hear his merry, joyous laugh, elicited, perhaps, by one of his own—more than likely, ludicrous—anecdotes, for which his mind must have had, I think, a separate department, and that department full. I fancy—and the fancy is only a fact of memory—I fancy he is enjoying some such a scene of hilarity as the above, with two or three friends in his yard, and that I now see them separate; he going into his door in a satisfied, de- lighted mood and air, to light up all within by his 40 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTn sportive recital of the interview ; and they going to their homes talking and laughing at the good Dr.'s merriment and extasy ! Perhaps, also, they good humoredly contrast his mirth with his piety—a piety sincere, honest, without show or deceit, but yet of rather a Puritanic type—not severe, or gloomy, but serious and devout—the recognition and the love of God, flowing out in love to man, its basis. That so religious a man should also be often so jocund, seemed an inconsistency to some ; but he never joked at the expense of true religion or hu- manity, or to their detriment. He had too large, too nice and quick a conscience, to do that. His mirth might sometimes have run to excess—it prob- ably did ; and his piety, being somewhat grave and exact, he might sometimes have been really incon- sistent. But no one ever thought him to be in the least degree tinged with hypocrisy. He was per- fectly transparent. I do not believe he ever made a serious effort to pass himself off for more than he was, in any of his positions in life. He cared noth- ing for an artificial "reputation"—only endeavored to be himself, subordinate and conformed to the will of God—all unconsciously and unconcernedly leav- ing reputation to take care of itself, and come to MEMOIR .OF DR. WILMARTH. 41 him or not, as society might adjudge. His life was not the breath of popular favor and applause. Of course he valued, and valued highly, the good will and approval of his fellow men—he felt himself too closely identified with mankind as the children of a common Father, as a common Brotherhood, not to do so. And he never affected to despise or defy public opinion—had not the least tendency to out- rage it, and was exceedingly conciliatory. His rather ascetic piety was not, therefore, assumed for effect, however inconsistent some might think it, with his strong tendencies to mirthfuiness, and however much disposed they might be, occasionally, to contrast the two phases of his character. His piety I have often thought a little traditional—never, however, other- wise than entirely honest. But his religious charac- ter will be the subject of a future Chapter. The present allusion to it is only incidental. "His mirthfuiness," says his wife in the letter before quoted from, " was apparent to every one Many things naturally presented themselves to him in a ludicrous light;" and all who knew him, I would add, also know how instinctively he seized upon those things, and used them to give an agreea- ble and plea'sant spice to social intercourse. He 42 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. was seldom in familiar circles, on any ordinary occa- sions, for even a half hour, without getting all pres- ent into a cheerful and laughing mood. He was no j-ago Philosopher, sitting with finger upon closed lips, "a long and silent lustrum," thinking it un- dignified more than to smile; and yet his laugh, though often loud, was never rude and repulsive, but always genial and welcome. His intercourse with almost all classes of men had been extensive, and he always had some fact, old or new, humorous- ly to illustrate some passing topic of conversation. Within a few months he has staid many nights at my home, and we have, therefore, spent long even- ings in this cheerful and joyous manner. Some of his anecdotes were drawn from religious life—most likely ministerial—some from medical life—illustra- tive, perhaps, of some shallow quack, " irregular" or "regular"—and many from "life among the lowly," in which sphere he had practiced his pro- fession much, and been gratefully, sometimes amus- ingly, appreciated. Would memory serve me to do so, it would add to the interest of this work to repeat some of these ; but they have passed from me, so that I cannot relate them, without spoiling them of some of their pith and interest; and thus they must MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 43 remain unrecorded. But the recollection of the subjects of some of these anecdotes, and of the per- sons and circumstances connected therewith, as well as of the Dr.'s animated and happy air and manner of relating them, will long remain with not a few of his personal friends, causing them many sensations of painful pleasure, as they think of those pleasant, delightful interviews, now forever gone ! But here is one of the many anecdotes he was fond of telling, communicated to me by his wife: She says of him : "It was natural for him to sym- pathize with his patients in distress, and he was (pick to perceive when their health was affected by pecuniary circumstances. At such times, I have often heard him relate an anecdote of an experienced physician, who was called to consult with a young practitioner. The younger physician asked the older, what he thought the disease of the patient to be 1 The latter looked up very dignifiedly and gravely, and answered : ' I think, Sir, it is a collapse of the pecuniarium.' At this the younger physician looked rather inquiringly and surprised, not understanding this new term. But he soon ascertained the mean- jno-—a moment's reflection upon the term itself brought it to him. And my husband used frequently 44 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. to find such cases. Once, since we came to----, when I asked him what was the matter with a particular patient, he humorously replied : ' 0, it is a Collapse of the Peat niari urn.' Not that he supposed the patient to be free from any other dis- ease ; but that if he could have a few hundred dollars given him it would give such a favorable impulse to his system, that his other difficulties would soon bo removed." And no one who knew the Dr. well, could doubt that had it been possible for him to do so, most gladly would he have always carried with him the appropriate medicine for this disease, and administered it, where actually needed, without extra charge. And he would have administered it, I am sure, in no Homoeopathic doses; excepting whore this very peculiar "collapse11 was only imaginary on the part of the com plainer.- He would have de- lighted to pour out money to the destitute, as water —-hydropathically. But here follow some of his letters, which will illustrate the character of his humor :— TO DR. HERO. bN. L. W. C, August 12, 185-2. Dear Doctor :—I have looked in vain for a re- port from you of the " battle." If you have been MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 45 killed, say so; if not, say so; that I may know whether to rejoice or mourn. I don't want to do either for nothing; so I hope you will speak, if you are not speechless. I have nothing new in particu- lar ; have seventeen patients—no great scratch for this time of the year. They come and go like soap. I have had in all thirty. But the great house [fashionable hotel] across the way is full—-full of stuffing, and drinking, and smoking, &c, &c,— making " cases" for somebody ; mostly for the Allo- pathic brethren, I suppose. At least, they will have the handling of them first, then the Homoeopathic, then the Botanic, then the Clairvoyants, then the " Spirits," then the Hydro-Electro Morto-pathic, and finally, Post-morto-pathy will have some of them. Please write immediately," if you have not already written. Perhaps, however, I have a letter on the road, coming as fast as John Gilpin's "hat and wig." As ever, yours, B. Wilmarth. TO DR. HEKO. Lebanon Springs, .A7. T., June 3. 1852. Dear Doctor: In four or five hours after mailing my letter, givinp- my reasons for not writing sooner, laying out a plan, &e. [for the new W t. hstab- 46 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. lishment at Westboro',] I received your second, which indicates a high grade of excitement. I call it " Denny Fever."* I hope it will not prove fatal to your reasoning and calculating powers. I would recommend equalizing the circulation by wet-sheet packing, with cold applications to the head and a jug of hot water to the feet, followed by a half bath, plunge, pail douche, and shower, as often as the paroxysm occurs, till there is less determination to the head. Should this fail, take a sitz bath of 32 deg. for six hours, and repeat as occasion requires! Yours, as ever, B. Wilmarth. *More scientifically, Febris Westonville, characterized by an ardent desire to trade with Denny, and live in Wes- tonville. Ha, ha! TO DAVID CAMBELL. New Grafenberg, N. T., March 31, IS52 Br. Cambell :—Yours of the 29th came safe, together with the Paper, announcing the opening of the N. L. W. C. Establishment, cScc. I don't like the position our Advertisement occupies iu it, —scattered along over a part of three columns, and split to pieces, not even affording room for my name, all together, on one line. But never mind. They have atoned for all that, by giving us credit for "faculties" for every kind of bath ; and memoir of dr. wilmarth. 47 again, for curing every "phrase" of disease. Now if we only have the right " faculty" and phrase-olo- gy, we can get along with all the rest well enough. These are the main qualities in this age of humbug- gery. But really, I did not mean to include the diction of patients among the list of diseases, suitable for water treatment, though I confess there is pressing need of a remedy in some cases; and if we can only demonstrate our "faculties" sufficiently to ensure the confidence of those who are diseased in their 'phrases," we may do something towards correcting false mental impressions, as well as curing physical ailments. I shall send a correction to the printers; for I cannot bear to see such blunderation in a plain mat- ter. If Providence permit, I shall call and see you as I go East. Yours, as ever, B. Wilmarth. But Benevolexce was also a distinguishing virtue of his life. He was naturally benevolent; and he was likewise benevolent from a sense of Christian obligation. Jesus, going about doing good, was as much his admiration and guide, as Jesus the Teach- er ; and he was a worthy imitator of that meek and lowly—that truly lofty, One. In a large measure, did he possass the "Good Samaritan" Spirit; and 48 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. he Manifested it often to the injury of his own pecu- niary interests and prospects. Had he not been so largely benevolent, he could have easily laid up " earthly treasures" to the extent of his needs, and not been straitened in his circumstances, (as he was,) in the decline of his life. Dr. Price says: "He was benevolent to a fault—if benevolence can be carried to that extent. I have often known him to bestow money for a benevolent object, even when h| needed it himself. His sympathies were easily en- listed, especially where there was an object of suffer- ing, under any circumstances; whether by poverty, disgrace, crime, or the strong arm of the law. His heart was open to their cry, and his purse to their rescue and relief, where justice did not order other- wise." Mr. Field says of Dr. W.'s benevolence : " As- to his benevolence, it was extensive. It extended to all with whom he had intercourse; whether rich or poor, high or low, bond or free. When he lived in Leverett, he was accustomed to set poor people to work, and pay them high wages, to his own detri- ment. On a particular occasion, I remember that one of his rich neighbors reprimanded him for paying so high wages, on the ground that it was a damage MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 49 to him—to the rich man! He could not hire so cheap, if wages were thus raised." Mr. Field like- wise adds : "Dr. Wilmarth was very hospitable to strangers. I have known him to entertain for weeks, and without pay, a colored man who was traveling for the purpose of sharpening razors. I have also known him to release an inebriate from jail, become responsible for his good behavior and temperate hab- its, and take him to his own house, and nurse and otherwise provide for him for some months. At one time, I knew him to fit up a shelter for a poor family, close to his own house, where they remained, I should think, two or three years. This must have been a considerable expense to the Dr. Then, again, his benevolent feelings kept him from calling upon poor people for debts due him by them, for his profess- ional services. It was these benevolent acts, together with his low price for doctoring, that kept the man poor, as to this world's goods." The testimony of the Dr.'s wife is: " In my hus- band, the poor and friendless found a true friend. Many times have I heard them lavish upon him their blessings ; and to see them made happy was to him a rich reward. The wayfaring always found with him a welcome lodging." His kindness to the colored D 50 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. man, of whom Mr. Field has spoken above, Mrs. Wilmarth says, "was such that the poor creature thought he had found a home for life." And she once told me, that when she thought the time had arrived, at which he ought to leave them, in conse- quence of the burden of taking care of him being too much for her to bear, the Dr. really had consci- entious scruples against requesting him to seek another home. He knew it was bringing an excess of work upon his wife, and that she ought to be relieved from it; but he thought the poor man might possibly have been sent to him, in the Providence of God-»—so much of a supernaturalist was he—as a test of his philanthropy, his religion, his professed faith in the Gospel of Christ ! He hardly dared to take the responsibility of sending him away, but left his wife free to do the unpleasant act, if she felt clear in her mind about the rightfulness of it. He could not, he said, and must wait for more light. "At another time," continues Mrs. Wilmarth, as he was returning home from a professional visit, he overtook a boy whom he invited to ride with him. In conversation with him—and he was always familiarly inquisitive—he found he had run away, and was a bad boy. He, however, took him home MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 51 t with him, and endeavored to do him good, reform and save him. The boy remained as long as he pleased, and then went away." His benevolence was large and true enough to make him a Reformer. He pitied all the unfortu- nate, and deeply sympathized with them ; and it was a perpetual, restless desire with him to see all pros- perous, all happy. His wife says: "He was one who seldom wept at his" own misfortunes; but he could never read an account of human suffering— such as the burning of the Lexington,—(of which he had often spoken, dreading such an end,)—or a story of oppression and outrage—such as are com- mon at the South—without weeping freely." Of course, then, he was an Abolitionist—as a man he was natually an abolitionist; as a Christian, and with his views of what constitutes a Christian, he could not possibly be otherwise. His wife informs me that he became converted to Anti-Slavery by reading a small work entitled " The Mirror of Mise- ry"—something like twenty-five or thirty years ago. And his abolitionism was of a genuine, heart type. He most fully recognized the negro, the slave, as a man and a brother ; and treated him as such, when- ever he met him in any sphere of life. For him ho D* 52 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH had as low a bow, as friendly a smile, as kind a word, as for the .white man. He was certainly " no respecter of persons" to an uncommon extent. I remember, in particular, one fugitive slave who came to Hopedale to find a resting place, and a retreat from the kidnapper, whom he treated with very great kindness. The poor man came, and whilst here, was infirm, sick, and unable to do anything; and the Dr. had him at his house, and carried him through a most thorough course of water-cure treatment, and bestowed upon him as much attention and care as though he had been a wealthy patient, and was pay- ing him. large fees for his services. But this was only one of many similar cases. He had a large measure of that spirit which teaches that if one member suffer—and even the most insignificant—all the members should suffer with it, and labor for its redemption. He was likewise the " friend of sin- ners"—not of sin, of course, but of sinners—and of unfashionable, vulgar, generally condemned sin- ners. He might often have seemed very severe and harsh in his rebukes of them, whilst they were going on in their evil ways unrepentant and unblushingly ; but no sooner did he see them in his presence, with- out sympathy, without pity and aid from those around MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. _ 53 them—especially if they were neglected or treated with austerity—than he softened, and was full of a heavenly compassion towards them, whioh he was always ready to manifest in word and in deed. He stood ever on the side of the weak and the defense- less, and against the powerful who would crush them, or cut them off from mercy. " Misfortune," says Dr. Rice, " drew from his great heart the bitter sigh, and from his eyes the flowing tears; and from his tongue, oppression was sure to receive merited rebuke." " None," says his wife, " were so wicked, but that he had a desire to do them good. I have often heard him say, .that ' if the D—1 were sick and should send for me, I would go and see him'— a remark that some may regard as almost profane, but expressive of the feelings of his heart." But of his benevolence as a Physician, I shall speak more particularly in another place. And all who knew him knew that he was an hon- est man—strikingly, preeminently so—honest in the formation and expression of his opinions, and honest in all his actions ; and as truthful as honest. I do not suppose any one'doubted this, who was intimate- ly acquainted with him. Dr. Holland of the New Grajfenberg Water-Cure Establishment, N, Y-, with 54 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. whom Dr. Wilmarth spent a year, as one of the Phy- sicians to that Establishment, says, on this point, in a late letter to Rev. C. B. Cainpbloll: "Dr. Wil- marth was certainly one of the most honest men I ever knew ; in fact, I never knew his equal in that respect."—When he had made up his mind on any subject, every one knew where to find him, both in public and in private; and whether he stood alone or with a crowd ; and they knew, too, that he would always be on the side of uprightness and rectitude. Some of his Letters, which will be hereafter inserted, will illustrate this peculiar quality of his character. And then, he was so condescending to children— so thoughtful of their needs and their pleasure and happiness, that I must not pass over even this pecu- liarity. Mrs. Wilmarth says : " His feelings were youthful and buoyant'; therefore many young people sought his company and enjoyed it, and he in ieturn enjoyed theirs." And the truth of this latter re- mark is confirmed to me by many facts of his every day life. How many times have I seen him—tho kind man—take several small children into his car- riage, at our Dale, as he was going to and coming from his professional visits, and thus give joy to their little hearts by a ride ! I have seen his sulky filled. MEMOIR OF IR. WILMARTH. . 50 his wagon sometimes covered, with them, and he as pleased as they ! Many of their tender hearts will be dissolved into tears as the relation of this fact refreshes their memories. The carelessness, the recklessness of irresponsible men, has taken from them a precious friend ! His regard for them, his condescension and his benevolence, were ever mani- festing themselves to them by ministering to their happiness. Seldom did he go into company where they were—especially if he was not seeing them of- ten—without most familarly, blandly and affection- ately extending to them, as to the adults present, the cordial hand of friendship. And "though dead"—or risen—he is still speaking to them by his kindly gifts. A dozen copies of a juvenile paper, still monthly come to our office, and are circulated by my own little boy among those children to whom the good Dr. considerately and generously ordered them to be sent, a few months before his departure from earth. But I will close this chapter of the Dr.'s peculiar- ities, by saying that he was, withal, one of the most indifferent of men as to what people might say of his peculiarities—some of them really humorous from their novel artlessness and perfect candor. He was 56 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTn. as ready to confess any fault and to correct any mis- take he might make, in public, as he was in the most private circle of friends. He never deemed it a disgrace to do so ; and he would do it in the most unconfused and cool manner possible, laugh who might. One striking illustration of that trait his wife mentions. She says: " Many years ago, when we lived in Leverett, he was chosen Justice of tho Peace ; and ■ not long after was called upon to marry a couple. The guests were assembled and he proceeded to repeat the marriage ceremony ; but he had repeated but a few words before he found he had forgotten the formula he was intending to use. He acknowledged his embarrassment, commenced again, and went through without difficulty." And all who were ever in the praetiee of attending conference meetings with him, and other meetings where inform- al and promiscuous singing was interspersed, will be able to call to remembrance many occasions on which, in attempting to take the lead, he would commence on too high or too low a key, and just as calmly and quietly as if alone, request those who had joined him to stop and "try it again." Some- times he would re-commence, perhaps two or three times; wholly, unconscious that any would be mortte- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 57 tied by a mere mistake ; and wholly unconcerned as to his own position in the matter. A friend, in reference to this same point, remarks : '' Whenever ho got into a bad ' fix,' he would own up, as the say- ing is, and make the best of his way out of it." This peculiarity of character grew partly out of his great self-possession, and partly out of his frater- nal feeling toward those with whom he was assem- bled, and which, he took it for granted, was recipro- cated. He felt that they were all members of one great family, and should not be afraid or ashamed before each other in anything not essentially wrong. In this way he often avoided extended confusion, and so turned the mistake, that it had no other effect than to infuse a little humor and pleasantry into the circle convened. It would be well if those public speakers, and choirs of singers, who occasionally blunder to their great consternation, would learn a lesson from his example. It was indeed a little amusing, or not a little, to see and hear the good Dr., when he made a public " blunder ;" and per- haps a little mortifying to some over-sensitive minds; but it was, after all, a far better way of getting out of a difficulty than a dignified, learned and artificial way sometimes is. 58 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. CHAPTER III. Religious influence of his early life—Becomes \ ersonally religious—his interest in the Baptists and rejection by them—His theology—Connects himself with tie Meth- odists, but is finally cut off from them—A controver- sialist, but charitable and liberal—is generally recognized as a Christian where he resides, on account of the ex- cellency of his spirit and character—decline of his faith in the churches. Amos Wilmarth was a Universalist in Religion; consequently his adopted son, our departed friend and brother, was brought up under Universalist in- fluences. It does not appear, however, that he was specially interested in that system of Theology, or in any other, very early in life. But—to quote again from his wife's letter—" At about the age of 20 years, his mind was more particularly called to tho subject of Religion, than it ever had been before; at which time he thought he embraced the truths of Christianity. Not long afterwards, he offered him- self as a candidato for admission to the Baptist Church, of N. Leverett, Mass." But he did not MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTn. 59 harmonize with the "orthodox" Theology, in all its cardinal points ; and he was not a man to conceal cr to compromise any truth which he believed, whatever the consequences might be for making his faith known. He did not, and could not, believe in eter- nal punishment, but confidently hoped for Universal Restoration, as the ultimate result of God's purpose and Christ's mission. This he plainly made known to his Baptist brethren, and expressed his determi- nation to abide by it as Christian truth, until ho could be fairly convinced, from the Scriptures, which were his Standard, that he was in error. Hence, though his "religious experience" was satisfactory to the Church, and all its members regarded him as a Christian, and were satisfied that his faith was "evangelical" in most other points; as he believed that Good would at last overcome Evil, and God be "all in all," they declined receiving him into their full fellowship and communion! He nevertheless continued in unity with them, and they with him, in their worship, until he moved to another place. How brother Wilmarth came by his, then, very " heretical" views respecting the final destiny of man- kind—the prospect of universal love, harmony and happiness—whether they were chiefly the result of 60 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. his own experience, reasonings, and study of tho Bible, or whether he received them from some foreign source, does not clearly appear, from any evidence in my possession. It is probable, however, that he was helped to them by Elhaxan Winchester, whom ihe always profoundly respected and reverenced, as a great and good man, and with whose Dialogues on <( Universal Restoration," he became early familiar. As far back as my knowledge extends, he was op- posed to the system of Ultra-Universalism—as the no-future punishment scheme, is sometimes called— and thought it unchristian in several of its features, and in the influence it exerted on many who follow- ed it. It should be here stated, however, that the Uni- versalism of his early days, was quite different, in several important respects, from the Universalism of the present time—it then being a sort of " Calvin- ism gone to seed"—or Fatalism. But it was also often almost as much opposed to what was considered by our departed brother, " experimental and practi- cal religion," as it was to endless misery. To a great extent, it was negative, or anti-orthodox in its character. It now encourages an emotional piety, and many means thereto, as well as some movements MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 61 for the " conversion of the world"—such as Sunday schools, conference meetings, and missionary socie- ties—-which it formerly placed a very low estimate upon. This anti-spiritual and anti-practical phase of the system, was, by the way, one of the great causes which led to the secession of the Restorationists in 1831, in which Br. Adin Ballou took such a leading and conspicuous part. That Restorationist'' schism," was not merely a theological movement; for if the Universalist Denomination had then occu- pyed its present position in reference to piety, and practical religion in individual life, the separa- tion would not, it is probable, so soon, at least, have tal#n place. But to hear all future punishment sneerffl at and derided, both by Pulpit and Press, as a relick of heathenism, and internal religion fre- quently treated with skeptical lightness, was what the Restorationists of the Winchester type could not abide, and they therefore withdrew from the De- nominatoin ; partly from a theological and partly from a religious cause. With this new movement, in behalf of a theoreti- cal and practical Restorationism, brother Wilmarth most heartily and fully sympathized, aiding it to the extent of his means. He was particularly drawn 62 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. towards Br. Ballou, and was one of the first sub- scribers to the " Independent Messenger," of which Br. B. was the able, earnest, fearless Editor—hav- ing a hard theological and religious battle to fight in its columns, to engage in which then required no ordinary courage. About this time—in the year 1835—Dr. Wilmarth wrote to Br. B. as follows : " I verily believe the views entertained by Resto- rationists, the best calculated to promote ' Glory to God, and peace on earth, and good will among men.' Yet I fear many wrest these truths to their own de- struction. I am pleased when I see the dangerous points (if I may so speak) guarded ; and I hope the ' Messenger' will continue to ' divide the word and give to each his portion in due season.' I ffave many serious debates with my Christian fffends; and almost all the ministers within my acquaintance have endeavored to convince me of what they esteem my errors. And if, indeed, it be error, I pray the Lord to let me see and renounce it. But as yet, me- thinks it cannot be, that the greatest possible good of the universe can be brought about by the greatest possible misery of the greatest part of the members of that universe. This is a mode of reasoning ut- terly unintelligible to my weak capacity. I would as soon believe that day is night, summer is winter, or that life is death; and yet I often hear it asserted MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. C3 by men of knowledge and piety, who would in a moment discard such reasoning if applied to anything but religion." But Br. Wilmarth being at such a distance from the " scene of action," and having none of like faith to sympathize with, near him, he still continued in the partial, outside communion and fellowship of the more rigid sects. Heart religion, the religion of conscience and the affections, was, with him, before all creeds, however liberal and true even. When- ever he found piety, therefore, in which he saw no sham, but sincerity, honesty, earnestness, there he felt that he had a religious home. He did not, in- deed, then, as nearer the close of life, discriminate between the piety of mere feeling and words and the piety of deeds, as well; and so he probably often placed too high an estimate upon the former. And yet he always had an elevated standard of individual duty, and was quick to detect seeming and hypocri- sy, which he loathed. He only formerly failed to test the prevailing piety, by the standard of universal Right and Humanity—recognizing, therefore, all respectably pious men as Christians, even though their actions might be on the side of social and gov- ernmental wrong and oppression. Still, he was anti- 64 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. slavery in his heart and life, even then—if not con- sistently so in his associations. Cherishing the foregoing view of internal religion, he naturally thought the " Church," and its instru- mentalities for converting the world, important, and having left the vicinity of the Baptists, he joined himself to the Methodists. On aecount of his The- ology, they likewise hesitated about receiving him into full fellowship—probably from fear of the Rul- ers—but accepted him as a probationer, or member of the " Class." " In this position," says his wife, " he stood, I think, several years. At length a Preacher, more thorough in discipline, came into the charge of that circuit, who endeavored, as he ex- pressed it, to ' straighten things out.' In the process of straightening, my husband was cut off, but soon had the offer made him to return ; but, considering the matter of a connexion with any Sect less impor- tant than he had formerly done, he declined." His wife also says: " In these days, he was fond of argument, and was often much in controversy with Clergymen and others." And I have frequent- ly heard him relate his theological rencounters, and express the satisfaction they generally gave him— the principal question of debate being Universal MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 65 Restoration vs. Eternal Punishment. As is usually i the case with the pioneers in a new movement, who are constantly driven to defend themselves against many attacks, he was well armed for "battle, and thoroughly furnished with all the necessary means for carrying on such a war of mind. Ho was spe- cially well versed in the Scriptures of the Old and New Testaments, in the inspiration of which he firm- ly believed, and which he made his constant study. And he was ingenious also in his arguments—quick to see an opponent's point and to turn it to his own advantage, and quick in the application of his own points, at the right moment—witty withal. I can easily believe, therefore, knowing thus much of this peculiarity of bis mind, that, though he stood almost alone in his neighborhood, as to his Theology, he must have been generally recognized as standing there, a strong man well armed; and an efficient defender of his faith, against whatever attacks might be made upon it, whether from pew or pulpit. And that such was his position, I have also learned to be the fact from reliable sources. But there was no narrowness, no bitterness, in Dr. Wilmarth's controversies. He recognized the right of others to differ from him—as clearly as he recog- E 66 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. nized his own right to differ from them. He was naturally thus inclined ; and his peculiar religious faith, it being an influential and practical faith with him, taught him to b,e tolerant, liberal, charitable, toward all. It must, however, injustice, be confess- ed, that he was rather more inclined to be lenient toward old religious errors than toward new ones. He shrunk from " Rationalism" more than from " Orthodoxy," thinking the latter had more Gospel in it—on the devotional and experimental side of it, at least—and that this Gospel element sanctified it, to a great extent. Though he was unyieldingly intent —as an orthodox clergyman* writes to me—" upon eschewing vagaries, however solemn, and upon being governed only by the dictates of common sense ;" he was, nevertheless, very much of a Supernatural- ist, in religious matters, and distrusted all systems not based upon the Bible, as a miraculous revela- tion. And I think he was somewhat tinctured with prejudice against some forms of liberalism in relig- ion ; for he was not, of course, a perfect man—as who is? But it was " vital piety" and "practical Christianity," that he desired to possess himself, and *Rev. C. B. Campbell—one of his patients at New Graefenberg and at Westboro'. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 67 to see others possessing ; and wherever he saw these, he freely and fully fellowshiped them, whatever might be the creed that they stood connected with. It was emphatically true of him, that: " To sect or party his large soul Disdained to be confined ; The good he loved, of every name, And prayed for all mankind." His wife says : " We have lived in several differ- ent places, and his acquaintances have been extensive ; and although his religious opinions have generally differed materially from those of the community around us, I do not recollect an instance in which they did not cheerfully accord to him the name of Christian." He was a devout man, and loved to give express- ion to his religious feelings in prayer, singing, and other similar exercises; loved to join with any sin- cere, honest, and earnest fellow Christians in doing so. He, therefore, found himself in such agreement in this particular, with the various classes of profess- ed Christians that prevailed in the orthodox region in which he spent the most of his professional days, that in discussing their points of difference, they would quite naturally be mutually lenient and re- e* 68 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. spectful. The principal topic which they would dis- cuss, would always be, most likely, the final destiny of mankind—whether all would. at last be restored or not ?—and the allowances which his magnanimous and generous nature would make for his opponents, on the ground of long prevailing darkness and error, and his cheerful hope and confidence, that all must come round on to his side at last, would influence him to such a bearing toward them, that they could not, with any grace, be offended with him. lean now look back and almost see him separate from them, in the most unbounded good humor, and with one of those genial, kind, hearty laughs, which hia friend and partner, Dr. Rice, says, " it did one good to hear." How sad to think that we are to hear one of them, in our hopeful Dale, no more forever! 0, the reckless haste that has bereaved us ! It ifl hard to be tolerant towards anything so terribly de- structive in its results, and so inexcusable—yet must we submit, with what of Philosopliy and Religion we can command. Had Dr. Wilmarth resided in Leverett or vicinity, at a later day—after the great Anti-Slavery question began thoroughly to agitate the whole country—as thoroughly as now ; his discussion with tho profefr- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 69 f sors of religion might not have been so amicable as they were. The Church can better bear to have the torch light of reason and benevolence applied to its Theology, however offensive that may be, than it can the Ithuriel spear of truth to its position- and practices in regard to the "Peculiar Institution" of the Republic. Whoso does this latter, withdrawing fellowship from it also, on account of its pro-slavery character, will be likely to become a prey, however sincere his purpose, and excellent his character. And to such a stand was Dr. Wilmarth gradually advanc- ing when he first took up his residence at Hopedale. We have already seen that one of his reasons for declining the offer of the Methodists to receive him into their communion, after having cut him off from the " Class"—in which he was sometimes a " lead- er"—was, that he considered " connection with any Sect much less important than formerly." After this, the inclination to stand aloof from personal union with the Sects grew into a purpose to do so ; the purpose finally growing into great strength, and making him, in theory and in practice, a disfellow- shiper of all pro-slavery churches, however " devout and spiritually minded" they might be. Still he remained tolerant towards the Church, even to the 70 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH.' end of his life—some of us thought, a little too toler- ant. The "piety" in it continued to weigh mucli with him, as did also the "forms" into which that piety was put; and so active and strong were his religious feelings, and so urgent for expression, that wherever he found a " conference meeting," in which men and women appeared sincere, honest, and earnest in the .services peculiar to such a meeting, there he found pleasure and profit; and he was pre- vented from full fellowship and union with the more radical class of reformers, because he thought they too much neglected this devotional religion and the common manifestations of it. He was not, indeed, one of your Christians of mere feeling; and much religious excitement he always opposed. He understood perfectly the differ- ence between passion and principle ; having rational and philosophical, as well as true Christian views, respecting the whole subject. It was as important means and aids to a good and useful life, that he valued social religious meetings, and the ordinary services of, them ; and from a sense of duty that he observed them, and urged their observance upon others. He often spoke against being under the guidanoe of the " feelings," so strongly, that some, MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 71 not knowing him, would be inclined to think he was rather an opposer, than otherwise, of all internal re- ligion. But where he saw what seemed to him heart- religion manifested, whether in private or in public; and saw, also, in harmony with it, a " well ordered life and godly conversation ;'' he was disposed to be very charitable, even if the highest stand was not taken in reference to slavery and its kindred abominations. He would excuse them upon the ground of the long rei < undeniable, that he was recognized as a Christian by all parties. Mr. Field writes to me, on this point, as follows : " The diffeijent religious Sects in this vicinity have been obliged to respect Dr. AVilmarth, not only as a man, but as a Christian ; though some of them, I think, would have gladly found some fault in him, on ac- count of his peculiar theological views." And Dr. Rice—himself an orthodox church member—says : " If I ever was convinced of a person's Christianity by his conduct toward his fellow-men, I was convinc- ed of Dr. Wilmarth's." But that Dr. Wilmarth did not, after all, hold the popular religion in high estimation, notwithstanding his charity towards it, and that his faith in it was diminishing, will appear from the following extract MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 73 from one of his letters to Mr. Field. He says, under date of April 1st, 1850: * * "lam heartily sick, as well as you, of this unmeaning cant in religion, wherever it ex- ists. If there is a God, or Good, a Savior, a Gospel, a Holy Spirit, a Divine Revelation, there is some meaning, some design, in them ; and some object to be secured by them, besides slavery and war, covet- ousness and idolatry, pride and pleasure. This will be acknowledged by all the religionists of the present day; but what is the practice of the mass ? Are they doing anything to put away the great social evils that afflict Humanity, and to establish the king- dom of righteousness and peace on earth? 11 uw much have the churches .of L-----done ?—the Or- thodox and Baptist churches, or the Unitarian and Universalist societies ? How much has the Perfec- tionist Minister done ? I will not judge. Many of these religionists have a ' zeal for God ;'—sanctity enough, observance of times and days enough ; and they are well enough disposed and good neighbors enough, (in many cases,)—especially to friends: good citizens enough—ah ! there is the great diffi- culty, they are too good citizens. [Meaning too good supporters of an unchristian government.] And whilst they remain so, they must of necessity support the present order of pride, covetousness, mamnioiv ism, oppression and violence. O, that those old, kind-hearted, friends of mine, could see the position 74 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. they are in, and love to be in—continually counter- acting the government and kingdom of God on earth ! Then they would immediately change their positions and relations in reference to the giant sins of our land—so it seems to me. But they are blind- ed by education." MEMOIR OF DR. WrILMARTH. 75 CHAPTER IV. His religion, a practical one—His abolitionism, religious— His interest in the " Practical Christian" movement of Adin Ballou and his associates—Visits Millville at the Ordination of Wm. H. Fish—His impressions of the meeting—His lamentation over the " Restorationist" cause—Xon-Resistance—His connection with "Fraternal Community'' —Letters. Dr. Wilmarth's Restorationism was not a mere Theology—a " Body of Divinity," without a Soul— which he had only received into his intellect as a reasonable system; but it was a Religion of the heart and life, quite as much as of the understanding. Its very essence was the love of God, as the Supreme and Universal Love—the equal Friend and Fatlier of all—and the love of mankind, as having one common origin, interest, and final destiny. '' The Father work- cth hitherto," said Jesus—worketh in the great work of Universal Reconciliation—" and I work"— work to the same end, and because " the Father" worketh. Such also was the point of moral vision which Dr. AYilmarth occupied—such his practice 76 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. and his impulse and motive. He did not think that God was to be " worshiped with men's hands, as though he needed any thing;" nor that He should be merely adored and praised, as the All-Good ; but imitated. He believed, and he felt what he believed, that as God. is good unto all—and unchangeably so, pitying even the most erring and sinful, desiring their recovery, and ever seeking to overcome then evil with good, and to render them holy and happy, so should it be with man—with the professed Chris- tian especially. His views of God and of his Gov- ernment, and benevolent purposes concerning the whole human race, prepared him, therefore, for tire adoption of every legitimate doctrine or principle evolved from those views, however new and astound- ing, and for the espousal of every reform, however radical and unpopular, which promised, in his judg- ment, good to mankind, or to any particular class of mankind. Though he believed in universal unity and happiness as the ultimate of God's will and work, he had no idea that this would be brought about solely by a divine and miraculous agency, either this side of the grave, or the other; but by the cooperation of man—perhaps of angels and spirits—with Christ and God. He did not think MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 77 that any sinner could reasonably hope to be saved by the " grace of God," or by death, or by mere resurrection from the grave, or by all of these com- bined, unless he himself was also penitenf, and de- sired and sought forgiveness and heaven. Accord- ing to his view, the only way that any one can be saved, either in time or in eternity, is voluntarily to return to his Father, after the example of "the prodigal son," in the inimitable parable given to the world by its Savior. And as he believed thus of individual salvation, so he believed of social saha- tion. He did not believe in literally waiting till "the day of God's power," for either the one or the other; but in going at once, and prayerfully, earnestly at work to secure them both. Hence he was an Abolitionist. Of this, how ever, I have spoken in another place. But I may here appropriately observe, that though his natural humanity and benevolence made him hostile to slave- ry, and an advocate of emancipation; his religious Faith confirmed and strengthened him in the posi- tion. He had too much conscience and good sense, and too much regard for consistency, to advocate the Universal Paternity of God, the Universal Brother- hood of Mankind, and Universal Restoration, to aid 78 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. in withholding the essential rights of the Common • Family, from, any fragment of it, however weak, unfortunate, and even inferior, that fragment might be. Had he been pro-slavery to any extent, he would have stood in perpetual self-condemnation before his Christian Ideal and before his profession. Hence his anti-slavery, to a great extent, was relig- ious anti-slavery. In sympathizing with the oppress- ed, he felt that he was rendering obedience to the precepts: "Weep with them that weep" : "Re- member them that are in bonds as bound with them." The Gospel of Christ was to him a Gospel that requires slaveholders and their abettors to " let the oppressed go free," and that " they break every yoke." But he did not stop at Abolitionism, in reform. When, in 1839, the " Standard of Practical Chris- tianity," the substance of which is now the moral and religious basis of The Hopedale Community, was first made known to the world, through the " Independent Messenger," he at once took it into serious consideration, and soon after, fully accepted it as a faithful and important reassertion of Primitive Christianity. Of this Standard, Non-Resistance, the doctrine of overcoming Evil with Good, was tlie MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 79 central Idea and animating spirit; and the period of its adoption and publication, became a memorable one to all its friends1—especially to those who first signed it. It was the nucleus of a new religious " Communion," which gradually drew around itself, from various quarters, a few kindred and congenial spirits, who were longing for a new and more prac- tical exhibition of Christianity. This Communion held "Quarterly Conferences," generally in the Towns in which the ministers belonging to it lived, but mostly at Mendon and Millville, Br. Aclin Ballou's and my own locations. These, Dr. Wil- marth was much interested about, though he was at so great a distance from them, and his professional duties were such, that he could not often personally attend them. But to go back a brief period : A short time pre- vious to this new movement of ours, he had visited Millville, where I was then preaching, to attend a meeting of the Massachusetts Association of Resto- rationists, at which meeting I was ordained as a Minister of the Gospel; and soon after his return home, he wrote Br. Ballou the following letter, from which it will be learned that he had become greatly dissatisfied with the then existing order of things 80 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. among us, and was intensely longing for some new and higher manifestations of Christianity. I would say, however, before giving the letter, that at this meeting of our Association, a discussion sprung up between the conservative and tlie reform branches of it, which made the season one of con- siderable excitement, and that indicated, very clear- ly, the near approach of the end of the Organization. It was, therefore, in some respects, an unpleasant, and yet, on the whole, a profitable and an effective { meeting. But here are Dr. Wilmarth's impressions —his impressions of the first general meeting he had ever attended among us, and which was also the first personal interview he had ever had with any of our number, as it was likewise the first time I had ever seen him—though I was so much occupied that I was able to form but a very slight acquaintance with him: S" Leverett, Dec. 8, 1830. '•Respected Brother: , " Little did I think, after having formed so agree- able and interesting an acquaintance with you and your family, that so long a time would elapse before I should communicate some of my thoughts and feelings to you. But our days are swifter than a ] weaver's shuttle; and while we are busy here and MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 81 there, we are rapidly hastening down the stream of time, with scarcely opportunity to compliment our friends, and say, farewell. I have often thought of the visit I made to Mendon, the Conference at Mill- ville, &c. I have desired an opportunity to converse with you on the subjects presented at that time, and on men and things in general. I was somewhat disappointed in some manifestations ; for I had hoped better things than I saw. " But to come down to the present time : Where is our Organ*—the once struggling, yet true and faithful ' Messenger,'' edited by Adin Ballou and E. M. Stone ? Alas ! ' fallen from grace.' Am I too severe and uncharitable ? Is the fault in me ? If so, pray correct me. " True, I am an acknowledged agent; but I can- not in conscience recommend such a paper amidst the tide of opposition, prejudice and misrepresenta- tion of our views around me. I am ashamed to stand up and say, ' Here, is my religious Journal; examine it candidly; see if we do not advocate pure and undefiled religion.' It gives me pain to have occasion to make these remarks ; but where are the solemn and interesting sermons, the beautiful ex- tracts, the learned and candid discussions, the good *This was '< The Independent Messenger," first pub- lished and edited, at Mendon, by Br. Adin Ballou, and afterwards removed to Boston, where it fell into quite different hands and became emphatically of this world. V 82 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. articles on abolition, temperance, &c, which we once saw in it? Going, gone, (almost.) True, a gleam of hope revived in my breast at the ' Decla- ration of Sentiments,' published in it lately ; and it touched a kindred chord. I hoped for more ; but hope has been deferred. " I now hear occasionally from you, dear brother, through the columns of the Liberator, which, by the way, is the most straight-forward, independent, un- shackled and liberal paper, with which I am ac- quainted. Your remarks at the annual meeting of the Non-Resistance Society have touched a kindred chord in my heart. Such sentiments must overcomo all opposition. They are the truth and must prevail. I sincerely thank, you for the light shed on my mind on this subject. I have long found the elements of Non-llcsistance in my heart, and have advocated it in my feeble and unlearned manner. But I was unable to meet all the objections, in an intelligent and truly philosophical and Christian way. I now feel better qualified. "0, when will Christians learn to let the light of tho Gospel of Peace shine forth in such a way as to lead others to glorify their Father in Heaven ? How can a Christian fight, oppress, or go to law ? I almost say it is impossible ; but I must be charitable. Yet this much I will dare to say: the popular Standard of religion is exceedingly low, so low it is scarcely seen above the crowd of worldly minded, vain, d&- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 83 generate men. Notwithstanding all the benevolent enterprises of the day, how very little of the spirit of Christ is manifested by his professed followers! How little obedience to that first and great command- ment and the one like unto it, in which the Law and the Prophets are all summed up ! We have relig- ious machinery enough; enough of outward observ- ances, perhaps; but where is the spirit of Chris- tianity ? When will it be seen that the kingdom of Christ is ' not of this world,' and that if we are friends to the world [its wickedness] we are the ene- mies of God ? May God have mercy on the world, and ' deliver it from this bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the sons of God.' Thanks to his name for the gift of his Son to redeem us, and purify us from all iniquity. '' Yours fraternally, "B. Wilmarth. "Adin Ballou." The views and feelings which Dr. Wilmarth ex- pressed in the foregoing letter, in reference to the prevalence of the spirit of conservatism and worldli- ness in the Association ; and that was weekly exhib- iting itself through the columns of The Independent Messenger, (which was then edited by a new man who had come among us, but was not of us,) were the general views and feelings of all those of our members, who were engaged in the various reforms F* 84 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. of the time, and beginning to think seriously of So- cialism. It was these very views and feelings that influenced them to take their new position before the world, and finally to unite together for the establish- ment of a Fraternal Community. Hence, as we were thus alike in our dissatisfaction with things as they were, and in 'our desires and aspirations for a more Christian social state, when we took the first step toward the realization of our Ideal, Dr. Wil- marth very naturally sympathized with us, and bid us " God speed" in our efforts. When Brs. Adin Ballou, David R. Lamson, Daniel S. Whitney, Geo. W. Stacy, and myself, started " The Practical Christian," in 1840, he took a most hearty and ac- tive interest in it, and aided in its circulation to the extent of his ability. He said in a letter to Br. Bal- lou : "As to the contemplated ' Practical Chris- tian,' I wish I was able to take a hundred copies, and scatter them broadcast over this moral wilder- ness. But I am poor in this world, and always shall be. My principles forbid my taking the usual course of this crooked and perverse generation to acquire the treasures of earth; I know how it is done ; but if I cannot have the treasures of earth and heaven too, by all means may I have the durable MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 85 riches. I presume I can get a few subscribers, and I will venture to become responsible for six copies ; and will get as many more as I can, provided the work is issued." The general awakening among us in behalf of Piety and Philanthropy, of which " The Practical Christian" was the public Herald and Representative, constituted in his life, as in ours, a new era; and he began earnestly and zealously to agitate the matter in the general region through which he was so con- stantly, as a popular Physician, circulating. Be- sides, his excellent wife, he found one only who understanding^ and fully sympathized and acted with him, and that was his long-tried and highly valu- ed friend, Br. Phineas Field. These things gradually prepared him for the Community Movement, which was then silently maturing among us, and particu- larly in Br. Ballou's study, and which was so soon to be commended to the Public, both in a theoretical and a practical form. Consequently, when the sub- ject was first opened in " The Practical Christian" by an editorial article from the pen of Br. Ballou, de- signed principally as a feeler of the common pulse, more particularly among reformers and our special friends, the Dr. was ready to hail it as an auspicious 86 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. sign of the introduction of a Christian and harmoni- ous order of society. He, therefore, wrote to Br. Ballou, under date of Jan. 4th, 1841, as follows: " I was very glad to see the subject of ' Commu- nities' opened for discussion in the P. C. I have long desired to see some plan devised and adopted, whereby Christians ' of like precious faith,' might enjoy their ' portion under the sun,' free from the hindrances to spiritual, and even temporal happiness and improvement, so common iu an isolated state, and where the temptations to avarice and covetous- ness might be measurably or wholly removed, and also the disabilities consequent on being associated with ' wicked and unreasonable men.' Often have questions like these revolved in my mind : Must I live and die amidst oppression, proscription, dishon- esty and mental slavery ? Must my religious views be bounded by creeds and confessions originated in the dark ages ? Must I be denied the right to think, to reason and speak, or be branded a heretic or fa- natic ? Or in temporal things, must I keep an everlasting vigilance, lest I be defrauded of my rights, and the avails of honest industry ? This state of things is insupportable to the free mind. But what is the remedy for all these difficulties? Shall I abandon all intercourse with my fellow men, and become a hermit of the wilderness ? or retire to some dungeon of a convent? No: this is not in conformity to the physical, intellectual and. moral MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 87 constitution of man. He is a social being and needs the assistance and sympathy of his fellows. I am for the highest perfection man's nature is capable of; and I know he can never enjoy his portion or place, which his Maker designed for him, but in conformity to the physical, organic and moral laws of the uni- verse. The Bible and Science, I believe, are the best and only directories- to the attainment of the knowledge necessary to perfect happiness. I find that the plan of ' Communities' was adopted by the primitive Christians, as one means of happiness and improvement. I know it is objected that this was a particular case for the time being, &c. I will not stop to answer the objection, which can easily be done. Suffice it to say, the objection is made by those who believe Christians may and ought to take part in supporting the Government and other op- pressive and vindictive institutions of this world ; whereas my faith is, that our ' kingdom is not of this world,' therefore we should not fight. " On seeing your ' rough sketch,' as you please to call it, I immediately wrote a few remarks on the different questions and articles, because I had faith in such • small things ;' but deferred sending them, expecting that the subject would be discussed by abler pens than mine. And now it appears the plan has matured rather more silently than I expected, and I shall therefore omit remarking upon it much, till I see the Constitution, &c, I will just say, I 88 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. t approved of most of the 'sketch.' Question 3d I thought objectionable on the ground of opening a door to the temptation of striving to be greatest, and to have the best locations, tV.c. The common stock principle I look upon as a sovereign cure for cove- tousness. I also object to the transfer of shares, lest it open a door to speculation, (let all secular busi- ness be transacted by a good economical committee,) and the setting off for exclusive possession; but should any wish to leave the Community, let them have the value of their property in money and de- part in peace. I have no more fault to find at present, and would give my reasons more fully for this, had I room and time. " I am for all the individuality that is practicable —liberty of conscience, the sacred institution of marriage, distinct families, &c. ; but cannot under- stand how a ' Community' can enjoy individuality as it respects property. I think they are incompatible ; and some individual rights must be relinquished in order to enjoy the greater blessings." The inquiring and suggestive article in The Prac- tical Christian, referred to in the foregoing letter, elicited even more attention and called out more friends than was anticipated. At the same time, Rev. George Ripley, of Boston, and his associates, afterwards of " Brook Farm" Community, were seriously considering the same general question, and MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 89 had resolved upon carrying their views into practical operation. On learning, therefore, that some of us were moving in the matter, meeting us at a Non- Resistance Convention in Boston, they suggested that we have a mutual consultation of the two parties in reference to it; which we accordingly did, at Mr. Ripley's house. And there was such a unanimity of general feeling, principle and purpose then and there manifested, that the first purpose was, that we should combine together, and start a Community somewhere in New England, with a Practical Chris- tian Test of membership. Mr. Ripley himself, par- ticularly, inclined to this ; but some of his associates, thinking that such a Test would make the enterprise too narrow and exclusive, it was finally decided that each class would do better to stand by itself, and select different locations on which to experiment with their different views and plans. Hopedale and Brook Farm, soon, therefore, sprung into existence —the former continuing to this day, and the latter having been abandoned for these five or more years; though some of the members are still among the most zealous advocates of Association: Mr. Ripley, I believe is, though not at present engaged in any practical movement of the kind. Rev. Wm. H. 90 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. Channing, a leading spirit among them, and one of the purest, most loving and excellent men of the Aoe, has ever since been earnest and enthusiastic in the cause, and is now, I understand, making ar- rangements to become a resident member of the " Raritan Bay Union," in New Jersey—a new Com- munity which has lately been started on what is said to be a very beautiful site, and with fair prospects of success. But this en passant. As soon as it was decided to make a beginning at Hopedale, Br. Ballou applied to Br. Wilmarth, by letter, to know "what he thought of the object, and what he was ready to do for it" ? and his reply was : " I like the object, and I will endeavor to seek di- vine direction, and to follow where Providence opens the way, and do what I can. But I must write again, to tell you of my situation, difficulties, &e, unless, indeed, the way should open for me to visit you in " Conference," or some time soon, which I hope may be my privilege, and then I will fully dis- close my mind. May the Lord prosper the under- taking, (if consistent with His will,) and happy should I be, I now think, if I could be one of your number." The following letter appears to be the one promised MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 91 in the foregoing extract, and states some of the " difficulties" of his situation : " Leverett, May 8, 1841. " Dear Rrother : "I have many things to say to you, but cannot, with pen and paper, communicate a hundredth part. I wish, however, to ask a few questions. How pros- pers the contemplated Community ? What class or classes of men or women have joined ? Are they, as a body, virtuous, pious and intelligent? Are they professional or ordinary laborers ? How much money is now subscribed? &c. I purposed to have attended the last Conference, with a good Christian friend and brother, Phineas Field. But when the time came, I had two patients very sick and unwilling I should leave them. But we both feel a deep interest in the progress of the contem- plated new Social State. We eannot bear to drag out a weary life—though short at most—in the pres- ent disordered state of things. The longer I live, the more I see of ' wrong and outrage,' hypocrisy and false-heartedness. Why, it is not expected that man will ' speak every one the truth to his neighbor,' and look on another's things and property, as well as his own ! Is there no help, no remedy ? I do not complain of my fellow men in this section, as being sinners above all others. Far otherwise. I am pleasantly situated, comparatively. Neighbors are kind, respectful; all I wish, and more than I deserve. 92 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. But the prevailing public sentiment on many vital points, and the general current is in a wrong direc- j tion; very wrong—or else the Bible is no guide, and I have lost my reason. " But what can I do ? I am poor inthts world's goods ; my secular affairs are in a bad shape for me to move, at present. I am owing several hundred dollars, but have several hundred due ; enough, per- haps, to balance and leave me the small farm on which I live, worth about $1,000. I have labored much in my profession for twelve years past; lived and moved in very plain, and what the world calls, ' unfashionable' style. Yet still I am poor, and I could tell the reason, were it worth while. I now have an aged father and mother-in-law living with me, and am so harnessed up I know not what to do. I have been on the point, at times, of going with the current, adopting the customs of the world, and sail- ing down the stream of life in luxury and ease. But a voice from the Word and Spirit of God has hitherto sustained and kept me back from such presumptuous sins. Thanks to that blessed influence, and not to me. " You ask me, or would like to know, what are my views of the ' Community,' and whether I feel disposed to do something to forward the undertak- ing? I answer : I like the plan and Constitution, so far as I understand them. But how to make them practicable to me, I find not at present. Would it MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 93 were otherwise. I wish, however, to know where it is expected to be located, and whether the money for shares must be advanced now ; also, whether I can enjoy any privilege, or confer any aid, by money or otherwise, and remain where I am ? I know already the advantages must be small, if any, unless we live in a compact neighborhood. Please write and tell me all you can. Br. Field is very anxious to hear and know more about it, also. '' I should be glad to say something about our Pa- per, (the P. C.) I admire it—ay, more; I love the doctrines it advocates, and the brethren who contribute to its columns. I have sent it round to many friends ; but have urged none to take it. All say they like it; yet I have not so many subscribers as I thought it probable I should have by this time. I think I know the reason—it is too pure for these corrupt times. May the blessing of God attend your labors, and the labors of all who are contending for the Faith. " Farewell, " Butler Wilmarth. "Adin Ballou." Near the close of the year 1841, Dr. Wilmarth attended one of our Quarterly Conferences at Men- don, of which he wrote on his return, in a letter to Br. Ballou : "The Conference I was well pleased with, and was much profited, as was also Br. Field ; 94 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. and, if by watchful care, self-denial and persever- ance, we can maintain the spirit and practice mani- fested on that occasion, we shall be ' that happy peo- ple whose God is the Lord.' Our visit to Mendon has caused considerable excitement, and all sorts of remarks, from solemn warnings to low ridicule ; ' but none of these things move me.' I am resolv- ed, by the grace of God, to lend my influence to help build up a better religious and social Fabric in the world, than any hitherto known to me. I have la- bored single-handed for many years, and the most that I can say I have effected is to maintain my integrity and live. Thanks to the power and preserv- ing grace of God, that I have not been carried down the current to destruction ! Now I hope to see a company of one heart and one mind, ' kindly affec- tioned one toward another; diligent in business, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord.' " 0, Divine Goodness! how unbounded, how universal thou art! ever reaching to the unthankful and evil. How little do we appreciate the benevo- lence of our heavenly Father ! I am astonished at myself, that I have lived so long, without knowing more and being better. But I have been carried along with the flood, though often very unwillingly, memoir of dr. wilmarth. 95 and sometimes feebly resisting the current; and then the waves would foam and rage, and nearly over- whelm my soul. I cannot ' live at this poor dying rate' any longer, and I pant for living streams and hunger for substantial food. How long will it be ere the Gospel will have free course and be glorified ? Now, Monarchs, Warriors, Statesmen, Players, have the praise and honor due to the Lord ! Yet, (bless the Lord, my soul,) He has not left himself without witnesses; for here and there there, is an humble soul, who has courage tD mount upward and pursue its way to God ; and I hope to see the number in- crease, like the stars for multitude. May we of the contemplated ' Fraternal Community,' raise the Standard and rally around it !" The following letter was written only a week or two before a few members of the Cbmmunity took possession of their location in Milford, and commenc- ed operations: " Leverett, March 21, 1842. Dear Brother: I am weary with the labors of the day, and it is now past 10 o'clock at night; still, I feel anxious to write you a few lines, since I cannot consistently yisit you. I have been much hurried in practice ever since I came from Mendon. There have been 96 memoir of dr. wilmarth. some severe cases of lung fever, croup, measles, &c, in town, and I am frequently called to Shutesbury, Wendell, Montague, and Amherst; and although.I gave out word that when I returned from Mendon, I should not practice for a season, few or none paid any regard to it. And so it goes, and will go, till I ' go hence to be here no more ;' unless I change my place, or adopt some new method to lighten my la- bors. I like labor ; but drudgery, night and day, and opposition at every turn, I am tired of. There is so much to be done, and there are so few disposed to aid in the alleviation of human misery, that it disheartens me ; and I am frequently led, while pass- ing the resting places of the dead, weary and care- worn, to adopt the language of the wise man, and ' praise the dead who are already dead, more than the living who are yet alive;' and were it not for the hope of better things, in both this and the com- ing world, I should strongly desire to depart from this world' of sin, misery and woe. But I have hope, I have faith, that ' grace will abound' as far as sin has abounded. Earth has no wounds so deep and dangerous that Heaven cannot heal. 0, no: ' there is balm in Gilead and a Physician there- Society must be reorganized. " Man must be brought to love his fellow-man. The principles of purity, peace and love can cure our deepest woes. There is no need of strife and war, oppression and covetousness. They are utterly memoir of dr. wilmarth. 97 forbidden by Him who seeks our highest good. 0, what a wretch and fool is man ! destroying his own and his neighbors' peace, ' kicking against the pricks.' The more I contemplate the present state of Society and the world, the more I see the folly, ingratitude and wickedness of man, and the need of a deep and radical reform. This skimming the surface is of no avail. Little or nothing but froth is gained by all the labor and machinery e the case, I may become wholly converted to Hy- dropathy—at present I do not acknowledge myself but about five-eighths converted. As to my obser- vation of its effects on others in this establishment, I have witnessed some excellent ones in several oases. In two cases of Erysipelas and one of sub- acute inflammation of the lungs, the effects were strikingly beneficial. There is something very com- fortable in the reflection that henceforth the craving thirst may be allayed, and the fever-heated skin be cooled with the clear and life-reviving element, with- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 125 out the fear of harm, if judiciously applied. Some few have long known this fact; but many have fear- ed, who may now take courage—the experiment has been well tried. " I came here with a hope to be benefited, and with a determination to examine carefully and report honestly. And the result of my short and imperfect investigations, thus far, when summed up into opin- ions and articles of faith, si as follows : "1. The discoveries of Vincent Priessnitz, in the various modes of applying water for the- removal of disease are of immense importance, and will prove a lasting blessing to mankind. " 2. The opposition manifested to the ^jWater- Cure' by the Medical faculty and their adherents, will prove wholly unavailing, since there is truth in it that will demonstrate itself by washing away from the ' Materia Medica' of the future a herculean host of deleterious mineral and earthy substances, that have already filled up their measure of evil to the human race. "3. That the more zealous advocates of Hydrop- athy claim far too much for this ' new remedy,' and if not timely aware, will venture beyond their depth to the great discredit of their system and danger to their patients, inasmuch as man is manifestly not an aquatic animal, and had therefore better conform to his nature and station -than attempt to go beyond their appointed limits. 126 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. "4. That a long list of diseases need no other remedial agent than water, combined with proper diet and regimen, is capable of ocular demonstra- tion, as well as that some are seriously injured by any attempt at drug medication. " 5. Another class of diseases may be cured by water, but would be abbreviated by well-known sim- ple medicines. " 6. The medical power of nature is the great restorer of health ; and all that physicians, water or medicine can do, is to place the patient in the most favorable condition for this grand agent to exert itself to the best advantage. " 7.^.bout five-eighths of all remedial measurea consist in removing the causes of disease, correcting and regulating habits, proper diet, pure air, mental repose, exercise and rest, cheerful company and pleasant scenery. The remaining three-eighths may be made up with water or medicine, as the case re- quires. " 8. Hydropathic institutions, under good moral and physical regulations, are, above all other situa- tions at the present day, the best resort for the sick, whether laboring under acute or chronic diseases. " 9. As all things are ultimately to find their level, so water and medicine will, of course ; and by a friendly and harmonious union of the one with the gentler kinds of the other, exert their combined energies to place the afflicted sons and daughters of MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 127 Adam in the most favorable condition to ' be healed.' All hail the day ! " B. Wilmarth." The following letter to me, from Mr. Cambell, confirms the gpneral impression which I have endeav- ored to give of Dr. Wilmarth, both as a Physician and a Christian man : "New Lebanon Springs, July 20, 1853. " Mr. Fish : Dear Sir :—As soon as the appalling news reach- ed me that Dr. AYilmarth was among the victims of the awful catastrophe at Norwalk, Ct., I felt an inclination to re-peruse several of his letters, which I had on file, and which go to illustrate the peculiar- ities of his character. These letters I forward to you, agreeably to your public icy;:.j in the ' Prac- tical Christian.' " My first acquaintance with Dr. Wilmarth, was in the Spring of 1847, as a patient in the Water- Cure Establishment here, then under the medical charge of N. Bedortha, M. D. At first, he did not make himself known as a Physician of long practice and much experience ; but his amiable qualities and truly Christian sentiments were very soon " known and read" of all the ether patients and inmates of the Establishment. On leaving the Water-Cure, the following was found written in the public Register, whAh serves to illustrate his views and feelings; 128 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. and I can testify that they were universally recipro- cated : " 'June 15, 1847. Left this excellent Institution somewhat improved in health and spirits, and on terms of cordial friendship, with the Physician, Pro- prietors, and their respective families, nurses and attendants, the guests and all that pertain to the house ; with additional light on Physiology, Pathol- ogy and Therapeutics ; and with increasing faith" in the Water-Cure, as well as a sincere wish for the ► best of blessings, to rest upon this Institution and all that now pertain thereunto, or that may hereafter resort here to regain their health; believing that no other Establishment of the kind in the country af- fords superior, if, indeed, equal advantages. " 'B. Wilmarth, M. D.' " In the Spring of 1852, Dr. Wilmarth became the Physician of the Establishment, and left it at the closing of the season, having formed the plan of establishing a Water-Cure of his own, in company with Dr. Hero, at Westboro', Mass. I wish to add, that while Physician here, he was as much loved and respected in the capacity of Physician as when Pa- tient in the same institution. He was also loved and respected in the community ; was chosen as Super- intendent of the Sabbath School, and called into several of the neighboring towns as Physician in some very critical cases. The new£ of his sad death MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 129 at Norwalk fell upon this community with appalling effect. " Yours in the best of bonds, "David Cambell." Having remained at New Lebanon about two months, Dr. Wilmarth returned to Hopedale, consid- erably improved in health, and so much of a convert to Hydropathy, that he henceforth stood before the world in the position of a Water-Cure Physician— not heartily fellowshiped, however, by the Ultraists of any school. He had gone too far in Hydropathy for the regular M. Ds, and not far enough for those in whose system Water was the only remedy for dis- ease—a panacea. True to his own conscience and judgment, and without regard to public opinion, he still remained an Eclectic. He only professed up to the exact point of his belief in the efficacy of Water ; and that belief was of very gradual and slow growth. He even tenaciously adhered to the practice of ad' ministering some medicines—always the more simple ones—to the close of his earthly life; and it is probable that he would have continued to do so, had he remained with us many years more. He, howev*- er, relied more and more, as he advanced in age, upon the recuperative powers of Nature, and was i 130 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. far more inclined to go forward to the '' let alone system" of the celebrated Dr. Jennings, than to go backward to his old system of calomelizing, bleeding, etc. He believed that if we would strictly observe the laws of life and health, in our sickness, surround- ing ourselves with cleanliness, quiet, and fresh air, simple Nature would do far more for us than tho mass of the Drs. are doing for the sick. He believed that the Drs. killed many who would get well without them ; and had the most faith in those who used tho least medicine—more, for this reason, iu Homoeopa- thy than inv Allopathy. He once carried me through a severe and critical course of typhoid fever, and ^ave me of medicine only one dose of oil. Still, he gave too much medicine to the last, to suit some ; and they complained of him for not using water free- ly enough. The following letter to his son, at that time absent from home, and just recovering from a brief sick- ness, will be appropriate here as an expression of hia fear of Allopathic medicines : " New Grofcnoerg, N. T., Aug. 28, 1851. " Dear Son :— " Yours of the 28th was duly received. We were very sorry you have been sick, and very glad you MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 131 have partially recovered. You must be exceedingly careful what you eat for two or three weeks, at least. I suspect you had eaten too much solid food, as well as fruit, on your visiting tour. The attack you ex- perienced was one of Nature's efforts to rid herself of morbid matters. The proper treatment would have been to have taken a warm bath, 100 degs. Fahr., or a wet sheet packing, with hot bricks, or bot- tles of hot water about your body and feet, and cold wet cloths to the head. After equalizing the circu- lation by these means, (and repeating, if necessary,) short sitz baths, 10 or 15 min. each in water 60 or 65 degs. 3 or 4 times a day, with injections of pure cold water at 75 degs. after every discharge, with a wet compress, covered by a dry one over the bowels, small draughts of tepid or cold water, according to the thirst, would have been the proper, rational, and scientific course to have pursued, and to pursue in all such cases, and not one in fifty would die under Buch treatment. The nourishment in all such cases should be very simple and stinted. A teacupfuU of thin, arrow-root, rice-water, toast-water, and suchlike farinaceous articles, three times a day, is abundantly sufficient in the acute stage. You must be careful about diet, or you will be down again in a few weeks. As to Dr.-------'s ' preparation of chalk, and one or two other things,' I must condemn them. I knew them of old ; they used to live in our family. They never were good servants, and always bad masters. i* 132 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. I am sorry he (Dr.-------,) don't know any better. I hope I may have an opportunity to see him and tell him a little of my experience in Dysentery, with the Water-Cure treatment. I think I am justly entitled to an opportunity to give my opinion on Calomel & Co., to the good people of-------, at some future day, which thing I will gladly do, if the Lord will, and they will give me the use of room and lights, and lend me their ears an hour or two on some pleas- ant evening. I rather claim this right as an act of justice, and the best ' amende' they can make for poisoning you with calomel. It is rank poison to you, and you will be fortunate if you escape un- harmed from the effects of that single dose. It was that which weakened you so. You cannot bear physic, and ought not to take any thing more drastio than castor oil, or rhubarb. But in this sickness, you did not need it. If you had taken the Water- Cure course above described, it would have cured you quicker, and left no 'sting behind.' I know very well what Dr.------- and his disciples will gay: ' That the calomel brought away foul matter from the system,' &c. But what else did it do, Dr. ? Did it not determine the circulation to the bowels, which was already too much there ? Did it not irri- tate the delicate lining of the intestinal canal, which was already too much irritated ? Most certainly, both the above consequences followed. Why use it then, when the morbific matters can be sweated out MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 133 and rinsed out by simple, bland, unirritating, and ' most blessed water' ? ' But the calomel excites the glandular system, and restores the secretions.' Ah ! that indeed. It does excite them, and in a most terrific manner, too ! Every glandular organ puts forth its utmost effort to expel and wash the poison out of the system, oftentimes at the expense of the loss of their normal action forever afterwards. This is the way irritating poisons act upon the system, and the system upon them. They are mortal ene- mies. It is of no use to defend ^alomel before me. I have tried him and found him guilty. I have not a doubt but that much of the ill-health of the pres- ent generation is fairly attributable to the use of Calomel and other irritating poisons as medicines. The opium you took was less objectionable, under tlie circumstances, (though under water treatment you would not have needed it,) inasmuch as it tends to allay irritation and determine to the surface. But what a foolish and injurious game to play upon vital structures—to irritate and soothe, determine to the center, and then determine back again ! About as consistent as it would be to freeze yourself for the sake of the pleasure of thawing out again. 0, that men, especially physicians, had some faith in God, and the remedial power he has established in every vital organism ! Ten thousand hands are on the watch to guard the citadel of life, and ready at a moment's warning to work for oppressed nature. 134 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. The vital energies of the organism are these hands ; they should not be manacled nor cut off by violent measures, nor be obliged to expend all their energies in expelling ' a little chalk and one or two other things.' I leave this subject for the present, feeling thankful you are so well as you are, and hoping by carefulness on your part and the Divine blessing you will recover your wonted health, speedily. I think if you are attacked again, with bowel complaint or any other disease, and cannot manage yourself or send for me quick enough, I should recommend yon to employ a Homoeopathic physician. I have much less fear of that treatmeat than of the Allopathic, because it leaves nature free to cure herself, if it does not help her a little. " B. Wilmarth." "P. S. We would send our respects and thanks to the kind friends who assisted you during your sickness. Also, to the Dr., who, I doubt not, thought he was doing you good service. I respect all honest men, though I may condemn some of their practices. I most conscientiously gave Calomel once ; but know better now. B. W." memoir of dr. wilmarth. 135 CHAPTER VI. Commences the practice of Hydropathy at Hopedale— Goes to Lowell for a brief season—Returns and opens a Water-Cure Establishment at Hopedale—Small suc- cess—Moves to New Graefenberg. N. Y.—Lectures on Hydropathy in various places—Moves to New Lebanon —Enters into partnership with Dr. J. H. Hero,v and in union they make a purchase at Westboro'—Leaves New Lebanon and visits Hopedale—Moves to Westboro'— A short sickness—Flattering prospects—Visits Hope- dale—Goes to New York—Is brought home a corpse— Is conveyed to Hopedale—His funeral services and his burial. Soon after returning home from New Lebanon, Dr. W. commenced practicing his profession, ac- cording to his new views, in Hopedale and vicinity; and was frequently called to the neighboring towns, and sometimes to more distant ones. Many patients also called upon him ; and he soon made prepara- tions in his own house for the reception and treat- ment of a few. In the Autumn of '48 he had an invitation to take charge of the Water-Cure Estab- lishment at Lowell, during a brief absence of Dr. 136 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH Foster, who was its permanent Physician. Here h© remained about two months, giving, I believe, much satisfaction to the proprietors and patients. On his return to Hopedale, or soon after, three of these pa- tients followed him ; one of them remaining with him through the winter ; and as he also had two or three others, sometimes more, his house was about full, so that his care of them, together with his out- practice, occupied nearly all bis time, and afforded him a sufficient income for his current expenses. In the following Spring, however, the Community fitted up quite a commodious two-story house for him, respectably furnishing it, and providing it with the necessary facilities for baths, hoping that it might prove to be- a successful experiment, so that wo should have him permanently in our midst. But for various reasons—most of them quite apparent to those acquainted with the facts—he did not receive the patronage which he, and we all, anticipated ; and it was rather a losing enterprise with him. Dr. Wilmarth was not the man to make an ordina- ry location for such an Establishment, attractive to the world. He was too honest, too truthful, and not BTifnciently skilled in the very common art of flour- ishing and pwffing^ to, make invahds, who had money memoir of dr. wilmarth. 137 to spare, think that his Institution was the most fine- ly situated of any in the country, and he himself the most wonderful Physician. His conscience al- ways stood in the way of such fashionable and fanci- ful coloring—not to use a harsher term—and he neve* could decide to turn a deaf ear to that faithful moni- tor within him. He must always state facts without any adorning, even though they were against his interests ; and frequently has he stood resolutely out against those connected with him, who insisted upon his sounding his trumpet louder—as loud, at leastr as his competitors ; and so loud that all interested, who had well-filled purses, might hear. But no— not one point beyond the truth would he go, patients or no patients. At Hopedale he was sustained in this; and I doubt not that it was one of the reasons why he did not receive more patronage. The most that he would say in his Proposal was : " It is proposed to erect a plain and convenient house, with all necessary fixtures for bathing, &c. attached thereto, having strict regard to economy and health, so that the means of enjoying its benefits may be brought within the reach of persons in mod- erate circumstances, as well as of the wealthy, who alone, as yet, have been able to avail themselves of 138 memoir of dr. wilmarth. the Water-Cure a sufficient length of time to effect a recovery. A respectable location presents itself, where a handsome prospect may bo had of surround- ing scenery. * * A more quiet and peaceful retreat can scarcely be found in this, or any, coun- try." Of course a plain notice like this, would fail to astonish the world, and fail, therefore, to attract much serious attention. There was not pretense, not " gas" enough about it, and it did not promise enough of show and excitement, to satisfy the lovers of the marvelous and the wonder-working; and so they looked in other directions where luxury and health could both be found! Thus it is, too, that simplicity and honesty, often have to yield the palm to ostentation and humbuggery. But about six months after Dr. Wilmarth had opened his Establishment at Hopedale, he had an invitation from Dr. Holland, the Proprietor of the New (I rtcfenberg Water-Cure Establishment, to take the position of Physician to that Institution, which invitation he seriously considered, and finally accept ed. But it was with extreme reluctance that he took this step. He had joined the Community, and taken up his residence in it, hoping that it would be MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 130 his permanent home; and he did not entertain a doubt, when he first did so, that such would be the case. It was the order of society toward which he had longingly and prayerfully looked, for many years; and he had entered into it with enthusiasm and joy, confident in the expectation of a sufficient degree of success and prosperity to make him con- tented and happy for the remainder of his days. He did not anticipate, nor demand, the superfluities nor the luxurias of life ; but desired necessary con- veniences and comforts, without excessive toil and care to procure them. He had been hard at work through nearly all his previous years, and had so broken down under his labors, that he felt an abso- lute need of an increase of quiet and rest—especial- ly as the natural infirmities of age admonished him that he could endure, as he had done, but little longer. But the Community had not become large enough, nor wealthy enough, to afford him such a support as his circumstances required ; and not be- ing able to ride extensively and at all seasons, and in all kinds of weather, he found it exceedingly dif- ficult to do anything more than simply to meet his necessary expenses ; whilst he thought he ought, at his time of life, to be annually adding something to 140 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. his little property, as a provision for old age, should he live, or for his family, should he die. He had hitherto been too unmindful of the future—as he himself began to realize—sacrificing his worldly in- terests to his benevolence, which he could no longer prudently do. These were the principal reasons which influenced him to accept the invitation of Dr. Holland, above referred to ; though he also thought, that in such an Institution, with patients enough to afford him a sufficient amount of business, he could be more use- ful than in any other position in life. To be at tho head of some kind of an Infirmary for invalids, was even the dream of his early years ; and he had long looked forward to the realization of it, in his latter days, with much hope. The Community did, in- deed, make him a liberal offer, according to its means, to remain, and carry out his views in this direction, at Hopedale ; but he was exceedingly reluctant for that to become responsible for any loss that might accrue, and he thought that by going away a few years, he might accumulate sufficient means to return and accomplish his object with less assistance, and pretty much at his own risk. Ac- cordingly, in the Spring of 1851, he went to New MEMOIR of dr. wilmarth. 141 Grasfenberg, taking his family with him, and imme- diately entered upon the duties of his new situation. But here also he was destined to something of dis- appointment. The Establishment was not patron- ized as he supposed it would be, and the pecuniary advantage which he found himself deriving from his connexion with it, was quite too small to compensate him for his removal and his time. He, however, at times, had some fifteen or twenty patients to pre- scribe for, and otherwise attend to, and frequently went into the surrounding region—and occasionally a long distance—to deliver lectures upon Hydropathy, which kept him well occupied, and satisfied that he was, at least, not living in vain, but doing some good. In a letter to Dr. Hero, dated New Graefen- berg, July 15, 1851, he says :— " I have been ' fishing' a few times of late. At Oriskany Falls, at Madison Village, at Frankfort, and Leonardsville, I have thrown out my bait in the form of Lectures on Hydropathy, and kindred sub- jects. I am determined the people shall hear of something besides Calomel and Antimony to heal their diseases—that is, if the Lord spares my life and health. It is our true policy, as well as our duty, to enlighten the public mind upon the laws of 142 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. health and disease, and remedial agents in sickness. The Drs. come out to hear me, but don't move their tongues. They know I speak the truth—or, if they don't, I do. I mean to treat them courteously, though I do not mean to treat some of their poisont very courteously. " I have been invited to take a tour of more than a hundred miles, and lecture at the Villages on the w:;.y. I may go when the evenings get a little fongcT and cooler. They want my services ' gratis,' of course ; and that I should not mind, if I could make converts and get patients—such patients as I could Ix'.nojii—otherwise I can ill afford it. We are pick- ing up some—have fifteen pAients now, and expect three more this week. I thin!; the stirring up of tlie waters, now and then, is the way to proceed. First, make a tremendous splashing with a long pole, to attract attention; then be still, and throw out your line and hook, being sure you have it well cov- ered with bait. But you must marioeuver differently for the different species, or you will catch nothing but a bull-pout, when you expected a pickerel. The most troublesome species, however, are the ' shiners,' always nibbling, but having neither throats nor MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 143 mouths large enough to swallow gnats or musqui- toes. " But seriously, as to this managing business, I despise it. If plain, honest, kind words and treat- ment will not suffice to enlighten the mind and direct invalids to the right method of cure, they must die, for all that I can, or will do. I cannot humbug, nor tease, nor palaver, even to obtain a chance to cure a patient;—no ; I must work openly and hon- estly, or not at all. We have some great guns out this way, doing a marvelous business; but their •modus operandi is kept a profound secret from the vulgar crowd ! " When I went to Oriskany and Madisonville, I forgot to take my lecture; so I sat down and wrote a few 'heads of discourse,' and got along so well, that the next night I did not so much as have any notes, but let the matter run free, right from the fountain ; and I never held an audience so still be- fore. The minister and doctor were present; and tlie doctor invited me to come again." But as he did not succeed in proportion to his an- ticipations and hopes at New Grcefenberg, having made satisfactory arrangements with Dr. Holland, he concluded to leave before the year was out for 144 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. which Jje was engaged ; and accordingly did so, after remaining there about eleven months. But another situation of the same kind being offered to him, by his highly-esteemed friend, Mr. David Cambell, of the New Lebanon Springs Water-Cure Establish- ment, he accepted that; and after having taken a month or two for rest and visiting, a part of which time he spent at Hopedale, he proceeded directly to that beautiful place, and entered, with much hope, into the situation that awaited him. But his ambi- tion, and his settled purpose, was, to have an Estab- lishment of his own; and as he did not find even New Lebanon patronized to a sufficient extent to afford him an adequate income, he at once decided to secure, if possible, the situation at Westboro', which he occupied at his death. In this project, Dr. J. H. Hero, then of Athol, a young, enterprising, and growing Homoeopathic and Hydropathic Phys- cian, was connected with him, from its very inception, and they purchased together, in the month of July, 1.852, and entered into an equal copartnership in their professional business. This union was one that was mutually agreeable and satisfactory, and that promised to be mutually advantageous. Dr. Wilmarth had great confidence MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 145 in Dr. Hero's qualifications as a Physician, and great confidence in him as a man of integrity and upright- ness of character, and elevated moral principle ; and, on the other hand, Dr. Hero regarded Dr. Wilmarth with the profoundest respect, considering him before almost any other man in this general region, as a Physician; and scarcely second to any one, for the various manly, humane, and Christian virtues and excellences. The union between them, profession- ally, was that of a generous Preceptor and grateful student; and socially, that of an elder and a younger brother. The one was peculiarly qualified, by his knowledge, skill, and great experience, for the di- rection of home practice, and for the charge of all critical cases; whilst the other, by his youth, ac- tivity and popular address, together with quite as much skill as is common with young physicians, was peculiarly qualified for practice abroad. No two could easily be found so well adapted to each other, and so suited to render each other service. And they both confidently anticipated much success and happiness together. Having entered into this partnership, and purchas- ed the place they had long had their eye upon and desired, Dr. Wihnaith left New Lebanon in Oct., J 146 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 1852—having been there only about six months— and after spending a few weeks at Hopedale, went directly to Westboro', to prepare for the opening of their Establishment; whilst Dr. Hero went to Syra- cuse, N. Y., to attend a course of Medical Lectures. As soon as it was known that Dr. W. had taken possession of his new location, he began to have fre- quent calls for his professional services, and at once found himself engrossed with business. But, un- fortunately, he was shortly after taken sick, and confined to his bed and his room, for several weeks; which, of course, cut him abruptly off from the practice he had commenced so auspiciously. He had a regular run of typhoid fever, and it was doubt- ful, for a time, what the result would be. By hia request, I went up to see him, partly in order to as* sist him in adjusting his affairs as he desired to leave them should he be taken away; and partly to stop with him for a while as company, and to take what care of him, and minister to such of his wants, as I could. I found him, however, somewhat better, and gradu> ally recovering, with a fair prospect of soon being about his avocation again. But he seemed exceed- ingly glad to see me, and I was certainly as glad of the opportunity to see him, and to render him. such MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 147 fraternal service as I conveniently could. Be- ing so much improved, he could engage in con- versation without serious injury ; and we, therefore, freely talked over many matters of mutual interest to us. And now that he has gone from our midst, I look back to that visit with peculiar satisfaction, grateful that it was my privilege to. make it. The simple memory of it, is of great value to me ; and I shall ever cherish it with a melancholy pleasure. A sun- ny spot it is, in my world-pilgrimage, sad though the retrospection is. I saw, during the short time I spent with the Dr. —only about a day and a half—^shat already there were neighbors around him, who were much attach- ed to him, and greatly interested respecting his sick- ness. Some called, anxious to know when he would be well enough to visit their sick friends; some to get prescriptions for themselves, and some to inquire after him, and to proffer their services, should their services be needed. And when he sufficiently re- covered his health to get about much, he had as many calls for professional visits, as he could conve- niently attend to. Dr. Hero, however, joined him in a few weeks, and very much lightened his bur- 148 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. dens; though there was a very satisfactory amount of employment for both of them—enough greatly to encourage them as to their future prospects. They not only had calls at Westboro', but also from sev- eral adjoining towns; and many, tired of the old medical practice, and favorably inclined to Hydrop- athy, were congratulating themselves that they were henceforth to have the presence of two such Physi- cians, so near and accessible to them. Dr. Wilmarth was so acute and accurate in his understanding and delineation of disease, having for almost thirty years been one of the closest living observers of it, in its various forms and phases—and so well knew what jpedicines could not do any good, and would, in certain cases, do great injury; and was, withal, so frank in expressing his opinion, whether for or against his pecuniary interest, and so honest and reliable as a Christian and a man, and Dr. Hero was so much in sympathy and union with him, that many seemed to feel an increased security against premature death by proximity to their new Establishment—just as had been the case with not a few at Hopedale, and in the vicinity, whilst Dr. W. was with us. They had -both been often called to Southboro' and Marlboro'—two towns adjoining West- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 149 boro', in which the Water-Cure had taken a strong hold—and they were, therefore, well known. Dr. Wilmarth had also been to Northboro' frequently, and occasionally into other towns near. The expec- tations which many cherished, were not, therefore, without foundation, and the result of ignorance, as in the case of much of the medical quackery so prevalent in our time. They had good reason to think that some, at least, would find a " Bethesda," in the baths of Westonville. Very great, therefore, and sad was their disappointment, at the sudden and melancholy departure of the Senior Dr. from the world! His great experience and skill, together with his perfect honesty and genuiafhumanity, had in- spired many an invalid, and their anxious friends, with much of hope, who now became despondent. They knew no living physician, in whose wisdom and in- tegrity they could so implicitly trust. Their loss, therefore—how great !j But Dr. Hero, I would here say, still continues at Westonville, and is making preparations for the reception of a large number of patients. Already he has received some, and his out-practice is increas- ing, and he becoming deservedly popular. Whoev- er patronizes him, will find him a good Physician, 150 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. and an excellent and a reliable man. He has also received into partnership with him Dwight Russell, M. D., late Professor of Theory and Practice, in the Medical College of Syracuse, N. Y., who has the reputation of being a skillful " eclectic" Physician of many years' practice. Thus much I have deemed it appropriate to say, in passing, of Dr. Hero, on account of his intimate connexion with Dr. Wilmarth, and their mutual in- terest in each other. In life they were one, and in death they would not be divided. But to return to Dr. Wilmarth.—Being relieved from an excess of cares and duties, by the presenco and aid of Dr. H#o, he found time, a few weeks previous to his death, to make two or three hasty and short calls at Hopedale, though they were most- ly of a business character. At one of his visits, he desired my assistance, in a certain financial matter, which required us to ride several miles together in a private carriage. This was in the month of April; and he was in fair health for him, in fine spirits, and seemed cheerful and enthusiastic as to his future prospects. We were traveling in company most of the day, and therefore enjoyed a very favorable op- portunity for conversation upon a variety of sub- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 151 jects, both' old and new, which were of special in- terest to us. A hallowed day, too, is that in my memory, it being the last one that it was our privi- lege to spend together. On our way, we called at Blackstone, on the Dr.'s intimate and valued friend, Prof. Wm. S. Brown ; and as they had not seen each other for a considera- ble length of time, the greeting on both sides was most hearty, earnest and joyous, little thinking it was their last earthly interview ! Mr. Brown, as he shall read this, will undoubtedly recollect the time and the pleasant meeting, with mingled pleasure and grief. The Dr. also made some new acquain- tances, to whom I introduced him, and who talked of moving to Westboro' ; and they separated, mutu- ally much gratified with the short visit, and in anti- cipation of a period, not far distant,, perhaps, when they would probably be near neighbors and intimate friends. But how, in one single moment, did this anticipation perish! The reminiscence alone re- mains, with the surviving—an impressive illustration of the truth, that we " know not what a day, or an hour, may bring forth." The remaining portion of the good Dr.'s life may be briefly told—alas ! too briefly. 152 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. On Tuesday, the 2d day of May, he lbft his homo and family at Westboro', Mass., to attend "The Annual Meeting of the American Hygienic and Hydropathic Association of Physicians and Sur- geons," of which Body he was the honored Presi- dent, having been chosen to that office two years before. He went reluctantly on several accounts— more particutarly on account of the inconvenience of leaving his professional business, and the great, ahnost premonitory, repugnance, he had to railroad and steamboat travel. But his peculiar and respon- sible relation to the Association, and his deep inter- est in the general cause which that Association represents, prevailed with him over all personal preferences and considerations, and simply from a sense of duty, he decided to go, and accordingly took his departure. On the day, or the day after, he was expected to return, though not very confi- dently, came the news of the terrible catastrophe at the fatal Norwalk Bridge. The fears of his family, 'and of some of his friends, were now painfully awakened for his safety. But he had talked of visiting the new Community at Raritan Bay, N. J., some of the prominent members of which were among his most intimate MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 153 and valued friends ; and it was hoped, by his wife, and by others who knew his strong inclination to make such a visit, that he was there. I myself felt quite certain that he was, especially as his name was not on the list of passengers, either living or dead ; and, in my heart, I blessed " The Raritan Bay Union" for being, thinking that alone must have saved him. His son, who was residing at Hopedale, Bhared this feeling with me, as did most, if not all, of our Community members. But his home affairs bo urgently demanded his presence and attention, that he could not indulge himself in the pleasure he desir- ed, and which we trusted he had secured. He took the ill-fated train, and, all unconsciously, with nearly fifty others, not a few of his own profession, was hurried onward, at almost lightning speed, to an untimely and most tragical end—a sacrifice to the haste and crimi- nal unconcern for human life, characteristic of the age and country in which he lived. It was a gloomy and sad day—alas ! to* how many a domestic and social circle ! We turn from its contemplation with an inexpressible grief and sorrow. Biit most pain- fully memorable will it be to not a few bereaved and deeply afflicted ones, who will often weep over its tragic scenes for many a year to come, finding it 154 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. difficult to be reconciled to the burial of so many of their chief joys and hopes. May that God •" who tempers the wind to the shorn lamb," comfort them all and inspire them with the assurance of an ulti- mate reunion with the loved and the lost in higher spheres of being ! But Dr. Wilmarth wag not recognized until two days after his death, no one being in company with him, and he having, it would seem, no papers in hia pockets, from which his name or residence could he learned. On a common spectacle case which he had with him, the initials of his name, " B. W.," and "Hopedale," were marked, but so effaced by the water, that they vjcre construed into " Opedonk," and got thus into the newspapers. In his Valise he had articles by which he would have been easily known, but that was lost. Dr. 0. S. Wellington, however, at whose house Dr. Wilmarth lodged, the night previous to his leaving New York, had hia fears awakened, as soon as he received the intelli- gence of the catastrophe, that his friend and guest might be one of the victims, and immediately tele- graphed to Norwalk, describing him, in order to ascertain whether such a person had been found. On receiving an affirmative reply, he at once proceeded MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 155 to the fatal spot, identified him, and started di- rectly for Westboro' with his remains, where he arrived on Monday afternoon—the fourth day after the accident. And thus were the doubts and fears of Mrs. Wilmarth and her children at once dispelled; but 0, how dispelled ! It was now certain that her devoted and beloved husband, their affectionate and dear father, had left their presence forever—at least in a visible form. Their agony of suspense was changed to the agony of bereavement. But they wept wholly for themselves, not for him. They knew that he, if any one, was prepared to go, and that their loss would be his gain. Yet too great, of course, was their grief and sorrow to put into words. I will not attempt the task. " Expressive silence" must perform it. But they, I would here say, feel under very spe- cial obligation to Dr. Wellington, for the deep and practical interest and sympathy he manifested on the occasion; and, in their behalf, I would make this public record of their grateful appreciation of his services. His humanity and his friendship will be held in durable remembrance by them, as it also will by many of the intimate and particular friends of the departed. 156 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. On the evening that the certain intelligence reach- ed Hopedale that Dr. Wilmarth was dead, it circu- lated through the Community with almost telegraph- ic rapidity, and sadness and sorrow were universal among us. A large circle of friends immediately came together to express to each other their common grief, and to make preparations for sending to the afflicted wife and children our sympathy and aid, and for the bringing of the body into our midst for burial. Early on the following morning, therefore, a respec- table delegation of our number, repaired to Westbo- ro', in conformity to the general feeling and desire, and returned in the afternoon, with the corpse, accompanied by the bereaved family, and several of their neighbors and friends. Owing to the shortness of the notice, no special preparation could be made for funeral services, and no regular Discourse waa delivered. Adin Ballou made appropriate and im- pressive remarks, and was followed by Geo. W. Stacy of Milford, and C. B. Campbell, then a patient of Dr. Wilmarth's at Westboro'. The gathering was larger than could be accommodated in our small Chapel, and it was much regretted that time and circumstances did not admit of our having the ser- vices in a more commodious house. At Milford, a MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 157 mile and a half distant from us, any one of the Churches would have been freely opened for the occasion, so much respected was the good Dr., and a very large audience would have been convened. But this was not practicable, and, therefore, only a comparatively small number of his wide eircle of friends and acquaintances, who would have been glad to attend his funeral, were present. Yet was it an impressive and profitable meeting—solemn and Bad, though consolatory and hopeful. The services concluded at the Chapel, the re- mains were carried to the retired and peaceful Cemetery of our Community, and there a simple marble slab, in harmony with his own pure simplici- ty, will hereafter mark the spot where reposes all that was mortal of an upright Man, a true Christian and skillful Physician, who was a " good Samaritan" both to the bodies and souls of many of his fellow beings. " Loved sleeper, fare thee well! We will not wish thee back, but lift the prayer In fervency, that we may meet thee there, Where thou hast gone to dwell,— The prayer, that with us, as with thee, the even Of life may be the entrance homa of heaven." 158 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH CHAPTER VII. Additional remarks on his character, particularly as a Christian Physician. There are probably some that knew Dr. Wil- marth imperfectly, who will dissent from the highly eulogistic manner in which he has been spoken of throughout this Memoir. This may be also said, perhaps, of every person's memoir, written under the impressions and guidance of a warm personal friend- ship. But some, strangers particularly, thought the Dr. abrupt, blunt, and rather severe in his censure* of some very common faults, which.he might discov- er in them, or in their customs. I have known this to be the case with him, and I can easily understand how such of this class as never became much ac- quainted with him, and saw only this repellant phase of his character, failed to have any drawing towards him. He was certainly ijot always attractive and pleasing in his first addresses to those whom ho might think proud, or fastidious, or unchristian in MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 159 their habits and practices. He would be very likely to give utterance to the thoughts that rose to the surface of his mind, and not always in so considerate and seemingly kind a manner as he should. Some have lately mentioned this failing of his to me, and told me that their first impressions of him were very unfavorable, though, at his death, they were among his truest and firmest friends. Having, then, some more materials in my posses- sion than I have yet used, I have decided to append an additional chapter of remarks on the character of the deceased—particularly as the good Physician. As I have elsewhere remarked, Dr. Wilmarth needed to be intimately and well known to be ap- preciated. His friend Dr. Rice says of him : "Of an irritable temperament, when overcome and fa- tigued with business and care, a degree of peevish- ness sometimes showed itself; but it was only momentary, and soon broke forth into smiles, affec- tion and sunshine." And the truth of this remark all his friends will recognize ; and they will not care to have the fact suppressed. I am sure he himself would not. But his friend Field, quite a serious minded man, looking at the' Dr. from another point, expresses tho 160 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. opinion that his chief faults grew out of his " too large mirthfuiness, and an over-sensitiveness to real or intended wrong to him." And he was cartainly too apt to look on " the dark side of things," and to be despondent and rather complaining. Yet even this fault was the shadow of a great excellence— sometimes, at least. He was benevolent and kind himself, delighting to do good and to confer favors upon all; and when he saw the prevalence of a nar- row, unaccommodating selfishness, his hope for hu- manity was dimmed for a' time, and he gave himself too much to lamentation and censure. He bemoaned the depravity of mankind, and often deeply sighed for " A lodge in some vast wilderness." Let all, therefore, who knew him, remember hia failings, as well as his virtues; and remember them, if they must, to the diminution of the respect which they would otherwise cherish for him. I would not certainly take any special pains to conceal his fail- ings ; though I would only labor to bring out hia virtues. I knew him well—each side of his charac- ter, private and public—and I know that the good and the bright side was the predominant one, and the true representative of the man ; the other, only MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 161 the incidental and transient. There was no confirm- ed, persistent evil within him ; most clearly, none that would meditate, or compass, the injury of a sin- gle human being—even his worst enemy. Mr. Field knew him almost as intimately as one man can know another, for seventeen or eighteen years ; and he says respecting him : " In his dealings with mankind, I do not believe that one single fault could be found. I never saw one myself; and I never heard of one." Of how very few men can this be said !—and yet it is said by a man, himself among the most candid, most truthful, and, so far as character is concerned; the most scrutinizing of men. " I know his life to have been," he continues, "since I first knew him, made up of good deeds;—deeds of kindness to the poor, the sick, the fallen, the afflict- ed. And the public generally had a high regard for him, as a Man, a Christian, and a Physician. The Medical Faculty, in this region, [Leverett] looked upon him as one of the first of his profession. Still, there was always a class that could never appreciate him." Dr. Wilmarth was, perhaps, the least understood, and the least appreciated, by the wealthy and the fashionable. The poor who became acquainted with K 152 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. him, seldom, if over, I think, misjudged him. Though sometimes abrupt, perhaps a little rude, in his intercourse with them—especially in his rebukes of what he saw wrong in their midst—they nevertheless knew that within him there beat a warm and fraternal heart, and that he was their friend. He moved among them, not as a superior being, but as a broth- er, whose interests he was bound by the law of divine love 'to look after. I believe no poor person whom he ever ministered unto has any other view of him. There are some of the poor in the surroundings of Hopedale—even among the Irish—whose warm and grateful hearts could proffer most earnest and em- phatic testimony to this point. Would that they could give expression to their ardent feelings through the medium of the pen, as I have heard them give expression to those feelings in verbal speech !—since his death, in deep, heartfelt lamentations and sorrow thereat! This would be the best eulogy upon his Chris- tian benevolence that could possibly be pronounced. His friend Field, speaking to this point, said of him :—'' There was one peculiar and worthy trait in his character, that I never saw, to the same extent, in any one else, and whicn I hardly expect to see again, while I may live in the body: It was hia MEMOIR OF "DR. WILMARTH. 163 familiarity with all classes; rich or poor, high br low, black or white, bond or free. No one was be- neath his notice ; and some who move in fashionable life thought less highly of him on this account.'' This is certainly a very valuable testimony—more honora- ble to his memory than, any eminence of station could bestow.—" Professional dignity"—that proud dignity of rank, which is often seen among physi- cians, as among some other classes—artificial, cold, formal, heartless, statue-like—how little and low is t/iat in comparison with the humane and Christ-like spirit that ever bends in blandness and benevolence to bless the unfortunate poor ! It was the testimony of the lowliest, and yet the loftiest of the sons of earth— the Son of God—that '' many things highly esteemed among men are an abomination in the sight of the Lord;" and one of those many things must be haughtiness of spirit and mien—contempt of poverty and misfortune. But Dr. Wilmarth was not only benevolent in his expressions to the poor, and in rendering them med- ical service, but his benevolence also prompted him to take a real and deep interest in all their affairs, temporal and spiritual. He did not leave his pre- scriptions with them, give his advice, and hasten 164 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. away from their humble and scanty abodes, for more congenial and refined associates and surroundings. Few had the love of order or the love of beauty larger than he ; and no one ever prized more highly, intercourse with the cultivated and the excellent. But it was not in him to live for self-gratification alone, even in this respect. He knew that he could do good among the indigent, and so he spent no little of his time with them, to this end. He would inquire into their history, their means of living, their prospects, and encourage them to an industrious, vir- tuous and Christian life. He was interested in them as human beings, as God's children, as heirs of im- mortality ; and he rejoiced with them and wept with them, as their condition and circumstances made either joy or weeping a Christian sentiment and duty. Though he was poor—comparatively so—the poor man blesses his memory for the treasures of his mind and. heart which he so profusely scattered abroad. Many will long remember his cordial and friendly greetings, his fraternal inquiries, his parting wishes and benedictions, and find their hearts swelling with emotions of grief, and their eyes filling with tears, that they are to see his form and hear his friendly voice no more—that they have lost so much! MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 165 Would 'that his mantle might fall upon some worthy successor and be as worthily worn—upon many such successors ! As a Physician, Dr. Wilmarth's Christian benev- olence was constantly manifesting itself in various ways. In the first place, in combination with his conscience, it constrained him to be moderate in his professional charges. This was, indeed, sometimes made a ground of complaint against him by other physicians—with some reason, perhaps. Yet it was no mere expedient of his to secure popularity and patronage, but a principle ; consequently, he contin- ued to adhere to it, in a great degree, through life. He had an instinctive repulsion to what is some- times vulgarly called, the " gouge game system," in the various transactions between man and man—the system of getting out of each other all that the law and popular custom will allow—and he repudiated it in action as well as in word. He was fixed in his purpose not to get rich by taking advantage of oth- ers' necessities; and he never could have enjoyed wealth so accumulated. He was governed far more by what he thought his services worth, estimated by a medium standard, and by the pecuniary ability of the common people, than by what he might get for 166 MEMOIR OF J>R. WILMARTn. them, and still be thought an honorable Physician. He also lost hundreds of dollars due him for pro- fessional services, solely in consequence of his g»eat reluctance to take anything from others, which they needed more than he, even though he had the legal right to do so. Many a poor man he never thought of calling upon for pay, and often refused it when proffered to him. He was governed, in such cases, far more by generosity than by justice, and longed for a state of society of which the former should be the law. It must be confessed, however, that before his death he began to think that he had been not only " too benevolent for his own interest," as his friends always told him he was, but sometimes benevolent to no good end. Could he have seen others—the pros- perous and rich especially—imitating his example, this Would have been a sufficient reward, for whatev- er it mightJpve cost him to set them that example ; but in his dealings with them, he often found them still acting from the most narrow and selfish spirit. Some whom he had charged very moderate fees for his professional services in their families, exacted of bim the most exorbitant prices for anything he might have occasion to purchase of them. He was not, MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 167 indeed, the man to parley and remonstrate with these sharpers; but he would silently submit to their de- mands ; far more sad for them, and for the world over which selfishness has such extensive dominion, than for himself. His friend Field's testimony is :— " If there were any misunderstanding between him- self and others about dollars and cents, he would surrender his own right rather than to contend about the matter." Some men who have begun life with the benevo- lence of Dr. Wilmarth, have ended it with the self- ishness of the miser—thinking themselves driven to this by necessity and in self-defense. He, however; was too confirmed a Christian, and had too much faith in the ultimate triumph of Love over all, to be thus influenced. He nevertheless felt that he could not afford to be so benevolent, in the latter period of his life as in the former. This was one of his great reorets and sorrows—and it made him occasionally desponding and almost weary of living. He had a very strong desire to be " above board" in worldly matters, that he might be charitable and generous, and able to give to the needy. He disliked exceed- ingly to sell any small thing that his neighbors need- ed—and to the poor especially. No man in this 168 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH world, I believe, more enjoyed the luxury of doing good. In his inmost heart he felt it to be "more blessed to give than to receive." Ho had always been accustomed to it; had, also, taken great pleas- ure in accommodating friends and neighbors with the loan of any thing belonging to him that they might need. In all kindly acts he found his reward ; lov- ing to do whatever favors he could, for those around him, for their sake and not for his profit. Any thing small and mean, in neighborhood intercourse, his soul loathed. But the following letter from him to Mr. David Cambell, of New Lebanon Springs, illustrates the fact that he felt himself, at last, fairly driven to look more closely' after his pecuniary affairs, and to be more exacting of his employers : " Mr. Cambell :— " Dear Friend: Suppose I should entertain the idea of taking charge of your Establishment, the year to come—on what conditions do you wish to employ me ? * * This is making money matters rather prominent; but I am heartily sick of the cant of talking about ' being useful,' of ' labor- ing for humanity,'and all that sort of thing, when self-interest alone is under the cloak. So I will take off the ' cloak/ and ' own up' that if you could open MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 169 a wider field of labor to us, and give us more pay than we have here, we should entertain your propo- sition sufficiently to look over the whole subject can- didly. My greatest objection to making Hopedale my home at present, is, that I shall be obliged to ride more there than I wish to ride, and somewhat by night, to find my patients. I should have to keep a small Water-Cure, and ride ' from Dan to Beer-sheba' besides. " The question, then, is : Can we reasonably hope for patronage enough to pay proprietors, doctors, matrons, cooks, bath men and women, chamber maids and waiters, all they will demand, and oppress nobody ? I well remember a remark you made when I was a patient at your Establishment, viz: ' that you had labored many years to heal the souls of your fellow-men, in vain, and now you were going to follow the example of Christ and try to heal their bodies, as well'—or something to that effect; and I was impressed that this was beginning ' at the right end first.' I mean to amplify upon the principle a little. We have ' labored for humanity,' in hope of mutual advantage, till our sun is on its decline, and we find ourselves still obliged to dig on or beg ; and we have come to the conclusion, from the wants and sensations we experience, that we also belong to ' hamanity,' and that it is both our duty and privi- lege to provide for our own household. Hence the prominence of money-matters with us. I think that 170 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. we and our families have done our full share of ' un- compensated labor.' In future, 1 believe, we shall be justified in laboring for ourselves, in ' planting vineyards and eating the fruit thereof'—should Wo live to do so. If Providence should so direct that we labor together, I doubt not it would be pleasant; but let us look out and be paid for it. " Yours for truth and righteousness, " B. Wilmarth.*' Now, that society is so permeated with the spirit of selfishness as to force a life-long philanthropic mil good man to restrain his liberal and generous impul- ses, in his declining years, so that he shall not him- self come'to want, is a sad commentary upon tho Christianity of New England in this nineteenth cen- tury ! How limited have been its triumphs over selfishness—over the selfishness of even the boasting Church founded upon it. But it must have been a very great satisfaction to the Dr., that though he found himself, at last, quite too limited in pecuniary matters, even for his conve- nience and ease, others had shared largely in the rewards of his labors. It was not for self that he had sacrificed the gratification of taste, and many privileges and pleasures that he might easily have secured, but that he might aid the needy. For their MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 171 sakes it was, that he kept himself poor—that he lived and died comparatively poor. The conscious- ness of this, must have been far more valuable to a mind like his, in advanced life, than the possession of wealth. He could only regret having been more considerate of the purses of the rich—-more moder- ate in his demands upon them—than either his inter- ests admitted of, or theirs required. It would often have been better for both parties, probably, if his charges had been higher—and yet, I suppose some occasionally thought them quite too high. But he set a noble example, worthy of imitation, to a great extent, to that class of physicians who move among the poor and wretched with so much dignity, that they cannot stoop to sympathy and fa- miliarity, and who often charge more for a single visit, than their patient can earn in a whole week. Some physicians are criminally exorbitant in their charges for attendance upon the poor—some profess- edly reformed physicians, and reformers, as well as some of the Old School—and they deserve exposure and rebuke. Dr. Wilmarth was the good Physician, having another end in view than mere money-making—a philanthropic end. I know it may seem Utopian to 172 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. exact the same of all—even to think that all, in this money-mania age, should look with as careful an eye to the interests of humanity as to their own pockets ; but this is the Christian ideal which Dr. Wilmarth labored to make actual, and to which Christendom must finally come. But though, as I have before said, he regretted, and had reason to regret, that he did not accumulate more property than he did, when he had youth, health, and opportunity on his side, so that he might enjoy more of the extra conveniences and comforts of life, than he was able to enjoy, with his limited means, he never would have changed his course ma- terially, had he remained many years longer on the earth. He would always have been very moderate in his charges to the poor ; never exorbitant with the rich ; always liberal and generous in his charities. And he never could have been a " fashionable" man, or really extravagant in any of his expenditures. I doubt not that the same great, guiding principle of benevolence, would have governed him, even if he could have lived his life over again. He would have been a plain, unostentatious, " people's" man; and not a favorite with such as think more of sound and show, than of sense and substantial worth. And MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 173 the Hydropathic Establishment which he and Dr. Hero had just opened, at Westboro', about the time of his death, was designed, principally, to bring the Water-Cure within the reach of the middling class- es. He was aware that he was not adapted to please the votaries of luxury, and those who were desirous of being provided for, and waited upon, in the most genteel, polite, and subservient manner, and whose tastes would be offended by every httle departure from the etiquette of their circle ; and he knew, also, that they had not sufficient means to fit up their house in a style that would suit such per- sons. He was willing, therefore, that they should go where Dignity and Fashion preside, and all the luxuries and slaves are furnished that money will pay for. He did not like to cater to such a class, and could not conscientiously do so, without an occa- sional reproof of their unchristian mode of life. He thought it sinful for them to be so exacting upon the time and services of others, so fastidious in their tastes, and so extravagant in their demands for ele- gance and luxury; and he could not compromise with their spirit to the extent necessary to please. The wealthy who were governed by common sense, by justice, by humanity, by the Gospel of Christ, 174 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. and who only demanded reasonable attentions and courtesies, and things that were convenient, comfor- table, and suitable to their health and condition, ho thought as much of as he did of the 'poor—no less, no more. And many such, he, of course, found during his long and extensive practice. Some of them were reckoned among his warmest, truest friends. But his mission was chiefly to those whom the world had not favored with wealth and its usual accompaniments. It was, however, the intention of himself and Dr. Hero to fit up their new Establishment in a maimer that should please the eye and gratify the taste of all the lovers of neatness, order, and simple beauty, who are reasonable and moderate in their expecta- tions ; as well as to make it a comfortable, conveni- ent, and pleasant abode for the invalid, from even tlie higher walks of life. In one of his letters to Dr. Hero—written from New Lebanon soon after purchasing the place—he says : '' That beautiful spot of earth (if Providence permit) shall be ren- dered far more beautiful and attractive, ere long, by fruits and flowers, and walks, and shades, surround- ing a Hydropathic Institute. It is a good place to make shine. A better is not to be found in Mass., MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 175 and we and our wives are the men and women to do it. But we will make our patients shine also, if they will but submit to and follow our directions." From this brief extract, we see that Dr. W.'s ideal "Hydropathic Institute," embodied not only convenience and comfort, but likewise ornament and beauty ; and he never sacrificed the latter excepting to utility or necessity—to the Christian idea of self- denial. If all homes could have been beautified, most gladly would he have seen them so; but all artificial and costly beauty caused unpleasant sensa- tions to him, when he contrasted it with the squalor and wretchedness which he often saw by the side of it. " Let us not," he would say, " lavish our means merely to gratify our tastes, when so many have not so much as the absolute necessities of fife. Let us wait till ' the good time coming' shall have come, before we thus give ourselves to self-indulgence and pleasure." And this was certainly honorable to his heart, to his humanity, if it were not according to the practices of many, nor up to the latest aesthetic philosophy. His doctrine of self-denial was also in accordtoce with the spirit, life, and precepts of Jesus, whom be reverently recognized as Master. He wanted neither the services of men nor the 176 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. products of their toil, by which to elevate and ag- grandize himself and family ; and rather than ap- propriate them to such an end, he contented himself without many of the superfluities of life, which he would have highly valued and enjoyed, if those around him could have secured them also. Let "the disciples of the Beautiful" repudiate his phi- losophy, if they must, but let them likewise honor his spirit and his motive. But his friends, I think, would generally admit that he was formerly rather too "puritanical," in his treatment of the tastes, indulgences and demands, of the more genteel and fashionable classes of socie- ty, and thereby made himself unnecessarily disa- greeable to them. Yet these even, I am sure, always respected him on becoming thoroughly acquainted with his character. They did not, at first, under- stand each other. What they considered essentials —essential elegancies, perhaps—in personal apparel and in household furnishings—he considered super- fluous, and as coming from a species of pride, which ought to be renounced as unchristian; the cost of which should be bestowed upon the varioiM^causes of Philanthropy. He was preeminently a utilitarian in all such matters. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 177 Cherishing these views, he would sometimes speak in such a manner, in the presence of fashion and luxury, as to give offense. It was not his method, politely and gracefully to conform to what he deemed thus unchristian, but to.seem just what he was. Some patients, therefore, who came to his Water- Cure Establishment, did not find the extra conven- iences and the embellishments of life that they desired, and were not satisfied to remain. Hence, it is not probable that he ever would have secured the patronage of the class under notice ; their tastes and customs inclining and their means enabling them to go to establishments fitted up at great ex- pense, and in a manner adapted even to those who have lived in palaces. But it ought not, however, to be inferred from his peculiarity in regard to the fashions of the world, that he cherished any hostility toward those who were conformed to them, or treated them rudely. He was no agrarian, envying the wealthy, and wish- ing to bring them all down to the common level— only a believer in Christian equality, growing out of fraternity and a mutual interest in each other's wel- fare—each being for all and all for each. And he was, indeed, getting to be somewhat more comphv L 17$ MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. cent in his latter days, toward the " superfluous" expenditures of wardrobe and household, than he formerly was—a little more "worldly," some of the more rigid economists would say ; and really so, ac- cording to his early ideal.' Would his means have admitted of it, he would have laid out rather more mOney in these directions, than he would have once thought commendable or exactly in harmony with " the simplicity that is in Christ." He would have worn a little nicer coat, rode in a little nicer carriage, and supplied his house with a little nicer furniture. Occasionally, his wife says, he would incidentally express a slight regret that he was not, at least, able to keep up rather nearer to the times, in these par- ticulars. But he would almost always end, by say- ing : " Well, it is all right—I have as good fortune as I deserve" !But such as he was, with all his limitations and imperfections, few men have had more affectionate and devoted friends than he had. All who were intimate with him, knew his faults—so unconcealed were they—but they honored him still, loved him, and greatly enjoyed his society. Always was he a most welco/ne guest at their homes—so social, so humorous, so fraternal, and so instructive, withal, was MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 179 he. Personally, I have often felt, since his departure from us, an almost overpowering grief at the loss sustained. Deeply, painfully, conscious am I, that one of the most valuable gifts and blessings .of life and of Providence, has been taken from me. Though not without the hope of seeing him again, and joy- fully recognizing him and being recognized by him —even with this hope, strong and satisfying as it is —I nevertheless still lament and mourn his untimely exit. It is hard to be reconciled to the event—es- pecially as the remembrance of its cause and char- acter revives. And many, I am confident, most fully and heartily sympathize with these expressions of affection and sorrow—a sorrow which words are powerless to express. But the world to come has the greater interest and value to us, for his being there. We will comfort and strengthen ourselves by the prospeot of an ultimate reunion, both in per- son and in various pursuits mutually commenced on earth, thanking the Father of all spirits for the great hope inspired by Him within us. But we mourn for him, also, as our family Physi- cian, whose place no one can, in all respects, fill. He had enjoyed the advantage of a long and exten- sive practice, and with his remarkable powers of the L* 180 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. most minute and critical observation, he had acquired a knowledge of disease such as few possess, even among the most eminent of his profession. Before his conversion to Hydropathy, his friends who had adopted that system, deemed it a very great privi- lege to have him daily with them, when they, or their families, were sick, simply for the purpose, if nothing more, of keeping them informed as to the nature and progress of the disease preying upon them. And notwithstanding they might manifest to him much more faith in water, or even in nature, than in his scientific -drugs, his wisdom and counsel were always at their service. Though they could not trust him to deal out nauseating and poisonous medicines, they could most implicitly trust him as a man of conscience, candor, integrity and fraternity; and he had none of that foolish and wicked profes- sional pride, that often turns away in a rage from those who are indisposed to give themselves wholly up to Allopathic treatment—the spirit that sacrifices a patient to a point of medical etiquette or honor. And in this respect, as in some others, where and when shall we again find one to compare favorably with him ? That other physicians there are, in the world, equally humane and Christian, I doubt not; MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 181 but they are few and far between. Some of Dr. W.'s old friends know not where they are, and are often greatly troubled as to what way they shall look for the advice their necessities demand—advice that they can confidently rely upon as entirely hon- est and disinterested. Him they knew to be just as much of" a Christian in his profession as at Church —as conscious of accountability to God every day, and in the sick room, as on Sunday, and in religious observances. Indeed, his views as to the responsi- bility of the medical profession were similar to those which he held respecting the ministerial profession. The minister and the doctor, he thought, should both labor as called of, and accountable to, God, in the discharge of the duties of their profession, The suceeding extract of a letter to Adin Ballou, in 1840, reveals his views and feelings upon the sub- ject. He says:— " At the time 1 received your letter I was hard pressed with business, case and responsibility, among the sick, by night and day, which eontinued through the winter months, so that I am worn down by labor, and watching, and anxiety ; and, till very recently, I have scarcely had time to sleep and eat, sufficient to sustain my mortal frame, while my mind is so tared at tomes, I hardly know where I am, or wheth- 182 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. er in the body or out of it. Yon may think me ultra in my statements; but however easy and in- different others may be in the practice of medicine. it is not for me to have quiet sleep and cheerful meals, whilst the responsibility of a fellow mortars lingering life is in my hands. You know it is requir- ed of stewards that a man be found faithful. How then can the conscientious and faithful minister, or physician, in their respective professions, enjoy that quiet and repose so much desired by man, when they see so much disease of mind and body around them and in their midst ? It is impossible. They must deny themselves, and labor for the good of man, whether honored or rewarded in this world or not." A physician who honestly and with a whole heart, cherishes the views of his profession thus expressed, may be safely confided in as one who will not deal treacherously, or even carelessly, with any of his pa- tients ; but labor for their restoration to health, according to the best of his skill and knowledge. Alas ! that such conscientiousness is so rarely seen in any sphere of life. It is not singular that so many should be in great grief at the loss of the good man, doubtful whether they shall ever see anothej physician whose judgment and heart, both, they ca» so implicitly trust! But wisdom dictates that w<& submit ourselves in resignation to the fatality thai MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 183 took him from us ; hoping also that his example will attract others of his profession to an imitation of all his noble and Christian qualities. In the following chapter I shall present several Letters—some from those who knew him intimately —as valuable testimonials to his great worth. A part of them, as will be seen, were addressed, as expressions of sympathy and condolence, to Mrs. Wilmarth, and a part of them to myself. Others of a like character that have been received, would be gladly presented, but my limits prevent. t'" 184 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. CHAPTER VIII. Letters expressive of respect and affection for the deceas- ed, and of condolence for his bereaved family. FROM ADIN BALLOU. Hopedale, March 30, 1854. Dear Br. Fish :— As you are engaged in preparing a Memoir, now nearly completed, of our beloved Brother, the la- mented Dr. Wilmarth, permit me to express my cordial approbation of your very laudable undertak- ing. It will be a tribute to the memory of one, whose moral and intellectual, professional and social worth no book can adequately set forth. But less than such a tribute his friends would be inexcusable not to unite in offering. I fear your materials, so far as papers and documents are concerned, may be too meager for such a Biography as we should all bo* glad to see laid before the world. But I have no doubt you will make good use of the few which ex- ist to tell the outlines of his eminently active, useful and beneficent life. The rest must remain inscribed on the tablets of the many thousands of human spir- its, in and out of the flesh, who drank from the ever MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 185 brimming cup of our Brother's charity, skill, coun- sel, sympathy and cooperation. He was a self-made, conscientious, progressive, humane, Christian man, ever active in his mission, and abundant in those good works done in secret, which reap their richest reward in the heavens. As a physician, few probably ever worked harder, earn- ed more, and received less of temporal recompense. As a moral reformer, a philanthropist, and a practi- cal Christian, we with whom he was most intimately associated know his excellence, and are glad to do him honor. But his spirit has gone to the circles of the blest, the affinities of those immortal spheres, where harmony and sweet concord of souls will gen- tly waft him upward and onward forevermore. His exit from this mortal realm was most sudden and appalling. But the pangs of his final struggle must have been mercifully brief, compared with those which await most of us who live to lament him. And, thanks be to God for our holy faith, we have no doubt that those momentary pangs introduced hia emancipated soul into that land of which he loved so well to sing in our religious meetings : " There is a land of pure delight, Where saints immortal reign; Infinite day excludes the night, And pleasures banish pain. Sweet fields beyond the swelling flood Stand dressed in living green; 186 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH So to the Jews old Canaan stood, While Jordan rolled between." In that heavenly land may we all be ready to join him, when our summons shall come ; be it amid the horrors of an overwhelming catastrophe, like that which swept him away, or on the peaceful bed of home, surrounded by ministering and weeping friends. Meantime, as his mortal remains sleep in our humble Cemetery, and the monumental stone points out their resting place, may the Memoir you are preparing go forth, a welcome testimonial among his numerous friends in all parts of the country, and to after generations, of preeminent departed worth. Thus will justice be done to his memory, and at the same time a most salutary moral influence be exerted on the world. I wish your undertaking all the suc- cess which I am sure it so richly merits. Fraternally yours, Adin Ballou. FROM DR. JOSIAH PRESCOTT. Winthrop, Me., May 14, 1853. Mrs. Wilmarth : My Dear Friend:—It is with the deepest sorrow for the untimely death of your beloved husband, that I address you these few lines of condolence. More particularly do I do this, as I came quite near shar- memoir of dr. wilmarth. 187 ing the same fate in that awful catastrophe at Nor- walk, on Friday morning last. The little band of Hydropathic Physicians had just closed the annual business of their Association, with great unanimity, and the kindest feelings, at Dr. Wellington's, on Thursday evening; some of whom had taken then- leave of us, while those remaining were arranging to leave in the morning for our respective homes. I thought myself quite happy in accepting the kind and cordial invitation of Dr. Wilmarth, to take the first morning train with him, and spend Friday night at your house. We retired together in the same bed, at Dr. Wellington's, where we kept up our conversation to a very late hour. Just before re- tiring to bed, Dr. Bedortha urged the propriety of my stopping till afternoon, for further conference with F owlers &c Wells in relation to the publication of the Water-Cure Journal. Dr. Wilmarth arose at 4 o'clock, for the purpose of finding his valise, and was to meet me at the Depot before the departure of the first, or 8 o'clock Train. I then expressed some doubts about going with him, on account of the sug- gestions of Dr. Bedortha: yet, if I decided to go, would meet him in time. This ended our last inter- view in this world ; for I remained till 5 P. M., and took the Boat route to Stonington. Had I followed out my own feelings and inclination at the time, I certainly should have gone, in company with Dr. Wilmarth, 188 memoir of dr. wilmarth. Oh, how mysterious are the ways of Providence ! The news of the horrible disaster reached the city before I left; but no particulars as to who was either dead or alive could be ascertained. I laid down in my berth while going over the Sound, but sleep had departed. Dr. Wilmarth's image stood before me during the live-long night, for I almost knew that he went in the same train, and I could not resist the conclusion that he was numbered with the dead. On reaching Boston on the morning of Saturday, I hoped to be relieved from the tormenting suspense, and to find his name amongst the living. Oh ! no—his name was not to be found there. This confirmed my suspicions almost beyond a doubt, that his fate was sealed ; but the body was not yet found. Nor did I Learn all the facts till one hour ago, through the Boston papers,—though I wrote to Drs. Wellington and Taylor yesterday, apprising them of my appre- hensions of Dr. Wilmarth's fate, hoping they would immediately ascertain the facts, and write me the result of their inquiries. But alas ! it has come ; and to you how overwhelming the awful dispensa- tion ! My dear wife joins with me (and has abundant reason, under the circumstances of the case, though a stranger to you,) in deep feelings of sympathy and condolence, for such a heart-rending bereavement. Yet, the painful occurrence is not without many MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 189 considerations of a consoling nature. The transi- tion from life to death was so sudden, that but little or no suffering could have been endured. And above all, your husband's useful life and true Chris- tian character, are worthy of imitation by the living, and will certainly secure the appwving plaudit of " well done, good and faithful servant." By reputation I have been acquainted with Dr. Wilmarth for more than three years ; but personally, during the short interview only of two or three days of last week. But the peculiar circumstances that brought us together, were calculated to cement a lasting friendship, had we both lived to enjoy it. You will doubtless recollect our meeting at Dr. Rolfe's lecture-room about a year since, when I ex- pressed a strong desire to become acquainted with your husband. Little did I think then, that our ac- quaintance would thus take place, and end under Buch distressing circumstances. You may be assured of receiving any assistance, in my power to render, that you may need, either in personal services or advice, in this trying crisis of your domestic affairs, which must weigh so heavily upon you by this unexpected bereavement. Believe me, then, your sincere friend and humble servant, Josiaii Prescott. 190 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. FROM DAVID RICE, M. D. Boston, May 10, 1853. 0, my dear Mrs. Wilmarth :—Can it be ! Can it be ! that your husband, my dear friend, Dr. Wil- marth, is dead { I have just taken up the evening paper and learneW^he dreadful fact! The Lord be merciful unto you in this heart-rending calamity. 0, I feel sad, sad, sad ! Cut Off in the midst of his days, just when a wide field of bright visions was opening before him ! I did not even dream that Dr. Wilmarth could have been on those ill-fated Cars. I cannot write more now, for silent grief overcomes me. The Lord shield you in your dis- tress ! David Rice. Mrs-. Phila 0. Wilmarth. FROM NANCY FRENCH. Fulton, N. T., May 19, 1853. My Dear Mrs. Wilmarth :— Is it so ? Can it be '! that you are written, wid- ow ! desolate, in such an unexpected and heart- rending manner ! It must be true, for I have just read the name of Doct. Bctler Wilmarth, amon* the .crushed ones, at the ill-fated ' draw-bridge,' at Norwalk. 0, that it was in my power to administer consolation to you, in this deeply afflictive providence MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 191 of God. Words colored in the deepest dye are too inadequate to reach the deep fountain of sorrow that overwhelms your stricken heart! I have ever cher- ished a high regard for your dear husband, since the first acquaintance of my dear and much-lamented Edward with him. In a letter from E., he says : " Mother, I wish you could become acquainted with Dr. Wilmarth ; he reminds me of my father. ** He is the nearest perfection of any man I ever saw. I not only find in him every qualification that is desira- ble in a physician, but I find in him a friend and counsellor that can be trusted." Dr. Wilmarth has kindly written me letters of condolence, since E.'s death, which touched the sor- rows of my broken heart! He succeeded beyond any one else, to console and quiet my nervous tem- perament, so that I could view the providences of God in their true fight. 0, that I possessed hia talent, to console you, and your dear children, now in this time of trial. [Here follow some consolatory extracts, which are omitted.] But I must close by expressing to you my deep sympathy and kind and earnest wishes for your re- signation and future happiness. Yours truly in affliction, Nancy French. 192 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. FROM DANIEL S. WHITNEY. Southboro\ June 19, 1853. Dear Brother Fish :— I want to thank you for undertaking to prepare a brief Memoir of our very dear friend, the late Dr. Butler Wilmarth. I think in no instance in this mystical drama of life has my soul so struggled against an event of the passing scene, as it has against that which, in an instant, removed beyond the vail of flesh, this dearly loved Friend. We fancy that the problem of life has been clear- ly thought out. At least, we think this is the case, so far as the event which we call death is concerned. There is evidently nothing more certain than this— the living must sometime die. There is nothing more uncertain than the when, the how, the what, of this event, in any individual case. It is, then, the clear dictate of reason, the highest impulse of wisdom, the common sense of religion, to go forth in the morning, and in the evening come to our rest in a state of preparation to be called hence ourselves ; and not only so, but also to be ready to hear with com- posure that our most tenderly-cherished friend has passed the portals of death. Ah ! yes, this ought to be our state of mind. But then, who carries about him in the hubbub of daily life this clear rea- son, this impulse of heavenly wisdom, this common sense of religion ? When we see the event slowly but inevitably advancing upOn us, we call to our aid MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 193 these divine helps. But when the thunder breaks upon us from' a clear sky, the crash, though really no heavier than we have before heard from an over- hanging cloud, yet, being all unlooked for, becomes much more startling. At first, we felt very sorry that we did not learn the Dr.'s fate in season to join the bereaved proces- sion that followed what was earthly to its earthy rest- ing place. As time passes, we think less of this. Some how, it seems almost impossible to separate our own sufferings, in such a case, from the object whose sudden departure causes them. It seems as if the departed must be partakers of our grief. And who shall show that, to some extent, at least, this is not the case ? Our last recollections of the dear Doctor were very pleasant—entirely characteristic—and a mere statement of some circumstances attending them will convey an idea of his professional integrity, as well as of his genial and communicative habits in private life. On the Sunday preceding his death, we were favored by one of his friendly calls. Miss Lucy Stone was to lecture at five o'clock, P. M., and he finally concluded to stay and hear her. We had a joyous time. We were all delighted with the lec- ture, and our time before it commenced was occupied in the discussion of the great topics which are now moving and reforming the world. The Dr., in the course of the conversation, called our attention to a M 194 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. cure which he had just effected. Just one week before, he had been called, in great haste, to see a woman whose friends looked upon her as past cure, if not beyond all relief. Indeed, her husband had expressed his fears that they might not find her liv- ing when they should arrive at his home. She had been for some time under the treatment of another physician, without benefit, and the hydropathist was called in as a last resort. Matters could not possibly be made worse, and might possibly be improved. He found the patient living; but in a very weak state, and subject to sinking turns, which led her friends to suppose that at any time she might be taken from her sufferings. As he sat by his patient, making inquiries and thinking over the case, he dis- covered near by, a snuff-box. lie immediately in- quired if she took snuff; and was answered in the affirmative. He inquired how often ; and was an- swered, that when she felt so bad perhaps she took a pinch once in fifteen minutes. After examining, critically, the symptoms, he was satisfied that the snuff greatly aggravated her troubles, if it were not the prime cause of her sickness. He at once laid before her his convictions ; told her that without doubt he could procure her relief if she would follow his directions. She must put away, at once, her snuff—abandon it entirely—this was the main condi- tion. He then ordered some slight applications of water, and gave such directions concerning diet as MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 195 the case seemed to demand, and was about leaving. when the patient demanded, with much earnestness, what she should do if the sinking turns came round again ? He gave her assurance that they would not come if she complied with his directions, and left. In one week he called upon her again, (that is, on the day of which I have been speaking, when we last Baw him,) and found her attending to the duties of her household. She had been strongly tempted to take a social pinch with a neighbor, who had called upon her, but had found strength to resist the temp- tation, and was rejoicing in her improved health and great deliverance. The terrible sinking turns did not come back again. This straight-forwardness in the way of his duty marked his character. He doubt- less sometimes offended people by it. For most people like to have their evil habits treated tenderly. But it never failed to command the respect of good men, and often, as in the above case, led directly to great and good results, which could be come at in no other way. This manly and Christian course is doubtless the secret (an " open secret," indeed,) of his rapid progress in the town of Westboro', where his professional labors terminated. I do not remember of ever hearing him express a belief, or intimate, that he felt a presentiment, that his life would be terminated by casualty. It is cer- tain, however, that he had a feeling of great aversion to dying by any such means, and thought more about M* 196 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. it than men in general do. I remember very dis- tinctly how earnestly he spoke upon the subject in a letter, which I am sorry cannot be found, soon after a season of some peril in the Sound, near Hurlgate, during a thick fog. His earnest exclamation was— " I don't want to die so. I don't want to be smashed up or scalded to death, and hurried out of the world without a moment's warning." He then quoted a few lines of poetry, descriptive of the way in which he would die :— "At home, in bed, with weeping friends arouud." It is certainly a very pleasant reflection, that, if this dear man was not permitted thus to die in the bosom of his family, few,' very few, of our race are better prepared by an upright and Christian life for such a sudden summons to the unseen world. And we may, with truth, add, that, among the thousands who are yearly called to mourn the loss of dear ones thus snatched away in a moment, when they are look- ing not for it, few indeed are better prepared by a meek and gentle spirit to bear up under such crush- ing calamities than the dear companion of his bosom, and efficient adviser and helper in all his labors to bless mankind and do good in his day and genera- tion. But in the midst of life and its labors he passed away. His plans of usefulness were unfulfilled, his resources for doing good unexhausted, his powers ripe for a harvest of blessings to his fellow men ; yot MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 197 his life was no failure. His life was a daily success. In things great and small he was wont to say—" If the Lord will." And it is only by catching a por- tion of the same spirit, that we can find comfort in the sad event which has removed him from our midst. But I will not trespass farther. I heartily thank you for undertaking this good work, and I hope you will give it to us as speedily as possible. Yours fraternally, D. S. Whitney. FROM DR. J. H. HERO. Wm. H. Fish : Dear Friend:—Since the death of Dr. Wilmarth > I have felt, as it were, like a child without a parent; for he always seemed like a father to me. In fact, he was my medical father ; having taken the deepest interest in my welfare from the time I first commenc- ed the study of medicine. During the first year of my, practice, particularly, he was of invaluable ser- vice to me, always holding himself in readiness to lend me his aid and counsel at all times when need- ed, whilst other physicians were using their influence against me. It always did me good to meet him, if our meet- ing was but for five minutes; for his words were words of encouragement. He would frequently say 198 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. to me, (while I was laboring under difficulties which every young physician has to encounter,) "goon; all must creep before they can walk; it will be your turn to give counsel by and by ;" always ending his remarks with that peculiar laugh of his, all of which tended to give me new hopes and desires to become master of my profession, and to be able to do good to suffering humanity. After having had four years' practice, and some seven years' intimate acquaintance with this dear friend, we formed a partnership in business, and pur- chased this place, (at Westboro',) for the purpose of fitting it up to receive patients, that we might be better able to carry out the great principles of re- form in the science of medicine. We commenced our practice together on the first day of last March ; and never had I known the Dr. to appear more cheerful and happy, or to enjoy better health, than he did from the time we commenced practice togeth- er to the time of his death, at that terrible Norwalk disaster. The news of his death came to me like a thunder- bolt ; though I had been in sad suspense for two or three days previous. Never, from childhood, have I shed such a flood of tears as I shed for that good man. Never have I seen the man' for whom my at- tachment was stronger than for him. He would 'stand by friend or foe, so ijar as he considered them right, if the whole world besides were against hka. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 199 Never have I been acquainted with a more conscien- tious person than he. If he failed to do justice to any one, that one was himself. All who knew him seemed to enjoy his society. He had a peculiar faculty to interest people, wheth- er young or old. He was always familiar and social with his patients, so much so, that I have often heard them remark, that he seemed like one of their fami- ly, and that they were always happy to see him, whether they required his services or not. He has .also left a large circle of friends to mourn his loss in this town, though he was with them but a few months. I have heard many persons in Westr boro' remark, since his death, that they never knew a person to gain the entire confidence of so large a number in so short a time, as had Dr. Wilmarth dur- ing his stay in their midst. The people seemed to have rejoiced that he had come among them. They were pleased with him. Even many who did not believe in his mode of practice, confessed that they " liked the man—so unassuming, so plain, so hon- est," they say, "he showed what he was on first acquaintance." And so he did. He was Dr. Wil- marth here, he was Dr. Wilmarth there, he was Dr. Wilmarth every where. All who well knew him, respected and loved him. But he has gone, and we can never behold that noble brow and benignant form, nor receive his coun- sels more, on this earth. It is hard for me to recon- 200 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. cile myself to his death, cut off as he was, in an instant, with many others, and whilst he was in health and usefulness, by the recklessness of those under whose care they had placed their lives ! My connection with Dr. Wilmarth was a happy one. I have thought many times, since his death, that it was too good to be lasting. Many hundred miles have we rode together, many pleasant days have we spent in each other's society, and never did the first word of difficulty pass between us during our six or seven years' intimate acquaintance. Our families were well suited to each other. Mrs. Hero's attachments for the Dr. and his family were very strong, and we both lament his loss most deep- ly. Yet there is a consolation in feeling that he is still progressing, and that his useful and Christian life is a worthy example to us all. Yours most sincerely, J. H. Hero. Wm. H. Fish. FROM DR. LEVI REUBEN. Wilmington, Del, Sept. 27, 1853. Mr. Wm. H. Fish : Dear Sir :—A stranger to yourself, I am induc- ed to write you through the suggestion of our muut- al friend, Dr. J. H. Hero, of Westboro', Mass., MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 201 and still more by the love and respect I entertain for that lamented friend of us all, who is the subject of the brief and imperfect remarks that follow : %fc "ffc ^r T& ¥fc Among the leading features in the character of our lamented friend, would seem to have been his inflexible honesty of thought and purpose, which discarded from the conduct of life all that in many others gets so much credit under the name of tact, or so much charity under the title of expediency. This simple straight-forwardness constituted a promi- nent and beautiful element of all his intercourse with his fellows. Truth and purity, to him, did not sit on inaccessible bights, to be only dreamed of, and deified, and forgotten ; but they came down to him, dwelt in his heart, sat on his lips, and won substan- tial homage in the actions of his every-day life. With the rare merit of not beiug thereby made a cynic, he seemed possessed of an utter disrelish and aversion for the petty connivances, the falsities, and the dissimulations, which have incorporated them- selves to so deplorable an extent into all the relations of business—indeed, into the whole structure of society. These he hated sincerely ; and yet he lost not on that account bis love for, or his generous sym- pathy with his fellow-men. Possessed in a large de- gree of a practical insight into the secret springs ly- ing at the bottom of all the workings of the human heart,—an intuition that stripped the gauze from 202 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. semblances, and deciphered with a clear eye tho rigid outlines of realities, he could but hate shams and plausibilities, and long to see the real made the universal object of interest, of search, and of devotion. Thus, from insight, and from love alike, would our friend have been more than the physician of the bodies of individuals. He would have been the physician of hearts and heads—a Healer of the maladies of society. Indeed, to such an extent as they would allow, with whom lie met, he was such. A quiet, but controlling atmosphere of resistance to injustice and chicanery, and a love for uprightness and truth, went with him wherever he went, and quickened the latent manhood of those on whom its influence fell. But Dr. Wilmarth lived too late, or far too early, to be appreciated at his true value. The days of "" patriarchal simplicity" have passed away. Man has ere this age " sought out many inventions ;" and it will take the stern tutelage of ages to come to bring him back to a universal recognition of the great truths, that, no matter how Cunning may have grown in her cunningness, her aid were better never invoked, and that, no matter how hopeless and bar- ren the path of unflinching rectitude may grow be- fore us, there is no other for which we can safely desert it! To these truths men will come eventual- ly, because no experience is lost on the human mind, MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 203 however little we may at once see the fruits of it; and when that day has arrived, then may such as he whom we now mourn, receive the appreciation and the honor they really deserve. I cannot more appropriately close this brief tribute, than by introducing a few extracts from letters writ- ten me by the deceased, while in the pursuit of a business in which he experienced some disappoint- ments. His integrity did not desert him at such a time, but only proved its own genuineness. Says he, in a letter dated July 11, 1851, " I am very suspicious when I see the world running wild after a particular individual, that he carries some charm about him. ' The end justifies the means,' is the established motto of this world ; and it has become so inwrought into the very soul of society, that peo- ple stand aghast at one who is, clear through, dis- sect him as you will, an honest man. To be ' shrewd,' or ' a little old,' to ' humbug a little for folks' good,' to be wise enough not to tell ' the whole truth,'—these have become oracular precepts with the present generation." Again, he says, " Can there not be some feasible way to enlighten the pub- he a little faster ? It seems as though the Medical world was as slow in its formations, as the mineral, Let us each put our mark upon the layer now depos- iting ; so that those who come after us may know it by its purity, malleability and richness." In a letter dated Sept. 25th of the same year, he 204 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. writes, " One thing more. I wish all my motives were pure. I am not wholly blind to my own faults and weakness; but I desire to be frank, truthful and honest, with all men. What is a man, or a wo- man, without a character for truth ? Nothing— worse than nothing, to confide in. When will hu- man beings bear a cloirvoyant inspection of charac- ter '? What a pity we cannot be taken at par ! Whether a man be Doctor or patient, proprietor or bath-servant, for heaven and earth's sake, let him be honest. This world will never be cured of its mala- dies, moral or physical, by ' shrewdness.'': In his last letter to me, he writes, " Science and humanity are slowly progressing" towards perfection ; but thousands on thousands must die on the way. Let us contribute our mite to the great ocean of truth, and light, and love, that will ultimately over- flow and sweep away the masses of error, darkness and discord, that afflict poor, fallen humanity !" Such was the hope,—such were the principles, and kindred to these was the life of our friend, who has been called so early from a field in which he was needed. Of such it may be truly said, that they are the " salt of the earth." When shall we find society more liberally seasoned with the influence of such minds ? We may hope, indeed, that the breach occasioned in society, by the departure of this good man, will be filled in time ; but alas ! time can never restore to the circle of home, the MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 205 endeared father, or to his many admirers, their faith- ful friend. Allow me to subscribe myself, Sir, your well- wisher and humble servant, Levi Reuben. FROM REV. JOHN F. JUDD. Montgomery, N. T., June 22, 1853. Mr. Fish : Dear Sir:—It was my privilege to be a patient of the late Dr. Wilmarth, while located at New Graefenberg, N. Y. Though from the feeble state of my health, prevented from cultivating his ac- quaintance as intimately as I desired, I saw sufficient of him to impress me with a sense of his great worth, both as a man, and as a physician. Naturally gifted with a quick perception, he was a close observer of men and things: his examina- tions were thorough, his judgment ready and sound. While these characteristics inspired his patients with confidence in his professional ability, bis tender sym- pathies, kindness of manner, cheerful disposition, and general sociability, endeared him as a friend. His mind was well cultivated and richly stored, his conversation both entertaining and instructive ; and his patients can all, I think, testify to his happy 206 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH faculty of raising their drooping spirits, by his hu- morous recitations. Conscientiousness and benevolence were both large in his phrenDlogical development; and both were conspicuous in the activities of his life. He despis- ed all that was low and mean, yet cheerfully render- ed honor where it was due. His heart was quickly touched either at the sight or recital of human mise- ry and woe ; white his hand and purse were as readily affected as his feelings, and both were cheer- fully opened to relieve the suffering. Dr. W. repeatedly expressed to me his regret, that the charges at Water-Cures, generally, were so high as to exclude the extremely poor from their benefits, and he hoped to live to effect, in this re- Bpect, a much-needed reform—so as to bring the benefits of Hydropathic treatment within the range of the most destitute. He despised every species of quackery, and deep- ly regretted that much of it was held in hydropathic solution. While his confidence in Hydropathy was fixed, he realized that it was often injured by the extravagance, ignorance and quackery of its profess- ed friends. In a letter now in my possession, speak- ing of a recent Water-Cure Circular, he says:— " There is much truth in it; but it is put forth with- out the usual discount I am in the habit of making' in such cases. Let us have the whole truth—unfa- vorable as well as favorable. There is nothing gain- MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 207 ed, either to an individual or to the world, by overrating, exaggerating, or misrepresenting; and, if there was, it would be wrong to do it." This brief paragraph is a faithful index to his character. He loved truth and right The fact that a thing was untrue or wrong was a sufficient reason, in the decision of his judgment, to leave it unheeded or undone, even though a contrary course might prom- ise temporal honor, fame or wealth. The fidelity and kindness of Dr. Wilmarth to me, as his patient, and their continuance after this relation between us had ceased to exist, have made an indel- ible impression on my heart. While faithful in disclosing whatever he believed unfavorable in my symptoms, by word of mouth while with him, and bince by letter, he would add something to lead me to "hope on, hope ever," in humble reliance on God's almighty aid. Dr. W. was a liberal hearted Christian—cheerful, active, faithful; believing in the common brother- hood of man, and hoping for salvation through the merits of that Savior who died for all. As a husband and father, he was in many respects a pattern for all; his wife was his companion—not a mere domestic drudge ; his children were drawn near to him by kindness and familiarity, while his high moral worth led them to " honor their father." But the man, physician, husband, father and Christian, is no more ! Yes, the better part of him 208 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. is, we believe, forever with God above ; while hia memory is a precious legacy to those who mourn his loss below. As his life was a public blessing, so is his death a public calamity. 31 ay Cod cause his mantle, Elijah-like, to descend upon one worthy to fill his place ; while He comforts the widow and the fatherless with the blessings of this life, and the hope of joys in that to come. Joun F. Judd. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 209 CHAPTER IX. Letters from Dr. Wilmarth. This chapter is made up principally of Letters from Dr. Wilmarth to Dr. Hero, and are introduced here because they so strikingly illustrate some of the pe- culiar qualities of his mind and heart, and some of the prominent traits of his character, brought out in the body of the Memoir—particularly his humor, and his hostility to all '' humbuggery.'' The Letters to his Son may be specially serviceable to such young men as may be disposed to read them. They con- tain valuable advice. New Grcefenberg, N. Y, Sept. 28, 1853. Dear Doctor: You see I am close on the track of Allopathy, Wonderopathy, and Womanopathy, and when I have concentrated all the pathies, I will tell you what I intend to do with them, (if the Lord will that I should live a few years longer.) I can't give up the idea that there is a downright honest course that N 210 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. will let a Dr. live as well as his patients, and do them a great amount of good into the bargain. I shall keep trying to find that vein while I live. May be you can help me. What if we should hunt to- gether one season 1 B. Wilmarth. New Grcefenberg, Jan. 1, 1852. Dear Doctor :— * * * Diplomas are cheap now-a-days; but I hope you will get one of the first quality, if it does cost more—i. e. get the knowledge first, and there will be no more trouble in getting a diploma than there is in getting married, when two kindred hearts happen to meet and fall desperately in love with each other. There will be medical priests enough glad to perform the ceremony. * * * * Never mind; the world will see, after a while, what it is to be medically wise, as well as morally. In the language of Pope : " 'Tis but to know how little can be known, To see all others' faults and feel our own." Translated medically— 'Tis but to learn how little can be done, To do that little and let the rest alone. " Hands off" from my clock-work, I say, if you are going to tomahawk me, or poison me with your nostrums. I would rather trust dame Nature alone, MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 211 and the God of Nature, with a decent, kind-hearted nurse, and a plenty of pure, cold, tepid, or hot wa- ter, to carry me through a change of matter, than the whole tribe of Allopathic physicians in New England, armed and equipped as their " law directs." Indeed, the nearer armed and equipped according to law, the more I should fear them. If you wish to except any of our old antagonist friends, you may. I continue to lecture to the New Yorkers about once a week, on the general subject of Medical Reform. My last was on " Medical Delusions." I wish you had been present to " witness to the truth." 0, the blindness and superstition, and the ridiculous proceedings of both Drs. and patients ! It seems as if neither had common sense, to say nothing about science. But a brighter day is dawn- ing upon the invalid world, and it is our mission, I think, to diffuse the light of that day, by lighting our little torches at the great Source, and setting them upon a candle-stand, in some of the dark and benighted corners of the earth. As I expected, there is lots of flummery and fuss- ation in that new pathy about which I have written you before ; as well as some valuable practical truth, which I am in a fair way to get hold of. So we go. I told them last night, that every want created a supply; that the world wanted to be humbugged, and I thought it had been well provided for. B. Wilmarth. N* 212 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. Lebanon Springs, Sept. 1, 1852. Dear Doctor :— That gaseous form of a man (gas condensed) alias-------, called before your letter arrived and told his own story. I had a hard struggle to treat him as I wish to treat every body, viz., courteously. He was such a perfect personification of bombast, and an intolerable bore, withal, that I had a severe trial with him. He wondered that I could not cure my patients, (all of them, palsy and all) ; thought he could—felt of their pulse, &c. &c, and made quite a parade about here. " Guess" he knows something ; but not so much as to be any damage to his patients, though it might be fatal to him. I thought of tapping him while here, but I found he would not stay long enough to heal up; so I left it to nature, and his own rule, which, he says, " never fails him." But so it goes. Humbug a good deal, with a little truth, if you want to make money. * * What do you think I care for jack o' lan- terns, whatever form they assume ? Gas can be con- densed in human form, as well as in any other, if you only have a human skin prepared for it. Why not? There are those whose pores never transmitted a generous perspiration in all their life ; but, like bladder-fish, they fill themselves with gas and puff it out at their mouths. Have you not seen them in ----? They abound in some regions. You will MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 213 pardon me this, when you recollect how disgusting all vanity and puffation are to me, and how much I desire plain, unvarnished truth. As ever, B. W. New Grcefenberg, Aug. 22, 1851. Dear Doctor :— Having obtained one of H.'s papers, " extra," I I send it forthwith for your perusal. What will you think of such a man ? I thought I had before sent you the greatest puff abroad,.(viz. Dr. R----'s pa- per.) But, if possible, H. performs more wonders in the world than R. And there is-----, close* by him, doing the same big business—$15,000 a year ! What do you think of that! How much could you and I do at this business together, if we should strip it of its mystery and humbuggery ? If we could do half I would go into it—would you not, with me ? There is no doubt, however, but that they perform some very remarkable cures. I have conversed with patients who have been there, and have got a little inkling of the treatment. They do verily take some most dismal, bed-ridden cases, and bring them upon their feet in a comparatively short time—much short- er than pure Hydropathy would. Of this I have no doubt. But they do humbug, also, tremendously. You will see, by the paper, that they cover all the 214 memoir of dr. wilmarth. medical pathies and means, to catch all sorts of " fish." If I am privileged with going to----, I intend to scrutinize closely, if they will let me, (though I understand there is great secrecy about the business,) and whatever is true and valuable in their practice I shall adopt as I have opportunity. I am willing to learn truth from any quarter. Per- haps you may yet benefit some of your "nervous" patients by this new pathy. As ever, B. WlLMARTn. New Grcefenberg, Aug. 22, 1851. Dear Doctor :— Go on—you are in the right position, I think. I hope you will prosper in every righteous undertak- ing. I am glad your " better half" is so " smart." She is a help-meet for you in this time of need. I think I might justly say, I have such an one myself. We have been lucky wights in matrimony, for which we have great reason to be thankful to the " Giver of every good gift." " He that findeth a good wife, findeth a good thing," (prize) worth more than the largest lump yet found on California's shore. But to return from this short episode on wives,—some of whom are bad things, too bad to think of, much more to write about,—I will talk a little on professional and other matters. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 215 We are not quite up to you in patients—only 15 now. 1 intend to go a fishing again soon, and if they bite well, I shall continue at it, occasionally, through September and October, (if the Lord will.) I think that is the true and honest policy. Enlight- en the people. Be candid. Hold out no false colors. Tell them how much to expect, and hoW much not to expect. Water-Cure has been overrat- ed by some ; and a reaction, or rather, relaxation, has taken place. It has promised more than it could per- form, and lost credit by it, as every false witness does. But Water-Cure itself, is not to blame for this. It is mercenary and ignorant representatives, that have been to blame. Never mind, it will find its true level yet. It is not to be laughed down, nor sneered, nor sneezed down. It has specific virtues that no other remedial system yet known, possesses. When its enthusiastic advocates have cooled off a little, and its enemies have been beaten back, and the pub- lic mind enlightened upon the subject, there will be a much more healthy and rational opinion and prac- tice in relation to it. Having tried Allopathy and Botanico-Thompson- ism, to my satisfaction, for twenty years, and Hy- dropathy, more or less, for four years, I feel some- what qualified to judge of the merits of each, so called, system ; and although I do not consider the Water-Cure system perfect, I do declare it, as my solemn conviction, incalculably better than any other 216 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. system of medication ever started. I can cure more with it—I can cure some with it that cannot be cured at all, by medicine; especially such cases as have already been poisoned half to death, by drug medi- cation. Nevertheless, I will be candid on the other side. I honestly believe that some cases would be far less tedious, if a judicious use of mild medicines, principally tonic, in connection with the Water-Cure processes, was practiced. I have no sympathy with the doctrine that all mellicines are evil only, and that continually, particularly that class which go to make up the constituent parts of the human system, as, iron, phosporus, lime, salt, soda, acids, &c.— substances which we cannot subsist without. It is sheer nonsense, to say it is always wrong to adminis- ter these substances, as well as some others, when the system is manifestly deficient in them. I admit that they may and will be acquired from proper diet and drink in time, if the patient lives long enough. What I affirm is, that the cure can be hastened by a large per cent., and therefore it ought to be given. Who wants to be drenched in skin and purse a year, if he can be cured by the aid of a little tonic medi- cine in six months ? Nobody but zealous bigots, or extreme ultraists. It has often been said, and I believe with truth, that many would choose to die under orthodox medical treatment rather than be cured by Hydropathy. We have the same class of persons on the other side of the fence, who would MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 217 rather die under Hydropathy than take medicine. Such extreme exclusiveness is very foolish as well as wicked. But it proves the old story true, of the man who was canvassing the three professions, to see which would be the most lucrative, and finally decid- ed to be a lawyer; for although people would give something to save their souls, and considerable to save their bodies, yet they would give more to have their wills than they would for soul and body both. * * * I do not like extremes in any thing. We live in a great world, and there are more things in it than some people have dreamed of. We see a a great many wiseacres poking about with a little telescope before one of their eyes, and as Pope says:— " Not one looks backward, onward still he goes, Yet ne'er looks forward farther than his nose." And yet the* ninnies imagine they see all creation through. Let us not be like unto them, but exam- ine all things within our power, gather the good and cast the bad away; and although our heads can hold but a fraction of the combined wisdom and knowl- edge in the world, we wili'try to keep them full, and deal it out to the best advantage to the fellow- beings within our influence, profiting by it ourselves also. We must give account of our stewardship by and by, and may we so live and improve our talents that we can do it " with joy and not with grief." Yours, as ever, B. Wilmarth. 218 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH New Grcefenberg, Dec. 12, 1851. Dear Doctor :— I never before so much felt the need of knowl- edge, more knowledge ; I want to know the secret causes of nature, that produce the effects I daily see in the physical, mental and moral Avorld. I mean to improve the remainder of my, life in acquir- ing and dispensing knowledge, chiefly in relation to the physical world, and especially physical man,— (I don't mean physic, for man has taken a plenty of that already.) My faith grows stronger and stronger in God and nature, and less and less in pukes and physic. I am engaged in lecturing now- a-days, on the superstitious belief in drugs and charms, and trying to awaken a sound and rational faith in the power of God, implanted in the human organism, for its defense and restoration, when at- tacked by disease. But 0, what havoc has been made ! How oft might Nature justly pray—" Save me from my friends, I will take care of my enemies." Physicians have acted like blind men armed with spears and clubs, in a rough-and-tumble contest, not knowing friend from foe, because they could not see. How many, think ye, have been slain in----, by enlisting blind men to fight for Nature ? Echo, many. As ever, B. Wilmarth. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 219 New Grcefenberg, Feb. 2, 1852. Dear Doctor :— Yours of the 30th came safe. I make a prompt, hut brief reply. Glad you succeed so well in Pneu- monia, both on yourself and others. It is easy to doctor if you know how, i. e. know enough to do no harm—that's half the battle. " Of all the ills that suffering man endures, The largest fraction, liberal Nature cures ; Of those remaining, 'tis the smallest part Yields to the efforts of judicious art; But simple Kindness, kneeling by the bed, To shift the pillow for the sick man's head ; Give the fresh draught to cool the lips that burn, Fan the hot brow, the weary frame to turn ; Kindness—untutored by our grave M. Ds, But Nature's graduate, whom she schools to please, Wins back more sufferers with her voice and smile, Than all the trumpery in the druggist's pile." Extract from Dr. Holmes' "Mor/iinff Visit." There you have an Allopath's confession ! I can't stop to comment. I am at this time treating a case of Pneumonia with kindness, and water, and air, and broth; and it operates like a charm to him, but is poverty to me ; for I can't keep him sick long enough to make anything out of the job. If the Lord will, my wife and Phila will soon leave here—Phila for Hopedale School, my wife for a higher School, viz., " The Boston Female Medical College." Like " Obadiah," in the old school 220 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. book, we have just waked up to a sense of things, and resolved to " begin anew our journey and our life." Yours, as ever, . B. Wilmarth. New Lebanon Spa. July 4, 1852. Dear Son :— We were glad to hear from you last week. Glad you enjoy so good health. Glad you are able to perform so much labor. Glad you are so cautious, especially with regard to " burning fluid"—that you do not need a "scientific experiment" to convince you that it is " explosive," and dangerous in the extreme. But most of all, we are glad to believe that our son is endeavoring to walk in the paths of wis- dom and righteousness. God has been good to us, who are your earthly parents, and to you, our child, in turning your feet into his testimonies. 0, let them ever be your delight! Depart not from the law of the Lord. Labor for the best gifts, and abundance of grace. Go not within the influence of temptation to any crime, however small. Then will your path shine brighter and brighter unto the per- fect day. Be very careful of your physical health, as well as moral. Do not try so hard to do and earn "much, as to do what you do well. MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 221 I have been to New Grasfenberg, over a hundred miles distant, to see a young man about your age, with inflammation of the brain, in the last stage. He died in three days after. ** He was my pa- tient last fall, and did exceedingly well under my care. But, not getting well fast enough, of his scrofula and sore eyes, (he was a hard student), he left Water-Cure and tried Allopathy; took large quantities of Iodine and Cicuta, determined his dis- ease to his stomach and brain, which ended in death. Literally killed by Iodine ! Mother says you knew him. It was E-----F-----. He was a very intel- ligent and pious young man, and the world has met with a great loss in his death ; but he rests in peace. Yours, as ever, B. Wilmarth. New Grcefenberg, Feb. 25, 1852. Dear Son :— * * * I hope you will be careful of your health, and not tax your energies too much. Those headaches you complained of, are a loud warning not to go any farther, or rather, not so far. There is no doubt in my mind but the predisposing cause of Augustus LAllou's death, was over-action of the brain—exhaustion of the vital power. He was not fully consolidated, had a large, active brain, was 222 MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. ambitious to excel, and probably was praised and put ahead—exerted himself to discharge his duties faithfully, and sunk a martyr to over-exertion of the young faculties of his mind. Take warning by this sad "event, and do what yon can to escape the same fate. You had better go slower and be longer climbing the hill of learning and fame. God bless and preserve you, and us all, till we meet again. From your affectionate father, B. Wilmarth. With a few additional words, I must now take leave of my readers. The task of preparing this Memoir has been a pleasant, though, in some re- spects, a painful one ; and no one can be more con- scious than myself of the imperfect manner of its execution. It is also with regret that I am compelled to send it forth to the world without more accuracy and finish. I will only say, however, that, such as it is, I commend it to those who knew, esteemed, and loved Dr. Wilmarth, hoping that it will prove to them an acceptable offering : and if a wider circle shall receive it, as a well-meant, and not altogether unsuccessful, effort, to add one more to the class of MEMOIR OF DR. WILMARTH. 223 useful biographies which are issuing, in such large numbers, from the Press, I shall be more than satis- fied ; grateful to the Father of all spirits for the humble ability thus to serve Him, and the cause of righteousness and humanity. May the good Dr. so speak to many, at least, of his friends, by his exam- ple, herein recorded, and by the still small voice that comes from his presence in the spiritual and heavenly world, as to aid in preparing them for hap- py companionships with him hereafter. As some who may rea< ,[1,01